Wuss or Leader?

[Enigma]

David DeAngelo said:

Women aren't attracted to WUSSIES. So how could you characterize a Wuss? A Wussy is a guy who is weak, indecisive, irresponsible and insecure. A Wussy isn't in control, and he doesn't make decisions. Women feel ATTRACTION for men who demonstrate the qualities of the LEADER. How would you characterize a LEADER? A LEADER is a man who is in control of the situation, and who makes decisions and follows through on them WITHOUT needing approval from others.
Do you agree girls?

[IceTea]

I thought some women attracted to gays.

[NaBHaN]

I thought some women attracted to gays.
what does gays have to do with anything that has been said in this thread? so people who arent strong enough to be leaders are considered gays to you? :duh:

[Pineapple Thief]

Well, u asked for girls' opinions. I dunno, but sometimes its hard to tell the difference between a leader and a wuss who acts like a leader.

[Solafa]

hello,

i dont think that i agree with this assumption.....


As they are some female who would prefer a wuss man, for they are a freak in control and they tend to be always leaders and they wont want to be in a position to be facing a control man which will lead to some unbalance if the both sides did not get to an agreement to be both in a half half control:)

For example, A woman who gets married to a young man is always tend to be in control, and the young man always to be the wuss...

As the reasons for a young man to get married to an old woman could had depended on she is rich, she has a big house, many porsh cars and she had a big business firm that this young guy could be a director or a manger in her firm........

SO she is owning every thing and she can do what so ever she wants and for him not to loose such chances to live in a luxury life then he wont mind her to be in control and him not to, even if it was against his nature! :scold:

[marshmallowhut]

How individuals decide what they want is really subjective... so I'd disagree with the assumption... Some girls might like a wuss.. some might like leaders.. it all depends..

personally i'd have to say i'd prefer a guy who is a leader but who respects what i have to say.

[Cute_One]

I would want someone whose a leader and knows what he wants out of his life...

[9udfa]

If i were to choose i'd definately go for a leader.
I want a man i feel safest engulfed in his protective arms, rather then the other way around!
:)

[Libellula]

I agree with most of it, except the bit about leaders making decisions without asking for others' approval. Now that I don't believe in. I want someone who'll negotiate things with me. We're PARTNERS, not master and slave :)

But as for the rest, men who are weak, indecisive, etc., I think it's true that those are total turn offs.

[Intellective]

Ofcoz a leader. why would i want to order someone all the time.

I want to be with someone who can deal with any kind of situation,Knows what he wants,knows what he is talking about. Someone responsible.

[CrazyReD]

how do u define a leader though?

[marshmallowhut]

I'm guessing a typical definition of a leader would be someone who thinks for himself instead of blindly following whatever is asked of him.. someone who takes the initiative to get things done and has a clear idea of what he wants and how he should be?

[Lucaria]

I thought some women attracted to gays.

GAY leaders ARE them most attractive guys!! :hyper:

[Libellula]

how do u define a leader though?

Someone who is confident and independant? Someone who can take control of a situation when it's needed

[Orion]

LoooooooL ............. when you think you've read it all.

[Blossom]

i don't need a leader but a partner...and i would not consider someone who asks for his wife opinon and let her take control (sometimes!) a wuss.

[Enigma]

how do u define a leader though?
Didn't you read the first post? It defines it there:


A LEADER is a man who is in control of the situation, and who makes decisions and follows through on them WITHOUT needing approval from others.

[IceTea]

A good leader is the one who ask others for opinions before taking decison, look at the queen of saba'a she asked for her people opinion to advice her, what happend to the "shura"?

Lucaria, do you have an example of a gay leader?

[fatamooo]

Alexander the great...

I personally would want a guy who's a leader and not a wuss - nothing is less attractive than a guy who doesnt know how to take care of himself and isn't independant.

[sophis^catrina]

I need a leader. :love: Someone who does ask me for advise, but who is much wiser than me that he really does not even need to ask, but asks out of his wisdom and love for me. :love: Someone who I look up to and is much more knowledgeable, yet he treats me as his equal.

Leaders all the way. :cool: