The Sinner!

[Haroundb]

She passes by all of them, hungry eyes are eating pieces of her body and no one would not get even a small piece of her… every one will eat from her white flesh. She is weaker than she think and they are hungrier than they think, and the community is an old man with a very weak eye sight. Hundred times in the minute this young flesh is being raped, and thousand sins she spread. For years she is known for her open mind and broad chest, and when the gas catches the fire and every thin blow and burn her face, we get only one line “A 35 year old woman raped by a three teenagers!”.

Now my question is, a woman who goes mostly naked or in very tight clothes in the streets, doesn’t she know that she could be raped? What could be inside her mind while she is in front of the mirror adjusting her makeup and uncovering her beauty, in the night she was raped? Did she ever think of it? What can make a woman so blind to see the evil close to the only precious thing she owns, her dignity!?

[fatamooo]

Some women I guess think they need a lot of male attention to feel like women...

Maybe this should be in the Religion Sabla?

[Omani King]

hmm no i thinks its more of a social problem too :) !!
hmm i dunno how those women think but yeah i think they want mens attention....n they feel how they were wrong in doing it, after she have been through a problem e.g. being raped, which is actually not good sum1 should have a longer view...neway the percentage of rape is very low but it could happen to anyone!!

[Enigma]

1. No woman asks or wants to be raped. Nor should she be blamed for it no matter WHAT she is wearing.

2. Most rapes occur within the families; not stranger rape.

3. A lot of women don't dress purely to attract men; sometimes its just for herself because she wants to feel "free". I'm not encouraging it or giving her excuses but its true.

4. If a guy wants to rape you; he'll do it whether you are wearing the biggest abaya or a bikini. It doesn't matter. Rape isn't about sexual attraction its about domination (and I've said this countless times..).

That said, every woman should take into account what she is wearing and revealing. There is no excuse for her to dress in anything skimpy just like there's no excuse for rape. The latter though, is much worse :)

[Scorpio27]

Sorry, i disagree Enigma
Thanks, I agree Fatamo0o.

Dress has some impact on sex maniacs. :(

[Haroundb]

Enigma is too much realistic!
Now if you are a man you would feel that pain of lust in the eyes of those who can't think too much. If you put him in the desert and with no water or food for days and days, then you show him big roasted checken with cold juice and water, you don't expect him to ask (who's flesh is this?).

I am more realistic than you are engy.

[sophis^catrina]

^^^ You're comparing women to food?

[Haroundb]

It is not women are life food, I never said so, it is the desire for sex is like the desire for food, you can’t resist it, and when you are hungry you are possessed with food and you will not think probably till you eat probably. I know that we must control the desire inside us but some can’t and those who are I am talking about, those who can’t close their eyes when they see the flesh of a posing women, and still they can’t control the desire inside them, this is how they fall in the sin and commit their horrible mistake.

I was defending the idea that we don’t have to blame the hungry emotions only and forget that posing in front of these minds is a something very dangerous. Then I said that sex is like food, simply a desire that we were born with it. It is very obvious and clear so that we all know that we are just living in this life and using our minds to control our desires. When Islam did come and say don’t look, it was very clear to anyone who can think that looking is mainly the reason for doing. You don’t look then you don’t know of the existence of the XXX in front of you.

Btw … yes women are like food for men. Sure they are … what do you think, aren’t they the food for the soul as same as meat is the food for the stomach?

I know some may think that I am so materialistic, but I am not, if you think carefully yhou will get to know that it is you that you don’t see the reality. Like we always do decorate our words and put lots of ornament on it and then when we fall in the sin we just start wondering “something is wrong!”. I am not afraid to face my reality and sure every one shouldn’t. This is the main point we must consider, knowing what are we facing.

If you don’t know what you are facing you will not know how to face it… isn’t it?

[Cute_One]

so ur if she gets raped bcuz she made a sin of not wearing something decent, it''s her punishment , or she also gets sinned of what happend to her ....thats what she deserves bcuz of what she wore??!!!!!

[Haroundb]

so ur if she gets raped bcuz she made a sin of not wearing something decent, it''s her punishment , or she also gets sinned of what happend to her ....thats what she deserves bcuz of what she wore??!!!!!
Really I don't get your point!

[Cute_One]

y3ne bcuz she wore tight jeans ( one sin) , she deserves to get rapped?? and also deserves to get the sin of the raper ( another sin)

[Haroundb]

Yes sure 100% yes.
If you need the truth. Just be honest to yourself, if you are so much thirsty and you are deeply in need for water, your throat is hard like rock, and a man walking in front of you with a wonderful cold (out of the frig) bottle of water throwing it on the floor. For 4 hours you are watching this mad guy doing this mad actions in front of you and he knows that you are dying for water ( then you have to add + “Teasing” factor).

What about after 8 hours of suffering mentally and physically, if you had the chance to take a sip of this water, wouldn’t you think of doing it? …

Are you saying “No” I will hold to myself? Then what about 10 hours? Hold still, 24 hours and he is dancing in front of you while throwing the water on the ground…? How many sins you think this man has done for you?

They wait not only for 24 hours, no … they wait for 30+ years, and see 1000+ bottles of cold water shaking her body in lust in front of them… what do you expect from this sad story???

Believe me, a sin in the nightclub is not like a sin in the mosque or church. The problem is not in the gas itself, the problem is when you play with it near the fire! The more the situation is hard the more the sine will be and the more the pressure and tense. You know how the economical situation many people are living now, and you know that unemployment steels the dream from the future.

Let that naked lady go to the desert and just walk totally nude for 10 years, she will hardly get one sins! Now let her walk for just 5 minutes in front of any TV station, she will get 1000,000 sins in a second!

Got me!

[Wardat_il'7leej]

No woman asks to be raped or even approached by men who could harm her in any way. There are more than 100 reasons that can induce such an act from any man be it a women who is covered up from head to toe or someone who ‘displays’ her beauty. The evil within men who commit such crimes are generated by mere lust and immoral thought which the women does not have to be a source or trigger for such vile crimes.

[Enigma]

Haroun, if what you say is true .. that women are to blame for being raped. Then why don't we remove the laws that punish rapists? Why does God have a punishment for a rapist for that matter? Its not his fault is it!

[Haroundb]

No woman asks to be raped or even approached by men who could harm her in any way. There are more than 100 reasons that can induce such an act from any man be it a women who is covered up from head to toe or someone who ‘displays’ her beauty. The evil within men who commit such crimes are generated by mere lust and immoral thought which the women does not have to be a source or trigger for such vile crimes.
READ MY LAST POST!

[Haroundb]

Haroun, if what you say is true .. that women are to blame for being raped...
First, don't say "the women are to blame for being raped.", Say "some of" the women are to blame for being raped.


...Then why don't we remove the laws that punish rapists? Why does God have a punishment for a rapist for that matter? Its not his fault is it!
Who said it is not his fault? God have a punishment for a rapist for that matter because a fault from one side don't validate a fault in the other side.
I never said it is not his fault, I am saying that she is having a big part of the sin and the punishment. Being raped is her punishment...

[DeSerTDesTroYeR]

Each is responsible of what they do and the consequences that can come from it. But not responsible of what others do even if it's because of what they did. Everyone has their own set of mind to know what to do or what not to do.

A wrong doesnt mean it incourages or excuses another wrong.