View Full Version : Broken family and rejoined family (couples and kids status)


Scorpio27
09-12-04, 09:21 PM
We often come to know about the kids of broken families where the kids and youths live in irritation, insecurity and in mental problems.

There are some families where the parents had reunion after long struggle or short but intense catastrophe. There the kids and youths (children) are suffered too.

How would you describe the two scenarios and what negative impact you consider might the children of those families suffer from.

And you may briefly explain the differences and struggles between broken and reunited families.

There is another issue between the couple, do you think they can live happily after reunion? We hear that if you repair a broken mirrir it obviously wount ever give a perfect image.!


:help:

Sorry as I couldn’t describe the issue properly. If anybody can rephrase I would appreciate.

Thanks

Abs
16-12-04, 04:05 PM
Kids always look upto their parents for guidance and love and security. Once the parents start inhouse fights and squabbles, the kids looks at it and it mentally scars them at such a young age, so much that they are never able to recover from it. This mostly happens when the parents have split.

A parents re-union does help in a way, but the scar remains on the children;s mind. Afterall the re-union is mostly done in favour of the child, but the parents hardly live happily.

A good topic Scorpio.

Scorpio27
16-12-04, 06:52 PM
Thanks for the participation and posting your view. You are right; you posted exactly what I feel.

I know a family which reunion after only few months’ detachment but the kid had some mental problem but often not visible. At certain issue and circumstances that comes out. Though s/he hides the mental irritation but I am afraid while s/he grow up the problem shall put huge impact on his/her life.

Thanks, waiting for others opinion and experiences if they have.

Scorpio27
18-12-04, 12:07 AM
Thanks dear members for appreciating me for this thread. I thank again for the reps but I would appreciate if you friends would post a sentence or at least word herein.

I believe its not a alien issue, it persists in our society and families.
Any experience or queries would make this thread achieve its goal.

All the best to all.

Sure Thing
21-12-04, 05:44 AM
Fighitings,arguments drives a family to fall apart and it has a HUGE influence to the kids. Its a family but with no strong foundation of love.