After i read in Dorellam thread of Black Sheep in the family got me thinking.

How would you feel?

When you feel that you are loved and wanted because they want something from you. Even if its not an object,i mean like to use you in someways just to get whatever they want for their on benefit done.
Not people like outsiders but your own family parents or sisters and brothers they get closer to you when they are in need.

Ever experinced that?
How would you react with your feelings? if its good or bad?

Would you ignore and move on?
Will it affect your life?

Ever experinced that?
How would you react with your feelings? if its good or bad?

Would you ignore and move on?
Will it affect your life?

well we all get close to people because we need them, wether for friendship, love or support.
However, what I wouldnt tolarate is if a person get close because of material benfit.

Materialy, I never felt that somone is close to be to use me .. I dont think I have something that would benefit others I think.
Emotionaly, if someone is using me in a negative way it would definatly affect me as I get affected emotionaly easily. It would actually depress me so much I think!!

Overall i think once a person gets close to you with the intention of using you, then i believe that person is not mutual. At the end of it all, it's not you that he/she wanted, but something from you. Im completely against this. It's like having lots of friends around when you're rich, but nobody when you're poor.

Thanx Arby and Abs for answering.

Appriciated:)