Let us say you had a discussion with a friend of yours and she tell you that she went to an experience and I mean by that she loved some one till the maximum and than something wrong has happened that her family dislike that person because he has a bd reputation and after all she have to stay a way from him and deeply she really love him (Romeo story I know) but it is true. So she would say
I won’t love any one no more what do you think about that?
Can you reach up to this level that you don’t care about any one no more?
Would it destroy her farther future?

I can summarize the whole issue in one sentence as (my heart belong to one person no further) she say so what do you think?

I don't think she is supposed to do that and think that way...

it was not meant for her to be with that guy, so that doesn't mean that she should not be in love with someone else.. and by that does she mean that is not going to get married ever even if a decent good guy proposed? just cuz she loved one person she can't lover another?

its just because the memory is so fresh in her heart and mind she feeels that way .. after few months .. she would realise she can feel for somone and it wouldnt destroy her future ;)

Can you reach up to this level that you don’t care about any one no more?
Yes as soon as it happened and God knows for how long, i used to hate (which is slightly different that not caring at all) everyone around me. Then with time, new events, new people coming into my life, things changed and slowly slowly i restarted my life and tried to repair damages i had done to those people i thought guilty of my disgraces.

I think it is a bit normal that she feels this way now, as she is still very much in love with him and probably can't imagine her future without him.

When we are deeply in love with someone, we feel that it is impossible for our heart to feel the same for another person. However, if that first love is not 'nourish', as time passes we will be very surprised to suddenly fall for someone we never expected.

Its the beggining phase, where she thinks she can't go on without him and she thinks she can not love anyone else.

Time is the best healer, so give her a couple of weeks and she'll be fine.. she should do alot of crying right now.. crying is good.... its actually amazing, its like when u are about to drink the water from the tap, u let it run for a while so the garbage runs through..thats what crying does, it clears up your system... so cry I say, cry!!! lol

Life isn't always fair, we don't always get what we think we deserve... and she'll never know maybe her not being with him is for the better. God is always on our side and always wants whats best for us.. so probably what hapened was for the best. She should understand that.. when she does... it wont feel so bad inshallah

shell never expect when shell forget about iti ... it will take her less than a second to realized it was nothing ... but when will she reach that second is the question ! still try to show her that if her father doesnt not approve , that means its for a reason and that hes actually not worth it after all ... And her dad should be her prioroty , cuz out of alll the pple in the world, he loves her with no intentions and not wanting anything out of this love and he would do the impossible to make her happy ... So maybe he sees a side of him that she doesnt know . ofcourse as u say its like a romeo story and she is blindly in love with him she wouldnt accept no for an answer , but believe me thats for the best and if her family doesnt approve than shell never be happy in the future .... as they say '' illey mafey 5air fe ahla , mafe 5air fe nafsa ''

In this moment at thins miuntes on these days in this month she wont forget about him she'll suffer n cry n die from hurt n pain BUT through time n with SOME1 in her life she'll get through him n move on !! Its true n it will happen!

Of course you'd expect someone to say that when it's too fresh. It takes a long time to get over your first love, because it's usually very pure and very strong, with a lot of feelings. After that you get to a phase where you start concentrating on other things to get over this, and definitly love would be the last thing you'd think about.

She should get better with time. Like I said, it's not easy and it needs a lot of work to get over such a terrible experience.

I won’t love any one no more what do you think about that?
*Never give up the hope.

Can you reach up to this level that you don’t care about any one no more?
* YOu can reach the level not to love someone but you can still care about him or her.

Would it destroy her farther future?
*If she'll keep thinking about it all the time,she'll never move on. She has to be strong and face the life,its gona be pretty tough though,but what else she can do, Whats done is done. She has to live in the next episode.

(my heart belong to one person no further) she say so what do you think?
* I think it can be true,your heart can belong to someone and no one else but there is time she'll forget and love again,if she is that kind of person, Some they just love once and thats it.

.. well.. i guess most of u know the arabic series called " 3baas elabya'6 fi elyoom elaswaad" .. last night series the guy called Mahmood was about to marry i dunno whats her name.. but some how someone else did marry that girl..

.. Mahmood was upset, crying and stuff.. so £baas went to talk to him and told him: ( the only way to forget this matter is to start another love life and u will forget abt ur first.. the he added: cure it with the cause of the disease)

.. the point is.. if something like that happened to u.. just leave it.. as american say: s^ck it man.. find another love bird!

.. in short, ur hear belongs to someone.. but not important the first or the 2n or the 3rd.. it belongs to someone!.. who is that.. i really dont know.. u find him/her!

.. and life goes on and on ...and on!