As you may have noticed I locked the thread Girls & Guys Speak Out. After adding up the results this is what I came out with:

1. Every single female member who replied to the thread mentioned LOOKS in her 3 point list.

2. NINE out of Thirteen girls mentioned LOOKS as THE MOST IMPORTANT factor. It was the first point they listed.

3. As for the male members' posts: the most repeated factor was Education. Then came CARE along with LOOKS. Third was PERSONANLITY which tied with WEALTH and SENSE OF HUMOUR.

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Q 1. What do you think of these results? Guys, are looks that important to you? Are you slightly insulted that most women think all men are so shallow?

Q 2. After telling me what you thought of the results, I would like you to make a smilar list to the last but this time state what YOUR PERSONAL PREFERENCE is. Three points are enough.

For instance, I would reply saying that the three most important thinks I look for in a guy are:

1. Honesty
2. Care & Affection
3. Strong Personality

education for a man?? not necessarily...

my list would be, honestly:
1. Sense of Humor
2. Honesty
3. Looks (HONESTLY I SAID, not the glorified version :p)

Q 1. What do you think of these results?
Interesting, but not surprising.


Q 2. After telling me what you thought of the results, I would like you to make a smilar list to the last but this time state what YOUR PERSONAL PREFERENCE is. Three points are enough.

1) Religion, since it comes with care, manners, etc.
2) Looks. Because I like pretty things. lol
3) Education and/or career, financial stability.

for me: Caring
Funny
Strong minded (knows what he wants)

Q 1. What do you think of these results? Guys, are looks that important to you? Are you slightly insulted that most women think all men are so shallow?

I think its interesting, the look seemed high so then it indicates something. Theresn't any smoke without hmmmm fire..


Q 2. After telling me what you thought of the results, I would like you to make a smilar list to the last but this time state what YOUR PERSONAL PREFERENCE is. Three points are enough.

1. Respect to my family first than me then himself
2. Fear's allah
3. Love

guess i wanna from him

true love
god faer>>> thats so important then he gonna he honest and everything
and 4sure funny and crazy>>> i can't live with acold boring man...am gonna kill am self.

Three most important thuings to me:

1-Personality (includes intelligence and romance factors)
2-Trustworthy/loyalty (includes religion)
3- Looks

I dont find it surprsing .. guys want a woman whos attractive , no guy can deny that .. and its not shallow its human nature ;)

regarding women, as well I dont find it surprsiing .. women look for stabilty and education means good job.


My personal choice:

- Manners: religiously, and socially .. ya3ni I would want him to be close to Allah, good manners and modest

- Thoughts: I am a person who debates alot .. wouldnt be fun to have a man who doesnt think out of the box

- Education/good job: again for stability

Care for every good thing ahead is the secret of success and happyness.

I dont find it surprsing .. guys want a woman whos attractive , no guy can deny that .. and its not shallow its human nature ;)

The women said looks, not attractiveness AP. We ALL openly admit we need to be attracted to our partner; and not only is it human nature its a necessity to have a healthy relationship.

But when its looks then it is shallow because its the outer part of another person; not the way they make you feel.

if I said looks, then I mean attractivness .. I never meant that men are shallow but they need someone who pleases them when they look at.

Q 1. What do you think of these results?
not surprised :P .. well kinda is .. cause itz usually the guys who go crazy about the looks // well .. everyone cares about the looks.. so no pointing fingers !!

Q 2. After telling me what you thought of the results, I would like you to make a smilar list to the last but this time state what YOUR PERSONAL PREFERENCE is. Three points are enough.

hmm mine would beeee
1.Honesty
2.caring and loving
3.looks..romantic

Honesty which also comes with trust
Humour, care and love
Education which comes with intellect

Q 1. What do you think of these results? Guys, are looks that important to you? Are you slightly insulted that most women think all men are so shallow?

That Important? Nope. Offended? Nope, again. :p

Everyone has their own prospective of what the other might think, weither its from the other gender or even the same. So we can respect that other opinion. But still have our own and believe in it.


Q 2. After telling me what you thought of the results, I would like you to make a smilar list to the last but this time state what YOUR PERSONAL PREFERENCE is. Three points are enough.

1- Attitude
2- (a'7la:9) - Islamic morals -
3- Attractive to my heart

Q 1. What do you think of these results? Guys, are looks that important to you? Are you slightly insulted that most women think all men are so shallow?


I do feel insulted i hate generalization

Q 2. After telling me what you thought of the results, I would like you to make a smilar list to the last but this time state what YOUR PERSONAL PREFERENCE is. Three points are enough.


1) Personality (humor behavior and such)
2) A'7laq morality
3) looks arn't that impo really but i dunno i'm a sucker for smiles hehe

Q 1. What do you think of these results?
They show what each gender expects from the opposite and surely comes from experience, interactions, contacts at school or work.
As Nixxy said, interesting not really surprising.

Q 2. YOUR PERSONAL PREFERENCE

1) Honesty
2) Respect
3) Similar views on big issues of life

Q 1. What do you think of these results?

I think that they are interesting and similar to reality.

Q 2. YOUR PERSONAL PREFERENCE

* Loyal
* Beautiful
* Smart

LOVE IT!!!

1. personality
2. sense of humor
3. looks

But i really just want good food and sex

Q 1. What do you think of these results?
*Impressive


Q 2. After telling me what you thought of the results, I would like you to make a smilar list to the last but this time state what YOUR PERSONAL PREFERENCE is. Three points are enough.

*Religion
*Education

Those two have lots of details in it.