Guys & Girls Speak Out [Archive]

Enigma

28-10-04, 04:29 AM

Here's what I want you to do:

GIRLS: I want you to list, IN ORDER, what YOU think are the MOST IMPORTANT things a guy looks for in another woman. Three is enough.

GUYS: The same question to you too. List IN ORDER what you think a woman's priority when looking for a guy is. Three is enough.

Some generalisations may come up; for instance some women (and if this is you don't be shy to post it!) might say that the top priority for men is LOOKS/BEAUTY and some guys might say that the most important thing to women is MONEY/WEALTH. But note this is just a thread to see what the other gender is thinking about you; not to flame!

:)

X-press

28-10-04, 04:35 AM

List IN ORDER what you think a woman's priority when looking for a guy is. Three is enoughI can't talk for the other women,
but for me I would say:

1) Maturity
2) Stability
3) Manhood

Enigma

28-10-04, 04:37 AM

I can't talk for the other women,
but for me I would say:

1) Maturity
2) Stability
3) Manhood
No no Xpress, sorry you missunderstood me. I want you to state what you think MEN WANT not what you think women want.

CrazyReD

28-10-04, 06:26 AM

intresting thread enigma

What i think a women wants

1) Maturity
2) Personality
3) Past

DJ Vù

28-10-04, 06:31 AM

1. Religion (cause a strong woman whos firm in religion will have so many beautiful qualities... atleast thats what i strongly believe)

2. Trust

3. Personality

(P.s. Don't think i'm some kind of muta3awa now ppl! :haha: )

Najah

28-10-04, 07:54 AM

This is funny and quiet hard, to me it depends really when i get to know a person well but In general I think they want:

1: Pretty (BEautiful) and you know arabs standard of prettyness
2: beautiful
3: Opinionated

sad_dreamer

28-10-04, 01:17 PM

A woman(and not every woman) wants a guy that is:
1. Good looking
2. Loaded(rich)
3. Funny

Navigator

28-10-04, 01:30 PM

- well eduacated
-rich
-good personality

Blossom

28-10-04, 01:34 PM

1- looks
2- appearance
3- outer - shell

this is not what they look for, but the 1st thing they notice

IceTea

28-10-04, 02:16 PM

I think women want:

1. Good job (which means he is educated also)
2. Caring (which means he is from a good family, good personality and know Allah also)
3. Good looking

I hope I'm right :)

DeSerTDesTroYeR

28-10-04, 02:18 PM

With a quick choice of things a female would want:

1- Makes her laugh
2- Decent (currently, despite his past)
3- Thoughtful

dija

28-10-04, 02:31 PM

A male wants:
LooKS
money
styel

well thats whay i think!! :color:

IceTea

28-10-04, 02:42 PM

A male wants:
LooKS
money
styel

well thats whay i think!! :color:

Why a guy wants a money from a girl?

And what do you mean by styel?

DeSerTDesTroYeR

28-10-04, 04:29 PM

IceTea: this thread is about what one gender THINKs the other gender Would want in them.

So its basically a reverse psychology question and no one can have a wrong answer here... so am wondering why all the why why questions :)

Scorpio27

28-10-04, 04:55 PM

Honesty
Devotion
Care

EviliO

28-10-04, 06:55 PM

- Good looking
- Funny (with her only!)
- Educated

Pineapple Thief

28-10-04, 07:03 PM

Well it depends - what kind of relationship? Marriage? What?

Enigma

28-10-04, 07:05 PM

In general PT. (why do you people have to complicate everything?)

If you still can't reply to 'general' then lets say marriage :p

amo_l_oman

28-10-04, 07:40 PM

-sexy
-rich
-intelligent but not too much

mz_behaved

28-10-04, 07:55 PM

i think that a guy looks for
looks
personality (sense of humor, intelligence, sweetness)
style

sophis^catrina

28-10-04, 08:07 PM

I think that a guy looks for a woman who is

1- Charming, who can seduce him and make him feel good abt himself.

2- A woman that he can be proud of.

3- Definitely, a pretty woman ;)

toxic_honey

28-10-04, 11:25 PM

whta i think what men look in awomen (( not all of them 4sure))
1.Charisma, pretty women
2.funny. but not for 247 :D
3.a good life background. (like good fam and didn't talked to any guys b4).

Pineapple Thief

28-10-04, 11:41 PM

I figure a girl looks for:

-security. she has to know the guy will be there for her, financially and otherwise
-caringness...or whatever. he has to treat her like a queen
-a nice car. You know that Mini Cooper is a chickmobile!

IRONY

28-10-04, 11:52 PM

A man looks at hmm these 3 things in my opinion:
1- sexy body, beauty, basically looks
2- reputation (they usually want it perfectly clean) <<as if theirs are :bored:
3- education and personality

toxic_honey

28-10-04, 11:58 PM

toxic_honey

29-10-04, 12:04 AM

Why a guy wants a money from a girl?

And what do you mean by styel?

let me answer 4 her..coz she is not her

i guess coz sometimes they could say if she have money
thats mean we don't have to bay everything 4her..she could help
her self with her money..
or coz if the used to be broke some day they can lend from her not the bank!!! (( she is the bank of his house))

and she mean style by styel!!! got it :D
and i know u do from along time man

Enigma

29-10-04, 12:20 AM

Here's what I think:

1. Reputation; clean past and virginity.
2. Looks & beauty.
3. Easy going-ness.

I might change the third...

Yeah Toxic, I don't think Dija ever notices the driver: she's too busy looking at the car :p

toxic_honey

29-10-04, 12:25 AM

Lord_UK

29-10-04, 11:21 PM

Girls want the man to be :
- wealthy
- handsome
- strong personality

:)

NaBHaN

29-10-04, 11:39 PM

- A good career
- sense of humor
- caring ( with care comes loyalty )

Arabian Princess

29-10-04, 11:47 PM

I think guys look for:

- respectable woman (decent dressing, good reputation, fairly religious "some men run from very religious women ;) )

- Fairly pretty .. men want women who look good but same time not too good so they will be very jelous for them :D .. good body is within this side

- smart or educated ..

*NK 105*

30-10-04, 12:34 AM

i think guys look for..
1. Appearance (up to down)
2. Personality
3. Good Reputation

Capricorna

30-10-04, 02:23 AM

Beautiful ( pretty , neat , knows how to dress up and a great body )
Decent( Good reputation , a virgin , no X’s ) :rolleyes:
Educated ( she also has to know how to cook, clean and all the house work)

HITMAN

30-10-04, 02:31 AM

-intelligent
-rich
-strong (sportive)

BrAiKi

30-10-04, 09:26 AM

Being real n honest
Being real n honest
and....being real n honest!

Wardat_il'7leej

30-10-04, 10:36 AM

What men want......

- Good reputation
- Beauty
- Education

Persian Queen

30-10-04, 10:41 AM

they are looking for :
good looking
education these days ( university , collage and degrees too )
loud of care
good reputaion.
Attention.
all time Availability , support in job and any step in life.

IceTea

30-10-04, 11:00 AM

let me answer 4 her..coz she is not her

i guess coz sometimes they could say if she have money
thats mean we don't have to bay everything 4her..she could help
her self with her money..
or coz if the used to be broke some day they can lend from her not the bank!!! (( she is the bank of his house))

and she mean style by styel!!! got it :D
and i know u do from along time man

Thanks for answering but maybe she will not agree with you :D