As between parents the mother has more rights than the father.

[Scorpio27]

The reason is apparent. Mother has borne the child?s burden during pregnancy, has undergone birth pains in delivering the baby, has sacrificed her own comforts to provide comfort to her children, has looked after them and felt worried for their well-being. That is why mother deserves our good treatment more than the father. A Tradition of the Prophet (PBUH) tells us that a Companion asked the Prophet, " Who deserves my good treatment most?" "Your mother", said the Prophet. "Who next?" "Your mother". "Who next?" "Your mother". "Who after that?" "Your father". This means that the mother deserves three times more good treatment from her children than the father deserves.


Do you have a diferent opinion ? :scratch:

[KMH]

Very true
Girls are honored by Almighty.
All praise to him.

[*NK 105*]

Do you have a diferent opinion ?
Nope! i totally agree with u..
giving birth is a miracle, sub7anallah...
we women rock! :)

[PhaHaDde]

Salam,

من أحق بالصحبة: قال: أمك، قيل ثم من؟، قال: ثم أمك، قيل ثم من؟ قال: ثم أمك، قيل ثم من؟ قال: ثم أبوك

I think they both have equal rights and duties.
That 7adeeth. The keyword is Companionship. If I'm not mistaken. If I am wrong please correct me & provide evidence.

The prophet said if it was allowed for human to (sujood) or kneel for human, he would ask the woman to (Sujood) or kneel for her husband. Do you see the important & the value of a husband in this 7adeeth.

Regards...

[EarThQuaKe]

Salam,

من أحق بالصحبة: قال: أمك، قيل ثم من؟، قال: ثم أمك، قيل ثم من؟ قال: ثم أمك، قيل ثم من؟ قال: ثم أبوك

I think they both have equal rights and duties.
That 7adeeth. The keyword is Companionship. If I'm not mistaken. If I am wrong please correct me & provide evidence.

The prophet said if it was allowed for human to (sujood) or kneel for human, he would ask the woman to (Sujood) or kneel for her husband. Do you see the important & the value of a husband in this 7adeeth.

Regards...


You are mixing the two together... For a man his mother is the most important human being for the woman her husband is. So they are linked. Mohammed salla allahu 3alyh wa sallam said "Heaven is under the mother's feet" and he asked a sahabee to take care of his father instead of going to jihad. Parents are very important and there is a saying (I dont know if its a hadeeth or not) that you will not go to heaven unless your mother give u her blessing.

[PhaHaDde]

Salam,

Yes, dats right. I am just giving a general view of the importance of a man being a husband.

I too heard that you wont enter The Heaven if you don't obtain your parents blessings. Not just a mother, but also both parents. It's very true that a mother plays a big role in a society. He role consists in raising the children & bring them up in a good way. A child reflects his/her mother most of the time. Bad mothers influence their children negatively. For that we men have to be careful in choosing our wives to be.

Regards...