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Week 1: He meets a girl, he calles every 5 minutes. He say the sweetest things ever" u r sweet, u r the only thing i live for and bla bla bla.....
Half week 1: I LOVE YOU.
Week 2: he calles every 3 hours... miss you...
Week 3: he calles once aday....i am busy...i want to c you....
Week4: he calles twice a week.... i am busy.....i have no money......i want to see you....why cant u come to ma place.....
Week 5: he calles once aweek....i am busy "AGAIN".....
Week 6: he stop callin' so the stupied girl start callin' him......no money baby..
i nees cash sweetie.....
Week 7: she call him.... where have u been??????? iam here baby just workin'.
Week 8: ..........................................busy.... .busy .......busy....
Week 9:............busy...busy......busy......we'll meet in the new year holiday...
Week 10: dont call me......WHY???? No need for such things.....but???? no buts.................... :tiered: :irk:
:weep: god bless the girls heart...
DeSerTDesTroYeR 20-10-04, 05:23 PM Sounds like men who fool around rather then cold :duh:
He's not cold.
He just doesn't care about the girl.
is it a real case?
if yes, then probably the guy got what he wanted, and hes not interested in her anymore!!
its normal, life goes on...
Omani King 20-10-04, 06:10 PM these kind of me are players!!
he talks to the gurl for fun then eventually finds another girl so he dumps the 1st!!
its normal, life goes on...
and hitman no its not normal at all!!!
Pineapple Thief 20-10-04, 07:02 PM Not cold, just stupid.
This is the result of boy/girl friend system.
amo_l_oman 20-10-04, 08:09 PM This is the result of boy/girl friend system.
yep much better when this happens soon after marriage :rolleyes:
amo_l_oman 20-10-04, 08:40 PM amo what do you mean?
Am not pro gf/bf nasty kind of relation but not even with the let's marry Saudi style no contact at all.
I think the situation described was well commented from all those who posted above, but nothing to do with what you call gf/bf system.
If my sweetheart is a jerk or i am too Cinderella, gimme the chance to discover it before a big mistake.
Am not pro gf/bf nasty kind of relation but not even with the let's marry Saudi style no contact at all.
I think the situation described was well commented from all those who posted above, but nothing to do with what you call gf/bf system.
If my sweetheart is a jerk or i am too Cinderella, gimme the chance to discover it before a big mistake.
I agree, the problem is there are some humans out there who never use the word Balance, or Logic. They can not differenciate between right and wrong and acceptble or not.
But again poor girl, maskeena.
Dark Project 20-10-04, 09:35 PM It reminds me of a song which goes like this :-
Tell me what kind of a man
Treats his woman so cold
Treat you like you are nothing
And you are wroth more than gold
Girl to me you like a diamond
I love the way you shine
Hundred million dollar treasure
I ‘ll give the world to make you mine
I will put a string of pearls right on your hand
Make love on a beach on the golden sand
What good is a diamond nobody could see
I hear he got you locked down but I have the master key
Now the man dija has describes aint a man at all .......
Scorpio27 20-10-04, 10:15 PM Week 1: He meets a girl, he calles every 5 minutes. He say the sweetest things ever" u r sweet, u r the only thing i live for and bla bla bla.....
Half week 1: I LOVE YOU.
Week 2: he calles every 3 hours... miss you...
Week 3: he calles once aday....i am busy...i want to c you....
Week4: he calles twice a week.... i am busy.....i have no money......i want to see you....why cant u come to ma place.....
Week 5: he calles once aweek....i am busy "AGAIN".....
Week 6: he stop callin' so the stupied girl start callin' him......no money baby..
i nees cash sweetie.....
Week 7: she call him.... where have u been??????? iam here baby just workin'.
Week 8: ..........................................busy.... .busy .......busy....
Week 9:............busy...busy......busy......we'll meet in the new year holiday...
Week 10: dont call me......WHY???? No need for such things.....but???? no buts.................... :tiered: :irk:
It happens occasionally, natural :D
Love is a dream, when the sleep breaks all seems faded.
May be that was not love but attraction.
10 % love may have true devotion and submission rest are compromise and ….
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The whole problem's based on the man been changed through time. He forgets every sweet moment he had with the girl. I mean this case's not just for unmarried ppl but also for the one who got married already. He's an angel during the angajment period but after that...after marrige he will eventully get bored and then he starts to feel bored. Unles the girl she never get's bored/cold maybe coz of her human nature" more emotionlly then men". However love and pation should be alive all the time not just at the begning ..
i personally doubt if any normal man will turn cold towards a hot woman!
another way of looking at it...
She can be hot,rock and every thing but what if she had this period like pregnecy and many reasons that make her loss it. I mean its a man's nature to be cold . All though not all men r like this many men can be so senstive and can be more emotionlly then girls.However most men r cold or the type who feels that i should keep ma feelings to ma self.
*NK 105* 21-10-04, 01:29 AM u mean most men that u know..
i dont think most men as in the majority of men are cold.. some are.. but it all depends on the personality.. some men love their women no matter what.. and well.. some dont!
X-press 21-10-04, 01:58 AM I am not surprised at all fo dija's post and what she describes is actually very commun. I disagree however with her statement that men are usually cold per nature.
Unless men are not normal, they usually love women! However, the weakness (if I may say) find in many is that they get quickly tired of repetition, routine,...or sadly the same woman.
It is not that something might wrong with her or that she might even lack something to keep his attraction on her side,...but it simply is that men enjoy changes or for most, are always attracted to what they don't have.
What is attracting is not only the woman herself, but the challenge to 'get' her too. Once they managed to get what they want, after a certain time they simply need to move one...
Hmm.. maybe he just doesnt love her and thats why. I dont believe that a guy who really loves a girl could actually stay away for more than a day if not a few hours without hearing her voice. unless there were problems between them of course then i guess one or both would wanna just have some space to cool down.
anyways.. she should forget about him... unless she's the pain who keeps on bugging him way too much that he just cant stand to be with her. :p
CrazyReD 21-10-04, 03:25 AM that guy was playing
or he found out something about the girl
but this is something i hate here
everytime it's the guy's fault
women you know your not that innocent either
some of the things described above can be applied to women to
men changes after a perioed of time that what i know!!
Kazablanka 21-10-04, 04:34 PM oh my god.. is this guy for real? he's playing way too many games.. he needs to be slapped.
my observation is, women are always warm, hot, caring, loving, devoted and honest.
But men often get derailed and all oftheir desiresfades in long run. Atleast converts to some extend like a dead sea. :(
This is the result of boy/girl friend system.
THAT'S SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO NOT TRUE!!!! :irk:
The boy is stupid and a player and allah ma yethrib be 3a9a! He will find a girl and deeply love her and now its her turn to make him look like a fool :6: ..
There are boys who love girls and have gf and the result is marrige and a happy life!
All men are tooooooooooo HOT 5% of their life , the rest ?! Ice cold :(
Libellula 21-10-04, 08:44 PM Only stupid, naive girls fall for idiots like that.
*NK 105* 21-10-04, 10:50 PM makes u wonder what did she like in him, for her to fall for him in the first place.
Hasnain, you appear HOT!!! Here , why cold with me ;)
I caught you. I will ….
Friends, actually men are too hypocrite.;)
One time they die for love late they become busy for nothing or stays sick (mentally) but,
With their friends they are green.:(
GTG TC BYE
:app: :app: :app: :app: :app: for u papri
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There are boys who love girls and have gf and the result is marrige and a happy life!
And there are girls who will lose their valuable virginity as a result!.
And there are girls who will lose their valuable virginity as a result!.
But u can have realations with out sex. or losing anything :lost:
If the Shay6an is the 3rd you can't be 100 % sure that nothing will be lost.
If the Shay6an is the 3rd you can't be 100 % sure that nothing will be lost.
If they really respect and love each other i dont think they'll do such thing. And if the guy really loves the girl he wouldnt do that with her coz she's the one who will lose every thing. And he/her dont know what going to happened he might die or something happned then they wouldnt be able to be together as wife and husband.
*NK 105* 23-10-04, 02:08 AM that's always what most girls think... us girls being the emotional creatures we are, we tend to get swept away with the illusions of love, so they believe that even after having sex with a guy, he'd stay with her because they are in "love".. she usually gets dumped later on because the guy got what he wanted.
that's always what most girls think... us girls being the emotional creatures we are, we tend to get swept away with the illusions of love, so they believe that even after having sex with a guy, he'd stay with her because they are in "love".. she usually gets dumped later on because the guy got what he wanted.
I agree with u completly many girls give it all up to a boy and surendar to him just to proof her love ba3deeeeeen big 6aafff.
sophis^catrina 23-10-04, 09:20 PM I agree with u completly many girls give it all up to a boy and surendar to him just to proof her love ba3deeeeeen big 6aafff.
That's why one has to value themselves. Women, please remember your worth and that a guy who really wants you will never force you to do what is forbidden with him. He should prove his love for you by doing what is halal (marriage), rather than you proving your love by doing what is haram.
Women get so emotional, and when that happens they become so vulnerable. The man you love may easily use your hysterical state of heart and mind to his own advantage.
Please have the strength to protect and take care of yourselves. Only you are able to do that.
Pineapple Thief 23-10-04, 09:22 PM Only stupid, naive girls fall for idiots like that.
You'd be suprised.
You'd be suprised.
I know waht ur talking about coz i know many girls which r so stupied to believe the man. I know this girl which knew a guy who was married to two women coz a ween he was dhofari and thats 3adat in there qabeela but aween he loves her. and he will marrie her after he devorce the first one. and she hide it from all of us her freinds and family and then after breaking up with him she said the big secret. she told me once ashkaraa fee shakly i can buy u and sell u just for him !!!!! so now i always remind her of her words. :shut:
fatamooo 23-10-04, 10:32 PM Well I heard this story it was a really big thing when it happened but of course being the slow person that I am only heard about it months later :p... this happened a few years ago I guess, where one guy got into a relationship with a girl here in Oman and they were mostly talking on the phone. They got really intimate I guess, but then all of a sudden the guy breaks things off with her. No sooner does that happen then her reputation is destroyed when she finds out that he had TAPE RECORDED almost all the phone conversations, made a ton of copies and spread them all around for people to hear.
Now if that isn't the coldest thing ever, then I don't know what is!!! I'm sure some of you heard this story I actually heard from someone in this girls family that her life is completely ruined now because of that incident. I know some people with a copy of that tape, and I heard it reached the UAE and other countries as well. It was a real scandal and that became like an example to me of why NOT to ever trust guys!! Sure, there are some nice ones, a lot even, but I think there's too much at risk trying to find out if this guy or that is being genuine or not....
sophis^catrina 23-10-04, 10:42 PM ^^^ That's a situation when the quote "Men are Bastards" comes to mind. :tiered:
I know that there are nice guys out there, so the nice ones please don't attack me!
Libellula 23-10-04, 11:03 PM You'd be suprised.
No, seriously, if a girl was smart she wouldn't fall for someone like that, and she wouldn't let anyone hurt her. People should follow their minds, not their hearts.
CrazyReD 23-10-04, 11:07 PM ^^^ That's a situation when the quote "Men are Bastards" comes to mind. :tiered:
I know that there are nice guys out there, so the nice ones please don't attack me!
all thought that's so tiny
but i agree in situation like this that man desrves to be called scum,low etc etc
HIM not all HIM or to whoever apply the same situation
as for having a relationship and the shy6an being the third
if you really love the girl and are desperate to be with her go propose and make it offical if the girl is desperate to see the guy to know he's for real tell him u want me come ask my parents
fatamooo 23-10-04, 11:09 PM ^^^ That's a situation when the quote "Men are Bastards" comes to mind. :tiered:
:fire: EXACTLY - better to be safe than sorry. :wave:
sophis^catrina 23-10-04, 11:22 PM if the girl is desperate to see the guy to know he's for real tell him u want me come ask my parents
Man, I used to think that was scary, that a man would ask for your hand before getting to know you. But in our part of the world, I guess that's the safest route sadly! :(
CrazyReD 23-10-04, 11:26 PM well
it's the safest and like it's engaement which is when both male and female get to know each other if they find out they don't fit it can be broken
some rare (yeah i admit rare) guys would accept to be with a girl without really going out with her maybe seein her from a distance from time to time (there are lots of way to do that) but not actually being with her alone
sophis^catrina 24-10-04, 02:54 AM If the Shay6an is the 3rd you can't be 100 % sure that nothing will be lost.
If they really respect and love each other i dont think they'll do such thing.
"Whenever a man is alone with a woman, Satan (Shaytan) is the third among them." (Tirmidhi).
Dija, listen to IceTea. What he said is very true that shaytan is the 3rd. Humans are weak. Even the most decent/respectable people when getting trapped in the heat of the moment can forget themselves. Love, marriage, values and morals can all be forgotten.
Thanks for the support Sophy ;).
Dija, listen to IceTea. What he said is very true that shaytan is the 3rd. Humans are weak. Even the most decent/respectable people when getting trapped in the heat of the moment can forget themselves. Love, marriage, values and morals can all be forgotten.
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well i know thats true but whats there is there and u cant change ppl's thinking. realationships are there and we have to accept this and deal with it. but i never say no to two ppl wth a realationship but i advice them to respect each other and believe me if they do have respect, shaytan would never affect'em. I hope what am saying is true but nowadays ppl dont have respect not for themselves or ppl around them.
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