salam all...

Just so that u all know this is not currently happening in my life...I was sitting with a few friends (single/married/ina relationtionship/divorced..etc) I guess u all get the picture...and i found out that all of us have had experiences where the partner cheats and most of them stayed in the relationship.....we all at some point were crushed .... i would like to mention that my friends were males and females.....

it is true that infidelity is one of the most wrenching experiences a couple can endure.....it can destroy families, crush spirits, and break quite a few plates......it causes pain not just to the betrayed, but usually to the cheater as well.

So why do people do it?

i know that it happens all over the world but it is at a high point with us ???? :no: :confused:

Don't know really but depends on the person who cheats, from circumstances, many factors, each story has a a picture apart though we often tend to canalise them in sterotyped situations.

"double homicide" is the first thing that comes to mind when I thinks of my spouse cheating on me (kill my husband and his afairee (word?) but in life, I have to be grown up about some things.... especially with children involved it might not be in my best interest to kill my childrens father b/c then I'll be in jail.