After a fight he will go silent and she wants to talk to him again; she'll end up feeling he doesn't care about her feelings and he will get frusterated with her more.

Any truth in this?

I definitely agree with the above quote. When a guy has gone silent, do we give him plenty of space and when he is ready will he come to her? When she gives him too much space, won't he feel as though she no longer cares? What does a woman do make the guy as loving as he used to be? Leave him for a long period, or seduce him and be loving to build the trust that could have been damaged?

I would go with option two ..
seduce him and be loving to build the trust that could have been damaged

coz if you left him for long, he might think of it practicly more than emotionaly and try to move on with his life .. when a simple word of love could have solved the whole situation!!

when a simple word of love could have solved the whole situation!!

Say you've said that. You've seduced him. But he is still cold and unresponsive. Do you then think, "I should have left him for some time to settle down"? Or do u think "it's ok, even though he doesn't respond, I'll seduce him till he does" ?

u dont sudece him the moment he gets mad .. guys need time to settle down .. but dont give them too much time ..

Anyway, if u did it and he still doesnt respond .. try seducing him with something he likes .. something that shows him that you care and that the argument you guys went through is just a lesson that would make your relationship stronger ..

ojnhe thing that any coupld shouldnt do, is sleep a night while they are angry with eachother .. everything should be setteled down and then they could sleep peacfully!

ojnhe thing that any coupld shouldnt do, is sleep a night while they are angry with eachother .. everything should be setteled down and then they could sleep peacfully!


LOL! I think it differs from couple to couple "couple rules" - some like to always go to bed mad, others never go to bed mad! LOL, I heard that in a talk show. :p

I think you should give him some space in the beginning.

Guys need some time to quiet down on their own, dont leave them for too long though. Give it awhile and once you see him calmed down ask him sweetely if you can talk about it.

Key: Space + clear, direct questions.

yes u should give him his space, but let him know that ur still there for him. Make it clear that ur still with him. So that when he calms down he'll come straight to u :)

I personally dont really like too much space and if she indeed stayed away for too long then i guess i would normally assume that she doesnt give a **** about me.

seduce him and be loving to build the trust that could have been damaged

Sometimes choosing the Right loving words can do the magic of turning the mood and shifting the argument .