Back to Read's quote on "In every woman's life there are three men" - One of them that he listed was the "A man whom she gets married to."

Is the love that leads to marriage, all abt fate?

Or is it really just timing?

Although a man may be single and available, he may not have a light on (like a cab). Meaning yes, he'll be there as a bf and you could be so passionately in love, but as soon as you mention marriage he'll be unavailable.

But if he has his light on (available for marriage), the next woman he runs into, whom he may just have a crush on, suddenly becomes marriage material. Because the timing is right.

To all those women out there who desperately want to have a relationship with someone who is willing to marry them, go for a man with "his lights on". :D

Go for those 27+ above year old guys, who already have everything. You may not be the most amazing thing he has ever beheld, but since the timing is right, he suddenly sees you as marriage material. :gap:

Is love really pointless with men who do not have their lights on? The cause of a woman being heartbroken? And women, as we all know, always have their lights on. :(

Sophie I'm this close to giving you a great big kiss for your threads in Relationship Sabla!! :color:

Onto the topic:

I think that if the guy really does love you and want to marry you, and is a decent, strong willed & minded person, his light will TURN ON FOR YOU.

There are boys who are ten years old who pick the girl and that's it, she's the one. When they can, they marry her.

When a man really & truely loves a woman, everything becomes askew for him. His world turns upside down and his focal goal becomes to get her. He'll drop his morals, opinions, ideas and life plan even. Men always pride themselves on being immovable but then they fall in love and boom, they're someone else.

So really, its just about whether he really wants you or not. If he doesnt want you enough, his light will remain off. Having said that, there are men who never really hit the rock hard ground of love. Those are the ones who's light will 'turn on' for whoever is right at the time.

Is love really pointless with men who do not have their lights on? The cause of a woman being heartbroken? And women, as we all know, always have their lights on

thats right .. but how would you know whos lights are on and whos not? unfoutrountly they dont have the sign like the cabs :p

u see, I dont beleive in relationships that doesnt start with the intention of marraige from day ONE!! yes day one!!
the moment the guy come to you and tells you he is intrested (and ofcourse you would be intrested too) .. then tell him: hmm alright, but you have to come to my parents.
I know it might sound as if the girl is going on a rush, but I think that one thing that Arabs women are lucky about .. if they reserve thier pride, inshallah the man they want will be there on thier doorstep asking for thier hands. But if she decided to enter a relationship without telling the guy that the intention is marraige, they she really has to pray that he understands that intention!

I think that if the guy really does love you and want to marry you, and is a decent, strong willed & minded person, his light will TURN ON FOR YOU.




Yeah, that's what we all like to believe. But remember Raed's quote abt "a woman -three men". It's all abt timing. You may fall passionately in love when you both are 17 years old. Because you aren't ready to get married (e.g. financially), you don't, but promise one another that you'll wait for the years to come.

So much happens. Most couples of that sort break up. We see it happening too many times.

But if a man meets a woman, and he is very ready to get married. He likes her (but perhaps not as passionately), most likely he will be already interested in marrying her, coz he is looking for a wife. Timing is right.

DO you call what people of 17 years old fall into love? I dont .. I think its more an illusion of love .. something that fantasies of love creat and would make it seem like love ..

love comes out of two responsible people, who are ready to commit to eachother's needs ;)

DO you call what people of 17 years old fall into love? I dont .. I think its more an illusion of love ..

Honey there are different types of love ;) . And it does not have to be an illusion.

Yeah, that's what we all like to believe. But remember Raed's quote abt "a woman -three men". It's all abt timing. You may fall passionately in love when you both are 17 years old. Because you aren't ready to get married (e.g. financially), you don't, but promise one another that you'll wait for the years to come.

So much happens. Most couples of that sort break up. We see it happening too many times.

But if a man meets a woman, and he is very ready to get married. He likes her (but perhaps not as passionately), most likely he will be already interested in marrying her, coz he is looking for a wife. Timing is right.

I think you make your life. Your choices & actions are what result in what it will be. So if he is in love enough and willing to wait for that right timing he will, otherwise it didnt mean enough to him to hold on to.

A lot of couples do break up because of external factors. But that just means the external factors got the better of them and their relationship wasn't strong enough, or they didn't make it strong enough.

why is age always associated with love?
you can't control when you fall in love it just happens
as for the cab's thing can't the same logic be applied to women?

apparently not..

In my opinion marriage is a mixture of the 2... timing as well as the person.. i personally wouldnt let any person come and marry me just because the timing was right.. i'd have to be in love with the person to marry him, timing is also a factor.. you can't just get married because ur in love.. if ur 2 young to face the responsibilities then i'd have to wait.

thats right .. but how would you know whos lights are on and whos not?


indeed how do we know?

are their special signs? and what makes us sure that these signs are honest? how we make sure that we won't misread them? how do we know that they are not fake?

u dont... i guess u just have to trust them and take a chance on them!