Does playing hard to get really work??

It depends on getting what?! ;)

It depends on getting what?! ;)

LOL! I think you misunderstood her el7ilwa! 'Hard to get' here is the state of being, not the action of 'getting something'.

And to answer your question, it ONLY works if u know how to play it right. As the Egyptian saying goes "A noisy bullet is a bullet that doesn't hit the target" Lol! sorry if the translation is kinda confusing :p. So yeah, if you played 'hard to get' too much your boy/girlfreind might be bored of you and try to search for another one and if you didnt play hard to get atll all, s/he might think that you're so in love with him and that s/he is all that!

In conclusion, play hard to get...but pick your moment to do so :p.

well if it's to get a boy/girl why play hard to get
love ain't a game so why play games :duh:

Does playing hard to get really work??

Depends on the motivation involved while using method. If for fun and fooling around. then sure, its really useful as it will be entertaining.

If its for some serious results then depends on how well the other person responds.

WELL I find it a bit cheesy! lol...but anyways i dont really think it works!

I personally love to fool around with the woman whom I used to love, and sometimes it is really fun! Ofcourse, my intention is not to really play hard, but more like my flirting style. It is amazing to know how pissed she could be, but ofcourse, there is always a "peace treaty" at the end of the game! :)

do you think ppl naturally play hard to get or they are actually playing?? wtf lol that sentence didnt make sense... let me rephrase it.. i mean like, does playing hard to get come with ones personality?? cuz I find it very hard to play hard to get with someone I love.. its like, I dont want to 'act'.. I just want to be myself and I want him to love me for who I am... but how come some ppl are like professionals in playing hard to get?

Kaza, it all depends on the person. They could be professional at it, trying to play their game with a bad intention. Some might play it the easy going way for flirting around. And much more. Why does it seem like that you are surprised with such action? I hope you know that life is not just about the white and black people? (There are Arabs, Chinese, Indians, etc..) (Alrite, I think I am playing too hard on you. Just kidding! ;))

playing hard to get has its moments... and it depends on the person involved.. the person has to know tht u are playing hard to get and tht ur not serious..otherwise they'd think tht they are being pushed away.. when in reality its a flirtatious act.

lol I'm not surprised with the action, Im just trying sooo hard to play hard to get and its not working for me.. I give in too quick. I'm such a softie.. I suck butt..

lol I'm not surprised with the action, Im just trying sooo hard to play hard to get and its not working for me.. I give in too quick. I'm such a softie.. I suck butt..

Not really, like I said before playing hard to get do require some skill. But its not such an essential ingredient, you would be surprized to see how some of the guy/girls get so pissed of when their boy/girlfreind plays hard to get =/.

I think it can be fun for both partners. And in the beginning of the relationship too, women like to be pursued (but not in a sick stalking way) and men love a challenge.

I don't think I PLAY hard to get, I AM hard to get. I guess that sounds stuck up but I just don't fall for guys easily. However, if I'm in a playful mood I would play the part with my partner :D


PS. Don why are you fooling around with a woman you USED to love? :confused:

I personally love to fool around with the woman whom I used to love, and sometimes it is really fun! Ofcourse, my intention is not to really play hard, but more like my flirting style. It is amazing to know how pissed she could be, but ofcourse, there is always a "peace treaty" at the end of the game! :)
Can you explain better if not too personal :eyes:

amo_|_oman, it is something personal. :) (Though do not take this personally because I did not tell you, because I won't tell anyone. What went with my x-lady, stays there. ;))

I am like Kaza ..I can never play hard to get .. because when I love somoene .. I am being me.

Does playing hard to get really work??

Nah it doesnt its n OLD SCHOOL thingy,for those who think it will help, it WONT....its useless. matter of fact it destroyed my relationship once !

I don't think I PLAY hard to get, I AM hard to get. I guess that sounds stuck up

yep that does sound stuck up lol .... I dont think I am hard to get. I am impressed easily

No.

Have some dignity and pride, but at the same time give the guy some hope.

I think It is not play hard to get, it is play fair to get!.

yes sometimes you need this hard playing, it gives some spice to life.

yes sometimes you need this hard playing,

Tried it once, boy gave up in the end. I tortured him so much, when I think abt it. No wonder in the end he gave up. Pity, coz I actually did like him.

Anyway that was when I was younger and immature. Nowadays I just want a mature/adult relationship with someone. If I like him, I'll tell him. If he is that immature thinking "oh she gave in too easily", then I didn't want him in the first place.

I don't wanna go through that "torture him, and torture yourself" process. It's tiring and boring to me.

Just whilst letting your feelings out, have some dignity and pride. Don't forget your pride, but at the same time have some humility to let the other person know how you genuinly feel. That's how I think it should be done.

There are other ways of adding spice to the relationship.

I agree that playing hard to get is cool and fun, when the two are actually together. Like, they have something going on. Just to be playful, like haroun said, it add's some spice to the relationship. But in the end its all fun and games!

But what about playing hard to get with someone you are 'getting to know'? someone you cant call 'yours' yet?

for all you playing hard to get ppl, what if you play too hard you push him away? And for all you softies, what if you give in too much the person thinks you are throwing yourself at them??