how sleezy r men ?? do they talk about us behind our backs... do they go around bragging about wat a fly girl they bagged?? do u MEN sit around n plan ur next move on her... n how u wanna get wat u want n leave?!? when u do see a girl that ur not emotionally attracted to ..but your really "physically" attracted to her.. whats going on in that head of yours?!?
i actually know someone who was put in that situation exactly .. shame she ACTUALLY liked him :barf: point is.. he was " physically " attracted to her at the time... and the only thing on his mind is i wanna get in her pants!! well at least HIS OWN COUSINS got to her on time n asked her to leave him ... because he was " planning " on doing stuff to her!!!! :fire: n he disscussed it with them.....
LADIES... tell me .. how would u feel? and how would u react?
to the otha living species out thee... wats going through ur mind RIGHT NOW?! n r u that kinda guy ?? if ur friend was like that... wat would u ?!?

all im saying is that were human .. we have feelings .. n u come out n say or try to do something like tht.. your in for it!

mmm i can see where you coming at and true some maybe most but not all are that way but it's the same thing with girls some go for a guy for the money or just to get what she physically needs from him seen it done lots of times it's not just a male thing it's how some humans are.

as for what's going on my mind just amazed at how low some ppl would get and at the same time amazed how some ppl are so blinded by "love" they can't see the truth (wether it's a male or female). If my friend was like that would tell him to stop using a girl just for pleasure but from what i've seen it's a two way proccess they both know they are 2gether to pleasure each other and thats all
messed up world we live in

nicely said!! :D now i have something to think about it!! its jus cause it was REALLY bothering me!! n i didnt like wat happened... n yes it is true... MOST girls r like that these days... their only after YOUR money ... n wat u can offer her ! sad..

it would bother me to if something like that happened to my friend as you said it's just sad how things are these days

:) .... but as a guy .. ( ur a guy right :P ) if u were physically attracted to a girl .. wats on ur mind ?!

yeah i'm a guy
physically attracted not really cause physical beauty changes as one grows older (to the worse :P) so mabye for few minutes oh she looks nice or something like that then i'd think of that and then if i'm intrested in knowing the girl try to see what she's like to try and know her better since i'm attractedbut i'm not the kind to go for a one night stand thing either till i die or no use hehe

:P
exactly NO USE! y cant ppl see that... its really pointless... oh n yes... beauty does change as you grow old... hahahha... so u sound like a decent guy .. without a perverted mind... i need someone who thinks that way ! :D

i'm not saying that i dont' have or i have a perverted mind
no one's perfect
but i just said what i would do to that situation

:) ... ok !

I agree with KR ... its part of the human attributes rather then just one of the genders. Overall, either gender needs to be aware of their surroundings. Think if they were with someone of their expectations and define the limits between them. If for a chance they couldnt be sure or had major doubts, then they seriously need to clear it out or walk away before things happen and then no time for regret.


when u do see a girl that ur not emotionally attracted to ..but your really "physically" attracted to her.. whats going on in that head of yours?!?

I'd go hmm :duh: and carry on... as if she didnt exist.

i know a few v. perverted guys, and their thoughts rnt exactly PG 15, and normally most guys would do anything to get some *action*, unless they really care about the girl.. otherwise its just using and abusing..
if both of them know tht they r using each other, then u cant really do much.. but if one is using and the other is in 'lurve' then i'd probably tell the person

duhh every one is looking for the physical side both male and females .
so what's the point of having a girl friend while you do nothing with her ?
even people are getting married just to satisfy their sexual desires and about the emotional feelings its just crap crap crap ...

duhh every one is looking for the physical side both male and females .
so what's the point of having a girl friend while you do nothing with her ?
even people are getting married just to satisfy their sexual desires and about the emotional feelings its just crap crap crap ...

Oh MP dont generalize you don't read minds nor you are into other's heart.

About your thread Bonita, it's not narrowed to male's only but some girls have the same low ideas as well, just like what DD said.

I so much believe in the saying "what goes around comes around" those who have bad intentions and who treat people the way you mentioned will surely come back to them. People should surely be aware those days..

I like KR don't understand how can they be fooled by the name of love, it's just toooo :duh: to me!

Allah kareem!

thanks NAJ ... made me feel so much better after reading that... mashkoora 7abibtiee!!

Hey Girl, you speak the truth. I've seen everything you said over the years. the only solution is to stay away from boys!! theyre nothing but a distraction! if theyre not straightup and open and ready to go to your father for marraige, then red light! u gotta back out of it. itll always Always ALWAYS end up messy...

Try to talk with Dija also, she has good points on this sort of problems

of course there is an as$holic breed of men who are like that and only care about getting the girl in the sack.. but surely there are good men who actually care about more than just getting into her pants. In the end its up to the girl to actually be smart enough to not fall for such low scum. :)

exactly ... so now LADIES... u better be smart.. n think quick ... its either he's in it to see how far he can get with u .. or he actually does REALLY REALLY like you ... n kaza... totally agree with u ... it always does end up getting MESSY in the end... u know wat... i agree with everything u said :D cause its really true... best thing to do is focus on ur studies.. be smart.. think straight.. n you'll be fine :)