You love her and cant live without her, and the same goes to her, She loves you like anything and cant live without you, but both of you are "bored", You have nothin to talk abt anymore, no new news. Nothing to laugh about, whats gonna happen next? Whats the best way to improve the situation?

In that case, the two of them need to try and do some new stuff. Bring something new into their lives that would interest them both, go out and spend some quality time either alone or with a group of friends.

The key lies in change. The more routine you have in your life, the less exciting things will be.

maybe travel!

Travel but separated, probably in the end they'll break, so it seems from the scenario

they dont need to be seperated amo.

Travel brings more and more things to talk about .. even when they are togther.

before when they were just friends they were laughing talking and having fun but when they became but when they became lovers every thing has changed and both of them will remain silence while they are talking on the phone .
from my experience this situation appears when both of them confess about their true love . so when ever one of them try to say some thing he or she will hesitate to say any thing because he/she think that they might hurt his/her feelings so both of them will remain silence.
and in the end both of them will get bored.

They need a break from each other! everyone needs personal space....

absence makes the heart grow fonder.

spending too much time together, even friends who are at school together all the time, then go home and talk to each other on the phone all day or message, and go out on weekends together, they'll be so used to seeing each other that they'll take each other for granted - well, someone will, at least...

they need to start hanging out with other people, vary between seeing friends and seeing each other.

I wouldn't suggest the 'break' thing as a first solution. Before resorting to that they should try finding new things to do with one another, new hobbies, intrests and stuff so that they have something different to talk about.

find out whats the reason,
why is one of them bored,
what is she.he doing wrong...
try working it out....
do some new stuff...
go out and try to have fun..
i mean when you start enjoying yourself...alot of things coem up...
and they will start talking for ages...:)
maybe im not that clear on what i said....
3aad ifhamoha 3al 6ayir..

That is bound to happen at some point in your relationship. You are getting bored because you've had much more than a plateful of your man. Force feeding yourself with love is apt to make you sick of affection. The best thing to do is to take a short break away from each other. Or try doing more things together but dont call each other on the phone. Like they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder. (HOGWASH ALERT) Try spicing up your lives by adding more spices to your tandoori chicken & pickled masalla. You've seen how that bird faced dwarf Pennelope Cruze makes all the guys go wild in 'Woman on Top' by adding red chillies, sour mangoes & green pepper to her soup :yes: . Otherwise, wake up then break up.

Try and get some action in your life. I don't know, do something different for a change. And yeah, you should probably spend some time apart.

If it doesn't change, then no matter how much you like the person, the relationship must end. I think that if someone's unsatisfied with the person they're with, because they're not interesting anymore, it's best to end it in a civil way while you're on good terms, otherwise one of them will go and cheat on the other or do something of the sort.

how can any two people have 'nothing' to talk about. i never face that even with the most boring people on earth. there is always something to say.. as long as u're willing to share it with the other person.. and when it comes to ur partner..then everything should be shared.

Very nice thread. It happens to those who had long relationship before marriage. The spent all they had be4 marriage.

Try watching love story based movies or enjoy your photo albums or home videos.

:(

go out and spend some quality time either alone or with a group of friends.

The key lies in change. The more routine you have in your life, the less exciting things will be.

good idea DR N i was thinking of the same idea and it would be the best thing to do :laugh: :)

how can any two people have 'nothing' to talk about. i never face that even with the most boring people on earth.

It can happen.. .Trust me!

So boring, nothing to do, same days same nights. Need a break need a change.

But obligations:(

I agree with nabhan!!!!
I mean it never happened to me and i think its SAD, very SAD if they didn't have anything to talk about. I would understand if they didn't feel like talking but not having something to say.