Have you ever had someone anonymous send you love notes/letters?

If you did, would you want to meet them or just leave it and enjoy the admiring?

If a guy takes the time to write his feelings on paper for you, does ALWAYS mean he's got true feelings for you?

I never had a secret admirer :sorry: So tell me your stories!

:p

Have you ever had someone anonymous send you love notes/letters?
No not really, but there was this guy who put his phone number on my car once, and then again, put a small paper with a part of a poem with his number again when I ignored him, but since it was childish, I never called him, and he stopped sending me the little notes.

If you did, would you want to meet them or just leave it and enjoy the admiring?
For that once, I left it at that. I had no idea who he was, and I wasn't really interested.

If a guy takes the time to write his feelings on paper for you, does ALWAYS mean he's got true feelings for you?
This guy was just playing around, he didn't put any feelings down, so no, in this case it wasn't real.
But if a guy keeps sending you notes and true love letters, then why not? Still, living here, I would never be surprised if he was just playing with a girls feelings, not everything is like the movies.

So you see girl, I haven't had a secret admirer either, lol. But I'm waiting to hear the stories of others.

Have you ever had someone anonymous send you love notes/letters?

yes, i didnt think it was cute at all.. why would anybody do that..why cant they come up to you and tell you how they feel !!.. he used to write me poems in arabic and slip it in my books which i used to keep in Cubicles .. weird thing is couple of gurls knew who he was but never told me till later !

If you did, would you want to meet them or just leave it and enjoy the admiring?
I didnt go around asking about him or didnt even try to find out ..Seriously i wasnt enjoying it at all.. i wont deny it that i was flattered with all those poems lol but not really enjoying it..i was very paranoid during my university days..who wouldn't be ,in SQU !! :scary:

If a guy takes the time to write his feelings on paper for you, does ALWAYS mean he's got true feelings for you?

apparently this guy was decent he Finally had the courge & got my E-mail from a friend telling me how he felt and who he was .. the shocking thing was he was someone in my class ... i knew him .. so since i was a paranoide lol i ignored Him .. stopped talking to him.. lol. .. the semester was over he was still being ignored .. we started a new semester , he came up to me and apologised ..
do u think i was being stupid ?..lol

Have you ever had someone anonymous send you love notes/letters?
Yeah, a couple of years ago. He didn't send me notes or letters. He made an e-mail account that no one knew who it belonged to, and chatted to me while remaining anonymous. I knew he must be someone from school, but he never told me who he was. It was cute. I was flattered and everything, but I never took it seriously.

If you did, would you want to meet them or just leave it and enjoy the admiring?
I'd probably be curious enough to want to meet him and get to know what sort of person he was.

If a guy takes the time to write his feelings on paper for you, does ALWAYS mean he's got true feelings for you?
No, sometimes it can be a joke, or maybe the guy has too much time on his hands, or he thinks he's in love when it's really just a crush.

Have you ever had someone anonymous send you love notes/letters?
Never :D I always woundered how would it feel :p

If a guy takes the time to write his feelings on paper for you, does ALWAYS mean he's got true feelings for you?
not necessery, some guys just want to check your reactions I guess .. and as I heared some guys make them as tests for girls .. if they went thorough it and beleived it they would distinguish them as easy girls .. this is what I Heared.

Not yet, still waiting...never say never.
Yup i go i go.
Joke or serious? 50% of chances for both, already suffered a lot in the past for declared admirers why not for secret ones?

Have you ever had someone anonymous send you love notes/letters?
As a matter of fact yes. Two years ago. I was in 9th grade back then. He sent me emails. He said he knew who I was and that he liked me and wanted to get to know me more. I found out later on that he was my cousin's best friend and my friend's cousin lol.

If you did, would you want to meet them or just leave it and enjoy the admiring?
I was not interested at first. But we became net friends later on. And to tell you the truth, I had a crush on him. I met him several times but never talked to him face to face. He's one of my close friends now. Nothing more than friendship.

If a guy takes the time to write his feelings on paper for you, does ALWAYS mean he's got true feelings for you?
Maybe.

well there's this number which i keep reciecing sms every now and then but i dont know whose it is... it's really annoying me....

Have you ever had someone anonymous send you love notes/letters?

Yes it happened so many times but the one I remember which is about this one particualr guy whom sent me a very huge bouqet of red roses to my office in New Year, then another one with teddy bears in Valentine. Then another, which really made me think alot, is when he sent it to me on a day that i was most depressed. Honestly it made me smile to get something like that when you are reallllllllllllllyyy in a bad mood. The last one was on my birthday.

Nevertheless, i didn't care to find out whom they were. Usually i get them already in my office or I see the flower guy dropping it to me, and when I ask him "who is it for?"...he says he doesn't know!!

If you did, would you want to meet them or just leave it and enjoy the admiring?

No I wouldn't want to meet them nor know who are they. I enjoy getting the roses, now that my office is like a garden. :hyper:

If a guy takes the time to write his feelings on paper for you, does ALWAYS mean he's got true feelings for you?


Not always true. Maybe he is just having fun or maybe he cares for you but doesn't necessary mean he loves you. Though it is possible that he is in Love.

Though, i was told not to accept such things from a stranger because he will think I am cheap!!..Honestly, i don't believe in this. since he paid alot of money to get me the roses, why not take it?!! if i am not interested in him, at least I accept his roses.

yes, once! it started when i got a phone call (back then i used to have a cell phone)!

then she called me few times!

then i dated her!

she was a nice Turk girl...

ending was sad! :(

i myself do admire many, but never would write anything, as the thread says SECRET admirer!

be careful guys! if you think you've got a secret admirer, it could be part of a prank someones playing on you - yeah, people can be cruel like that... i sound so cynical, but thats the first thing i think of if i get a secret love message.
i actually have this guy on my list who i seriously dont know and he says he lives in my neighborhood and he knows someone in my family or something and hes totally in love with me ever since he saw me lool!!! of course the first thing i did was check if it was any of my friends playing a joke cos i always play pranks like that on them :laugh: - and i still think it is heheh.

Have you ever had someone anonymous send you love notes/letters?
Yup it was sweet but drove me crazy since i hate suprises!

If you did, would you want to meet them or just leave it and enjoy the admiring?
I would want just to know what sort of people i attract, but would not take it any further than that.

If a guy takes the time to write his feelings on paper for you, does ALWAYS mean he's got true feelings for you?
Might be a crush...its sweet anyways...he took the time it just goes to show that he is making in an effort to reveal himself...no matter how secrative he may try to be..

I admire all of you. Oops...no secret now is it?! :scratch:

I wonder if I have a secret Admirer!

Mimosa, am I one of the people you admire, cuz I havent gotten any anonymous letters?

Have you ever had someone anonymous send you love notes/letters?

No

If you did, would you want to meet them or just leave it and enjoy the admiring?

No

If a guy takes the time to write his feelings on paper for you, does ALWAYS mean he's got true feelings for you?

No

I have one , but I refuse to incourage him by returning his calls :p

Yess, i pulled her out....:love:

I have one , but I refuse to incourage him by returning his calls :p


Very naughty boy ;) :gap:

I have one , but I refuse to incourage him by returning his calls :pAt least you got one! I've never had one from either gender :sorry:

OK....this is NOT mimosa, this is someone else. And...because of a technical problem it's coming up with mimosa'a avatar and stuff. Or something. OR I've stolen a login...yeah...or something. OK? So you don't know me right? Good.

Kazablanka and Enigma I admire you both so much. You're so smart and so beautiful and so witty and yet so dignified, so original...so feminist in a nice way but not in a "all-men-are-evil-I'm-gonna-cut-your-****-off" way. You are so wonderful you keep me awake at night, life is an echoing void without you....only you* could fill the emptiness in my heart.




*(or a quart of Woods 100 Navy Rum, and a bucket of pralines and cream ice cream)

Yeah, I had some @$$'s stalking me in college.. I didn't think it was sweet, it actually pissed me off..

I feel so nice and warm having read this sweet and loving piece.. aww

Mimosa is on something... Im scared for him. SoMe1, can u do a mental check up?

You’re scared "for" him or "from" him? Mimosa seems like he had one too many cigarettes today.. don't know if that's effecting him.. but to be honest that part about you keeping him awake at night is pretty freaky.. Watch out girl..

ur topic brings some old sweet memories... :blush:

i had one back when i was a refreshment...our english class used to be in the hospital...and he was from college of medicine..he used to write songs..poems..notes on my desk..i didnt like it first...but then..mmm...it was sweet!! :love:

Yeah, I had some @$$'s stalking me in college.. I didn't think it was sweet, it actually pissed me off..

Is it who, I think it is :laugh: :gap:

but stalking, doesnt make him a secret admirer anymore does it.. :tiered:

Have you ever had someone anonymous send you love notes/letters?
*Yep ..its so exciting looking forward to presents flowers and all those stuffs.

If you did, would you want to meet them or just leave it and enjoy the admiring?
No..all the fun will end.

If a guy takes the time to write his feelings on paper for you, does ALWAYS mean he's got true feelings for you?
*No..if he does he would come and face me.

Have you ever had someone anonymous send you love notes/letters?The men who admired me or who felt something for me and who wanted to let me know about their feelings, did approach me directly. They were never anonymous.

If a guy takes the time to write his feelings on paper for you, does ALWAYS mean he's got true feelings for you?He could have feelings for you, but this doesn't necessarily means that his feelings are well placed ;).

I had this person who use to flood my mailbox with his ever ending poems/letter, they were proffesional written and could take anyone breathe away. I only wish it came from the person I really care.

Anyhow now its history...Its has been 5 years now.

:) Do ladies really think about these things! :)

Yes, too bad I never had one.

LOL, there was this guy who kept on sending me messages a few weeks ago, then he called me, told me he was interested in me and thought I was NICE. I screamed my head off at him and told him that I didn'r want to get to know him, and asked him (not very politely, mind you) to stop harrassing me. Haven't heard from him since. :)

hahah....LIbellula, LOOL!!! NO kiddin, how pathetic!
Last summer, while i was in Oman, i'd get random calls like that......I'd always end up calling them qaleeeleeen il adab and yell at em a lil, then hang up, surely does the job!;)

actually i dont trust guyz....sorry
i know them...trust me even of he wrote a poem just 4 u it dosen't mean that he has feeling for u
cos most of guyz will do almost everything for the sake of chatting with girlz
offcourse not all of the boyz r same but u should always b careful when dealing with them