If no, why?

For girls it can be the other way round, but with a male of course :)

I would .. if he doesnt have kids if I was young and if I was above 27 I guess even if he had kids it would be ok.

If he doesn't have kids and no hate with his ex wife.. cuz she might intrude in our life and problems start from simple little things to huge! I've seen too many situations happening, and I sure don't wanna miss having a great happy life!

I think its ok once i find out that the reasons for leaving his x-wife and if he does not have any kids. It just complicates the situation if there r children involved

I would .. if he doesnt have kids if I was young and if I was above 27 I guess even if he had kids it would be ok.

Vert Interesting why would you reject a Divorcee because you are younger and he has Kids

And would accept him with kids because you are over 27yrs old?? That Not fair Knowingly that you are getting OLD and Rejected through of your 27 yrs and not seeing you are approaching old age you take what it comes. Women be reasonable

If he doesn't have kids and no hate with his ex wife.. cuz she might intrude in our life and problems start from simple little things to huge! I've seen too many situations happening, and I sure don't wanna miss having a great happy life!

Why should you care about his ex wife, Once you have grabed the man in your hand twist him the way you wanted and his ex-wife is a history. just look forward for your new lifw with a New man in your hand :yes:

I think its ok once i find out that the reasons for leaving his x-wife and if he does not have any kids. It just complicates the situation if there r children involved

You are totally Wrong Miss they shouldn't be any reason to reject Divorceed man because he has Kids from the first marriage, actually you should be thanked that his Kids wil leven bring you two more closely and make one happy family, Beside you will be relieved from producing yearly kids :yes: :barf:

Sure. Even if he had kids, I don't mind. Just as long as his ex isn't a trouble-maker.

Can never tell, but I have a feeling that I won't specially if he has kids from his first wife.

Sleyum,
to me, when you get older and you are still not married you options gets limited .. and this is why I would ignore the "having" kids part if I was older.

Hmmm yes but about kids and wife first must see how's the situation with them, don't wanna turn my marriage into a war cause of another war.

if he have kids then no, cause i am sure i won't treat them like i treat my own...

if he have kids then no, cause i am sure i won't treat them like i treat my own...

That's Bad!!
You need to treat Human being as if they were your own fresh... Be reasonable Women's!!!

Can never tell, but I have a feeling that I won't specially if he has kids from his first wife.

BR
Do you hate Kids!!!

If I was divorced and he was divorced, yeah! But other than that, I dont think so.

Why Kazaaaa bella

Why should you care about his ex wife, Once you have grabed the man in your hand twist him the way you wanted and his ex-wife is a history. just look forward for your new lifw with a New man in your hand :yes:

Yes you're right, but what if his ex-wife is a trouble maker and still loves him?! I would never want to compete with another woman to get a man!

My aunt is suffering, and just by seeing her life.. I wouldn't want to be in her shoes!

Why Kazaaaa bella

I DONT WANNA MARRY A DIVORCED GUY! DONT MAKE ME MARRY A DIVORCED GUY!

However, If I was divorced, and he was divorced, it would prolly work out. We could both kick it and talk shit about our ex's together. But if he was divorced, and I wasnt, I'd be too afraid to marry him, for there must be a reason behind the divorce. although, they always put it on the woman, I always think its the guys fault. And plus, he'd probably always compare me to her. or if he wanted me to do something he'd prolly be like "oh my old wife used to do that for me!"

but if i was divorced also, I could do the same thing! If he ever brings up his first wife, I'll be up my old husband!

now i feel like im mumbling...oh well, it made sense to me :)

That's Bad!!
You need to treat Human being as if they were your own fresh... Be reasonable Women's!!!

i am not being bad, but i know my own weakness. and at the end you can't treat all ppl the same way. even mother have faves among her own children

Yes you're right, but what if his ex-wife is a trouble maker and still loves him?! I would never want to compete with another woman to get a man!

My aunt is suffering, and just by seeing her life.. I wouldn't want to be in her shoes!

And that's the point perhaps he Divorced her because she was the trouble maker and he tries to get peaceful soulmate, beside I dont see the point of his Ex-Wife making trouble as she has no bussiness in the Groom new life, she should stick at her father house and not roaming in othr peoples House antd that's our culture her time is history,

i am not being bad, but i know my own weakness. and at the end you can't treat all ppl the same way. even mother have faves among her own children

After all we are all Human being we forgive and forget fast, it will hurt to start with then you will get use of the situation and at the end you will love those Kids as if they were your own, Accept any Divorcee proposal and tell me later that i was right!!! :yes: ;)

Hmmm...No guy answered if they will marry a divorced woman!!....Honestly nowadays I noticed many young guys marrying older women. Not only that, I know a few guys whom can get any girl they want but ended up marrying a divorced woman whom is even older than them!!

If I really liked her and we matched. then I wouldnt worry about such fact. True family might create an issue out of it. But with the will power, inshallah will get them convinced, especially once they get to know her.

Now, before taking such step. I will need to be sure of one important thing. That she is not the comparing type... though thats hard... I dont want to be compared with her X :duh: ... but overall that can be sorted out with time.

if i loved her.. then why not... but then again as DD mentioned.. i wouldnt wanna be compared so she's gonna have to work on that.

BR
Do you hate Kids!!!

I love kids.. but I know for sure that I won't treat them as I treat my own kids.. anyways as I said before I can never really tell till it happens for real...

After all we are all Human being we forgive and forget fast, it will hurt to start with then you will get use of the situation and at the end you will love those Kids as if they were your own, Accept any Divorcee proposal and tell me later that i was right!!! :yes: ;)

what are you talking about?

Depends on why he got divorced. I wouldn't be very comfortable though. I'd always wonder what went wrong in his first marriage, and worry that I would be taking a big risk marrying him.
Also, no kids from Mrs. First Wife, and he shouldn't be too old..

No I wouldn't.

well i dont mind at all as long as it's not his job getting married and divorcing.....

I would never marry a divorcee, let alone with KIDS. I have a stepmom and it's only now (after five years) that I 'like' her. It's like there are two families in one... I can't explain it, but it sucks. I really respect BR for being honest back there. You can NEVER treat them like your own.

I wouldn't marry a divorcee if he was "kidless" either. It's just not my thing.. lol.

YES i would if she is financially independent, pretty and above all has no KIDS!

i never mind if she was still a pure Virgin :P

but it depends on why she was divorced.. and i never mind having kids from her ex-husband .:)

i never mind if she was still a pure Virgin :P



:rolleyes: fat chance of that happening.

Yes I would marry a divorcee coz Im sure he has learnt alot from the first marriage but only if he wasnt physically abusing his wife. I dont mind kids too, I love kids and would take them and love them as my own.

i guess if u luv the guy enough .. then sure.. but i know a few people who've jumped from wife to wife.. not very cool.. sooo for me it would depend if u luv him.. and wut kind of person he is.. would i marry him if he was wit kids? i think if they were old kids.. like in university then yeh i would.. if they were young.. then i dont think so..

I dont mind marrying a divorcee even if he have kids,but there is an age issue, not a 50 yr old man, wel if he is around 25-30 that would be ok, i would like his kids and maybe love them as we go on living together.

And if i was a divorcee and a man wouldnt like my kids, why on earth get married to him? Accept my kids and you get me and vice versa. I dont think any man out there would accept you if u dont accept his kids.

If no, why?

For girls it can be the other way round, but with a male of course :)


Well - I don;t see it being a problem to be honest. If there is no other complications and the only thing the guy has been married before but divorced i got no problem what so ever. But, befre commiting my self with someone who has had a past experience i really have to know the reason behind him being divorced.. !

Why not, I will take her as 2nd wife.

if he have kids then no, cause i am sure i won't treat them like i treat my own...


whyyyyyy???????????????????????

well i think it's ok if i know the reasons and if i agree to be married to him tand if he has kids i dont think i can treat them bad as i've seen many women treating their husbands' kids badly.. i just cant...........

Yes I'll do if she is rich.
(I am a bad person, do you know that?)
;)

well i think it's ok if i know the reasons and if i agree to be married to him tand if he has kids i dont think i can treat them bad as i've seen many women treating their husbands' kids badly.. i just cant...........

Why you need to know the reason anyway, it just sound like women are centre minded when they ask for the reason.

And if he is still married would you accept to marry him?

it's not like that Icy , it's just i have to know why divorce has happened because it might be his fault .... so i dont want to be like his ex- wife..... and again he wont tell me if it's her mistake but at least i would know that divorce is the last thing in his mind what i mean is that he 's not playing aorund i mean marrying this lady and then divorce her after sometime.... ( it shouldnt be his habit)

nana I don't think you should base your life based on a reason. Why, because the man was living with a different woman compared to you, so it means a different environmen, relationship, understanding, etc. In other words judging the man based on his reason for divorcing his previous wife is not right at all.

You should look forward with a new life with him instead of digging the history, because if we assume that it was his mistake to divorce her then it doesn't mean that he is going to to do the same with his new wife.

that wouldnt be a problem with me - it might even be a good thing because this man would probably be more experienced and have learned a thing or two about married life, that way there may be less conflicts. on the other hand, if the man had kids, that would present a problem, cos thats like an instant family: just add wife!!