If a husband/wife leaves the country alone without his/her spouse or family is that something to worry about? Is it acceptable (would you accept it?)

And if one of them goes on more vacations with their 'friends' than their own family.. is that wrong too?

Opinions...

Nothing wrong, just difficult to accept.

I'd prefer that my husband and I travel together but if we couldnt and say, he had to go somewhere alone. The only difficult part would be that I would miss him so much. other than that, I see no threat. Unless, I dont trust him ofcourse, then thats a totally different story. But when you give a guy your trust, and he's sure that you fully trust him, theres a better chance he wouldnt betray it.. But when a guy feels like you doubt in him, even though u dont show it (they can tell), there is more of a chance he would betray the little trust u have in him.

Its not something to worry about , but i find it inappropriate ,a man leaving his wife & kids and going on vacation with his friends !! .. Unless its a business trip or an emergency trip..

If its with a trusted friend..then i dont see anything wrong with it. a man needs time alone with his friends doesnt mean he's gonna do something wrong that the wife should worry about. but traveling alone for holidays? nah.. thats just stupid and wrong in my opinion..and anyways.. i would rather have my wife with me during all my holidays.. if i can afford it.. if i cant afford then why travel in the first place?

Once in a while is fine, and there isnt' anything to worry about. But again, here, I talk about making it a habit. If he keeps doing it, and ignores his wife, and instead of traveling with her, he leaves her behind and goes with his family or friends, then that's when it becomes unacceptable. So you can let your husband leave, but you gotta make sure he doesn't change it into a bad habit. ;)

Its not wrong, I know he needs sometimes alot but being a frequent practise, ofcourse it would make me suspicious.

If a husband/wife leaves the country alone without his/her spouse or family is that something to worry about? Is it acceptable (would you accept it?)
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I would miss him like crazy. I would hate being away from him. Actually in todays world with so many women out there out there to get a man :eek: I would be scared that he would cheat (sorry! I hardly trust them!), that's why I always go for the ones who fear God coz I know that out of their fear of God they won't have extra-marital sex :hyper: .

If he really loved me then he would never leave me. Personally, I would prefer to go with him everywhere he travels to, but if that was what he wanted and it was like once a while then I wouldnt dissent.

I don't think there's anything wrong with that, as long as you don't overdo it. I would actually like to take a holiday alone or with a bunch of friends every once in a while. Say, every 2-3 years. Sometimes you just need a break from married life..

Same as above.

No way :eek:

its not something I will get suspcious about, but its something that would make me uncomfortable ..