Everyone experiences love in a different way. It's possible that your partner doesn't have as intense a feeling as you.

If you knew that someone loved you 'less' than you loved them, would you still pursue a relationship with them? Why, or why not?

Do you think that it is a problem when a couple do not love each other equally or with the same passion?

I'll try to find out what makes me less loved, Perhaps I would be suspicious that he's going out with other wemon.

I might also sit and talk to him what are cause of suddenly change, based on his response I would have to think whats next.

You are all fooling yourself there is no as such the so called Love in this Materialistic world we are living in it, Everyone tries to see where her/he their Interest are

well love isnt measurable .. you dont know how much a person loves you coz everyone express love differently.

if I felt that my husband doesnt show me how much he loves me, I will sit with him explains to him how I like to see love .. and he should try to express it that way. Ofcourse I shouldnt expect to see it much coz after all its not how he expreess love.

If you knew that someone loved you 'less' than you loved them, would you still pursue a relationship with them? Why, or why not?

I would try to understand from them, why is it less. Cause it might not be and its just me assuming it is less, while it can be equal or even more. So we cant just simply assume about this. If we were sure as the partner did let me know about it. Then We'd talk about it and if there is something they are missing out. As in the end it wouldnt be fair for her to be stuck with me while she isnt fully willing to.

Do you think that it is a problem when a couple do not love each other equally or with the same passion?the same passion?

it would be a problem if with enough love. But if the love was mutual and just represented in different ways then it shouldnt be a problem, they just need to work their way in understanding each other more and to adapt to each others habits and ways of expressing.

Yes i would stil pursue the relationship. People love each other in different ways.. it doesnt necessarily mean that they love you 'less' cause they dont express it in a way which u want them to , the way that you would define as an act of love. as long as love is there to start with then everything should be fine. :)

Princess said it all: you cannot measure but we have a different way to love and express it and on the other side there's another way to perceive it.
So if you start making a problem of it then it becomes a real problem, but should not be cause since you love that person then you love everything of his/her way of being and try to accept of this makes you suffer you try and talk of it.

If you knew that someone loved you 'less' than you loved them, would you still pursue a relationship with them? Why, or why not?

Well what's less? Perhaps in comparisson to my love he loves me less but in comparisson to his love for other people its more.

Although I think it would be hard on me personally, I think I need to be in a relationship with someone who loves me more or equally because I'm that sort of person; need lots of love, patience and strength. And I'm extremely difficult :p (Ok, I guess I shouldn't be proud of that!) Untill I feel that he's 100% in love, I won't give much to the relationship.

If you knew that someone loved you 'less' than you loved them, would you still pursue a relationship with them? Why, or why not?
If it was a marriage relationship then I'd without doubt pursue it. I'd try to find out what's really bothering him, and why is he treating me coldly. So basically I'd attempt compromising. Why? Because he's my partner and my soulmate.

However, if it was a different relationship, then screw him. I wont even bother talking to him.

Do you think that it is a problem when a couple do not love each other equally or with the same passion?


Yes. I somehow find this a problem. There would be less understanding between them. Silliest fights between them could lead to divorce.

If you knew that someone loved you 'less' than you loved them, would you still pursue a relationship with them?

I'd go like :wave: to her.

Why, or why not?

Love (and not the kind with friends and family) doesn't work if 'tisn't mutual. :rolleyes:

well love isnt measurable .. you dont know how much a person loves you coz everyone express love differently.




:yes: Ditto.

I would pursue it. Love changes over time. It may become stronger or weaker. The partner who may have loved me a lot less may after some time love me greater.

How can i tell If he loves me less or I love him more ??

how can anybody determines that ??

How can i tell If he loves me less or I love him more ??

how can anybody determines that ??

Nope!
May be if He still maintain the same do as when it started!! :hyper:

May be if He still maintain the same do as when it started!!

lets say for example each and every message you used to send to your partner started with( habibi, hayati...etc) after a year and half u hardly get that ! .. but the relationship is taking a different direction more talk and plans about marrige n stuff !!

does that mean he/she love you less now and just being obliged by the commitment ? :scratch:

How can i tell If he loves me less or I love him more ??

how can anybody determines that ??


You might be able to tell when one person is willing to sacrifice and compromise A LOT more than the other.

You might be able to tell when one person is willing to sacrifice and compromise A LOT more than the other.

True ... Valid point ..

Everyone experiences love in a different way. It's possible that your partner doesn't have as intense a feeling as you.

If you knew that someone loved you 'less' than you loved them, would you still pursue a relationship with them? Why, or why not?

Do you think that it is a problem when a couple do not love each other equally or with the same passion?


how do u really know the amount of someone's love to u exactly ? how can it be measured in the first place compared?? people love each other in different ways , everyone show it differently ... that does mean someone loves you less or more ... i know a person who never shows his love , but is head over heals and no one can ever tell ...

If you knew that someone loved you 'less' than you loved them, would you still pursue a relationship with them? Why, or why not?



:D ....You can probably experience her with a lot of things if she Love u less!....You need to give her tough lesson, Let say: if you came from exercise don’t take shower, and try to wears the socks for almost one month!....So the time she go to the bed and cover her self with blanket!!....You just jump to her and smile!....Hello, I miss you, if she say you’re smell like dead fish just tell her, I hate nice perfumes that all!....trust me she will changes for the good!....She is the ones going to love you more!.......... :)

:D ....You can probably experience her with a lot of things if she Love u less!....You need to give her tough lesson, Let say: if you came from exercise don’t take shower, and try to wears the socks for almost one month!....So the time she go to the bed and cover her self with blanket!!....You just jump to her and smile!....Hello, I miss you, if she say you’re smell like dead fish just tell her, I hate nice perfumes that all!....trust me she will changes for the good!....She is the ones going to love you more!.......... :)


that made no sense at all.

Its not only about Love. Relationships should never be based on Love. Because no one can ever determine how much his/her partner loves them.

Trust, Respect, Patience, Honesty, Compromise, Communication...... all these factors will make or break a relationship. If your relationship has these factors, there is nothing to worry about.

Because no one can ever determine how much his/her partner loves them.

Ok but what is that how much to you?

If someone loves you less, it doesnt mean they dont love you with all they got. You might see it less but maybe thats all they have got to offer.

I agree with Kaza.. hmm. Some people just can't love as passionately as others.