Why do women get so insecure when there are beautiful women around them?
I'm a woman and I've been to many gatherings when I find a woman telling another, ahh my friend is so beautiful so I can't get her my house cuz my husband will be there!!
It's soooooo ridiculous!! WHY!?! Isn't marriage supposed to be based on trust?

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Why do women get so insecure when there are beautiful women around them?

Because they like to put their cute little noses anywhere close to beauty to find out how its been done and the rest follows :laugh: The main reason i think is they lack confidence in themselves and probably there r not sure of what is their husband's taste..so they treat it in such a way..Prevention is better than cure :scratch:

Women..appreciate what you have and give some trust to your husbands but keep some of it for yourselves so that you can still keep going on when he is away :color:

Thats the craziest thing ive ever heard Delicate. What are they? Beautiful peacocks with numbskull bird brains? Women are complex beings who are so self concious abt their god given beauty (ok, & men are wild horny pigs). Love is not only abt physical attraction & theres no such thing as love at 1st sight. If a woman cant trust her soul mate then she cant b trusted herself (neither can a man!).

its a shame the wife was not secure enough in her relationship with her husband to trust him. But I think its his fault, If her husband had made her feel secure then she would have never doubted his sincerity. Ofcourse, some people lacking in confidence and LOGIC will interpret any situation as a threat.

I think that making your partner feel secure is very important. In the case of a woman, we need to be TOLD as well as SHOWN that you love, cherish and care about us. I'm not saying men need to be a constant flow of corniness, but a few sincere reminders every now and then mean a lot. in short, if spouses made each other feel loved, beautiful and secure, relationships would be SO much better.

Outcomes: they can check out hot men/women and talk to each other about it, they can have friends of the opposite gender and not feel threatened, they can do their own thing some days without each other and not have to worry about what the other person is up to.

also, if people were happier, they would lead better lives and wouldnt get fat!!!!!!!!! You see how everything comes back to security

for two main reasons and which are that men like everything beautiful to belong to them and some women enjoy stealing their friends' husbands...

every lady has the right to protect her husband if he was of that kind ;)..

That’s why I don’t want to get married because I can not stick with my wife forever.

And who told you that marriage now days are based on trust?
Can’t you see that marriage is only based on sex and fake love?
Even me I would do the same thing if I saw a woman who is prettier than my wife I would be attracted to her.

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Why do women get so insecure when there are beautiful women around them?

Because they are insecure about their own beauty. If a woman believes she's ugly then she WILL be uncomfortable around other beautiful women! This is about self esteem & confidence.. not jealousy. I'm okay to look at but there are times where I feel like Gollum is better looking than me; at that time I would be touchy about other women who look like magazine cover models and are around my husband. So I can sympathize with those women who do get really insecure at times.

I'm a woman and I've been to many gatherings when I find a woman telling another, ahh my friend is so beautiful so I can't get her my house cuz my husband will be there!!
It's soooooo ridiculous!! WHY!?! Isn't marriage supposed to be based on trust?

I don't know if trust has anything to do with this :os I mean, just because a guy sees a gorgeous woman doesn't mean he's gonna sleep with her. The girl's fear isnt that he'll cheat; its that he'll think she (the other girl) is better looking than herself and all women want to be beautiful, especially to their partners!

No matter how beautiful you are, there will ALWAYS be someone more beautiful than you.

I think that society in general is to be blamed for this insecurity. Women are made to think that without beauty, they are worthless.

I think that everyone should simply accept themselves the way God has created them, and not worry. Besides, beauty is from within. That's true beauty.

Also, a woman can't control who her husband sees. When he goes out, he can see many pretty faces, and there's nothing she can do about it. If she doesn't trust her man, then she shouldn't be married to him at all.

If the man had a wandering eye and liked looking at other women, he'd find a way to do it whether she likes it or not, behind her back. She can't control everything.

Women are insecure about every single little thing and it takes alot of effort to make them feel good about anything. lol .. but that effort spent is worth it in the end. :)

Interesting Delicate..



I'm a woman and I've been to many gatherings when I find a woman telling another, ahh my friend is so beautiful so I can't get her my house cuz my husband will be there!!


I think the husband could be partially blamed for this woman's insecurity.. She wouldn't be this cautious if he constantly made her feel like she's the prettiest woman his eyes have ever seen.. Women can become insecure by the slightest comments from their men about any other women even if it was meant in a harmless way or in a by-the-way sort of way..

So as a general rule for the guys out there: Constantly praising women other than your own is a no-no for sure but what can be extremely damaging to your lady's self confidence is if one woman in particular is over-mentioned and over- praised :6: ...



so it's not really that complicated, guys ;)

For some reason, my grandmother told me never to invite my friends into the house when my husband is around. I was never able to grasp the concept behind it :think:

Lol, it's all just a mental issue.. Inferiority complex.. everybody looks better than me..I dont think i can understand why anyone would say that : she's too beautiful to visit me, cuz my husband will be home?
please.. the problem's within herself, logical thinking on its own tells u that nothing will actually HAPPEN if she were to invite this girl over.

Come on you guys.. its not always the guys fault. if he's wife is insecure, it could be her background, her family or whtever. for example i know this girl who's mother picks n picks on her n all of her faults till this girl thinks she'd hideous but in real life she's drop dead gorgoues!

well maybi this woman felt this way coz her husband is always looking at other women..n all of u know that what's known about all men is that they r always looking n never satisfied with what they have no matter what they have .. so generally women r always scard of their husbands..
n besides as some1 mentioned be4 marrigas r not based on trust these days .. just fake love ..
i wouldnt want my life to be that way ... eefff

For those who didn't notice: This thread is nearly 2 years old and was brought back by the one and only Bimi :).

one: of all the females available in this country, he chose HER!! HER!!! so be happy about that!! really! i'd be totally flattered..cuz its not physical beauty that matters!! and second of all if he were quite respectful, he wouldnt really be sitting with his wife's friends, even if his wife was there, what's he going to do between all women? he should either say hello, and go upstairs or can go out with his friends! (cuz obviously, women wont sit with the men, if it were only men!) nonetheless, the men are most of the time separated from women when they're over at people's homes! right?

i dont see when he'll have the time to really check the woman out, and fall for her, and the woman will steal her friends husband!!! faces should be DOWN! :) sorry :cute:

But haven't we heared alot about friends being the second wives of thier best friend's husbands?

I am not saying women should invite thier friends home, but at the same they should be caution whenever thier friends and thier husbands are getting close!!

i think sometimes women are afraid to bring in other "beautiful" women into their home if they feel that their so called friend is the type who would flirt with her husband.. there is so much temptation a man can take.. after all they are weaker emotionally than women.

..............Every one has a side of insecurity.............either in the matter of Beautiness or cleverness or physical apperance.....etc. But most important thing to help such insecurity is to convince your self that you have your bests and forget the things that you can't hit the top in...........

..............Regarding inviting friends into your house..............I think i would rather invite them when my husband is not around..............for much freedome and relaxing moments.............and to give my guest the time that they could feel free to wear any thing and to cruize arounf the house with no restriction:d............


..................but if my husband was around then there will be no freedom and my friends will feel akward and they won't feel free to move around the house........

.............and you can never control a Man's coriusity......He will always try to snik around just to look around and see how does your friends look like...................and if it happens that he liked some one or one of them liked your husband...........BUMB......you will hear that he got married to her...............:weep:

........As what they say better SAFE than SORRY.............

.........Prevent something that you can control from the start rather than awaiting till the end and feel sorry about ..................:help:

i am not so sure it's the insecurity part thats the problem here, i think it's that girls/women are born with the jealousy problem some more or less than others, and um well women are always competiting with other women...and maybe thats what leads to the insecurity