View Full Version : Help me am pregnant!!


dija
12-08-04, 09:22 PM
HELP me am pregnant!! that was what a close firend told me after calling me in the middle of the night.I was shocked first n i was confused .Did i hear what i heared???
Then after hearing the story from her n that her BF mad a mistake by sperming on her. I finally started to get it. I tried to think straight but i just couldnt . When she said help me i though she was hurt or had an accident or someone might die . I never though that something like this might happened infact i never though that she had sex. I was scared n shocked. The first thing i did was to call the boyfriend n i told him. I expected someone who will get scared n shocked but the big surprised that he was cold as ice!!
After that he said with a cold voice with a laughter in it. Dont worry she will drop it in no time. I was like HOW????
N he told i'v done this many times dont worry.
Many times???
Yeah ...... I wont tell u the rest of the story coz its really long n its kinda weird. Well eventully he took her to a clinic in "WADY 3DAY" n she got abortion in 10 minutes. I dont know after this i knew that God wanted to give them a lesson from this whole problem. But what mad me more shocked from all this that they had sex again after 4 days from solving this problem...
The world is crazy ppl.. :lost:

amo_l_oman
12-08-04, 09:27 PM
The world is crazy ppl..

I agree...but not all fingers are like thanks God.

Najah
12-08-04, 11:26 PM
:no: :Shock: I sometimes get this feeling of not living in some people's planet.. What kind of a clinic is this in wadi 3dey that does shuch thing without any regulation's bla bla bla...

Astaghfur allllah. Astaghfur allah on whats happening.

NaBHaN
13-08-04, 01:10 AM
dont belive everything you hear. and dija.. u might wanna re think about the people u hang around with.. they could be a bad influence.

Shinoda LP
13-08-04, 01:13 AM
dont belive everything you hear. and dija.. u might wanna re think about the people u hang around with.. they could be a bad influence.

If what she speaks is the truth, then yes. Otherwise, don't morning-after pills work along these lines?!

Enigma
13-08-04, 01:20 AM
her BF mad a mistake by sperming on her.:

lol, well thats a nice way of putting it.

Pineapple Thief
13-08-04, 01:31 AM
lol, very nice way of putting it. The boy didnt make any mistake, he is filth, shes the only one who made a mistake by putting up with filth. Have no sympathy for her.

Neena
13-08-04, 01:45 AM
I never knew, that we actually had clinics down here in Oman where they would actually allow abortion, it sounds kinky to me!! :irk:

Anyway, what i can say is, he BF from the way he was talking to you, he does not really give a rat ***** about your pretty friend, and all what he has actually doing right now is that, his having a free ride of sex, why leave it?!! :rolleyes:

Another thing, Sorry to say this, but for sure this friend of your has no mind in that head of hers, its probably full of air!!! She sould be so stupid, to actuallyeven thing for going through such a thing after an abortion, and what was she doing ahving sex in the first place!! :rolleyes:

amo_l_oman
13-08-04, 02:14 AM
Otherwise, don't morning-after pills work along these lines?!
Yup but not sure available in Oman, otherwise a double normal contraceptive pill for 3 days has the same action.
We had a good thread on this in Health Sabla some months ago.

Soulless
13-08-04, 02:16 AM
well no one seems to accept Islam any more .. :no:

well what you said Miss Dija is totally happening in every part of Muscat more over the sex thingy became a normal thing in our society and most relationships are based on sex not on love and I really consider sex is a part of love. :p

That guy is a really big smart *** he enjoyed having sex with that poor lady as she is his wife.

Is that girl homeless? Where are her parents? And how old is she ? hey Dija you must give us some more information ? :confused:

Jizzle
13-08-04, 04:04 AM
one question:

are your friend and her boyfriend omani or muslim?

just wondering.

H-Highness
13-08-04, 08:26 AM
Yeah ...... I wont tell u the rest of the story coz its really long n its kinda weird. Well eventully he took her to a clinic in "WADY 3DAY" n she got abortion in 10 minutes. I dont know after this i knew that God wanted to give them a lesson from this whole problem. But what mad me more shocked from all this that they had sex again after 4 days from solving this problem...
The world is crazy ppl.. :lost:

I find it disgusting and I have no sympathy for both of them.

Morever, it just looklike a story without authentic, how's it possible immediate after abortion a person can have sex ? unless they do it even during menstruation period also (just assumption).

Normal menstruation cycle takes minimum 5 days to complete whereas in a case of abortion or miscarriage a women bleeds more between 7-10 days! but 4 days looks impossible!!

Delicate
13-08-04, 09:52 AM
no sympathy whatsoever...

Manta
13-08-04, 11:46 AM
But what mad me more shocked from all this that they had sex again after 4 days from solving this problem...
The world is crazy ppl.. :lost:
Duh.........Their decisions are more likely to be based on feelings of love and romance!......But there is absolutely nothing wrong with that!........ :)

Pineapple Thief
13-08-04, 03:15 PM
Love and romance? More like lust.

Dr N
13-08-04, 03:41 PM
This is not love!!

Love is way too pure to be used as an excuse for having sex.

Both are wrong. He's just a jerk who cares about nothing but his own pleasures, just an idiot who has no fear whatsoever about his actions, and when he was in trouble, what did he do? Kill his child!

She must be very weak in front of him, apparently, she can't resist him and she can't stay away from him, so she keeps doing what he says. I thought after going through such a horrible time with the abortion and the worry that this must have caused her, that she'd learn her lesson and wake up to reality and discover how wrong she was.

And yes, I can't believe that we have clinics here in Oman, that would just do the abortion without questioning. What exactly was the doc thinking when he or she just allowed it and actually went on with the abortion.

Kazablanka
13-08-04, 06:01 PM
Woah, thats some crazy shit! I think its her fault... shes stupid.


aatooo... thats the sound effect of me spitting to the side in disgust...

nana
13-08-04, 06:25 PM
well all i can say about this is that ALLAH gives us lessons and we should learn from these lessons unfortunetly some people dont even get them ... they just keep on commiting mistakes...... ALLAH show us all the right path and make us good followers....

Libellula
14-08-04, 05:07 AM
her BF mad a mistake by sperming on her

OMG. HAHAHAHA!!!!! :D

Cerulean
14-08-04, 05:09 AM
I hate to say this, but I dont believe this story. As her Highness said, how could she possibly have sex 4 days AFTER the abortion! Besides, I dont think clinics do that in Oman. Thats why we have an orphanage filled with kids. :rolleyes:

Libellula
14-08-04, 05:10 AM
It's not just the guy's fault. If you're going to be sexually active, then it's your own responsibility to make sure you don't become pregnant. There's contraception for women too, you know..

All I can say is, the girl was very stupid.

CrazyReD
14-08-04, 12:26 PM
To put it in simple words this is exatcly whats wrong in the world ppl 4getting thier faith allah yel3an both of them

Arabian Princess
14-08-04, 01:40 PM
If this story is true, then I guess the girl is not only stupied but also shamless!

I dont think the wadi 3dai clinic she is talking about it legal anyway.

Plus what HH said was intresting.

}}RiYaMiNoOo{{
14-08-04, 06:00 PM
An interesting and really SHOCKING thread :Shock:

Has the girl lost her mind or is she a real air-head?? :lost: i mean what the hell was she thinking. Having sex before marriage it's illegal in our society and our religion (well that’s if she was a Muslim).
Isn’t she scared of God or if anyone found out about her and her boyfriend? She could be in deep shit if anyone knew about her sexual activity with her partner! The case would most probably be against her.
If she is a shameless girl doesn’t she care about her parents who would be shameful in front of others?? Well who knows her parents might have thrown her away from their house! :eyes:

About the guy I think he is a smart guy. I mean what kind of guy would get a good opportunity like that and leave it?? Oh I wouldn’t really blame him it’s the girls fault really. sorry to say that gals but wha to do :lost:

Niffer
14-08-04, 07:09 PM
HELP me am pregnant!! that was what a close firend told me after calling me in the middle of the night.I was shocked first n i was confused .Did i hear what i heared???
Then after hearing the story from her n that her BF mad a mistake by sperming on her. I finally started to get it. I tried to think straight but i just couldnt . When she said help me i though she was hurt or had an accident or someone might die . I never though that something like this might happened infact i never though that she had sex. I was scared n shocked. The first thing i did was to call the boyfriend n i told him. I expected someone who will get scared n shocked but the big surprised that he was cold as ice!!
After that he said with a cold voice with a laughter in it. Dont worry she will drop it in no time. I was like HOW????
N he told i'v done this many times dont worry.
Many times???
Yeah ...... I wont tell u the rest of the story coz its really long n its kinda weird. Well eventully he took her to a clinic in "WADY 3DAY" n she got abortion in 10 minutes. I dont know after this i knew that God wanted to give them a lesson from this whole problem. But what mad me more shocked from all this that they had sex again after 4 days from solving this problem...
The world is crazy ppl.. :lost:


This is Nothing, dunno know why a thread for it. If i tell the things i have went thru u will fall unconsious.

amo_l_oman
14-08-04, 08:38 PM
No please don't :help:

Mesmie
15-08-04, 02:12 AM
I'm not surprised at all. I've heard numerous stories about such things. Sadly, most people are clueless of what's really going on inside Oman.

Black I
15-08-04, 02:18 AM
What a world we are living in. These people are animals not human beings or maybe animals wont do that. In 4 days :eyes: . Really how could she do it?

Jizzle
15-08-04, 08:17 AM
humans are part of the animal kingdom.

look up the word "estrus".

}}RiYaMiNoOo{{
16-08-04, 03:14 AM
I'm not surprised at all. I've heard numerous stories about such things. Sadly, most people are clueless of what's really going on inside Oman.
Thats true mesmi u will get :Shock: when u know wuz really hapening over here in our country!

MaterialBoy
16-08-04, 03:34 AM
He sounds classy :rolleyes:

HaYa
16-08-04, 03:44 PM
:eyes:
This is so loathly and hard to believe !!


But what mad me more shocked from all this that they had sex again after 4 days from solving this problem...

medically ,this is Imposible !!!!

Libellula
17-08-04, 05:09 PM
PS: there is a morning-after pill.

dija
19-08-04, 11:52 AM
well no one seems to accept Islam any more .. :no:

well what you said Miss Dija is totally happening in every part of Muscat more over the sex thingy became a normal thing in our society and most relationships are based on sex not on love and I really consider sex is a part of love. :p

That guy is a really big smart *** he enjoyed having sex with that poor lady as she is his wife.

Is that girl homeless? Where are her parents? And how old is she ? hey Dija you must give us some more information ? :confused:
her mom n dad are devorced n she's 21. n now she's living with her step mom.

dija
19-08-04, 11:54 AM
one question:

are your friend and her boyfriend omani or muslim?

just wondering.
they'r both omani n muslims. plus from verey good known families.

dija
19-08-04, 12:01 PM
I find it disgusting and I have no sympathy for both of them.

Morever, it just looklike a story without authentic, how's it possible immediate after abortion a person can have sex ? unless they do it even during menstruation period also (just assumption).

Normal menstruation cycle takes minimum 5 days to complete whereas in a case of abortion or miscarriage a women bleeds more between 7-10 days! but 4 days looks impossible!!
Dont judje something without knowing sis. And there are many things u know but u dont do so i dont think things u know is better then things u do.

dija
19-08-04, 12:07 PM
I hate to say this, but I dont believe this story. As her Highness said, how could she possibly have sex 4 days AFTER the abortion! Besides, I dont think clinics do that in Oman. Thats why we have an orphanage filled with kids. :rolleyes:
I dont know why u ppl always just believe what u want to believe. Ask ppl who r living in this real world and know what happening out there. And forgive me for this but i dont think u go out much. Coz as far i can get from ur information about life i c that u know nothing.

}}RiYaMiNoOo{{
20-08-04, 12:55 AM
her mom n dad are devorced n she's 21. n now she's living with her step mom.
Mashalaaa 21 and acting like that!! :eyes: But no wonder she's acting liek that her parents are divorced and she is living with her step mum... WHY the hell will she care about her (its not her daughter after all)??

they'r both omani n muslims. plus from verey good known families.
Shame on both of them :help:

Silver Angel
20-08-04, 04:54 AM
21?? she sounds like a kid to me...!
aw Well.. Big world crazy people!

}}RiYaMiNoOo{{
20-08-04, 11:19 PM
exactly silver angel!

Sleyum
21-08-04, 10:21 AM
I find it disgusting and I have no sympathy for both of them.

Morever, it just looklike a story without authentic, how's it possible immediate after abortion a person can have sex ? unless they do it even during menstruation period also (just assumption).

Normal menstruation cycle takes minimum 5 days to complete whereas in a case of abortion or miscarriage a women bleeds more between 7-10 days! but 4 days looks impossible!!

Yeaah you are right but these people are as good as Animals, first the killed Human being, then in 4 days they decided to do it again, These kind of People they can use other forbidden places as far they feel suits them, does they know what SIN to them Nope :weep: :weep:

Sleyum
21-08-04, 10:24 AM
:eyes:
This is so loathly and hard to believe !!

medically ,this is Imposible !!!!

The world is getting smaller and people are getting Mad anything can happend

Sleyum
21-08-04, 10:30 AM
Dont judje something without knowing sis. And there are many things u know but u dont do so i dont think things u know is better then things u do.

It look you are so close to this lady, Does she tell you everything that she does do, and in return you too telling your stuff??

dija
21-08-04, 01:30 PM
It look you are so close to this lady, Does she tell you everything that she does do, and in return you too telling your stuff??
I was close to hern i tried many times to keep her a way from this stuff. But unfortunetly its like trying to break a stone no use she never listen. Thats why i am a way from her not that close to her. All though we still in touch .

Sleyum
21-08-04, 04:00 PM
dija..
If she is desperately with Man, does she mind if I happend to fix her with a Man who will marry and protect her from all wrong doers!!

Libellula
22-08-04, 04:48 PM
they'r both omani n muslims. plus from verey good known families.


Girls from 'very good' families don't do this sort of thing. Actually, her family can't be that good really, if she were to end up like this. Where were her parents when she started meeting up with this guy?

Very good families take care of their kids...............................

dija
23-08-04, 06:29 PM
dija..
If she is desperately with Man, does she mind if I happend to fix her with a Man who will marry and protect her from all wrong doers!!
Well am sure if she have any brain left she'll accept any offer of her getting married. All though ill talk to her but not now coz i kinda fought with her. ok :D

Cerulean
24-08-04, 12:47 AM
I dont know why u ppl always just believe what u want to believe. Ask ppl who r living in this real world and know what happening out there. And forgive me for this but i dont think u go out much. Coz as far i can get from ur information about life i c that u know nothing.

You can't blame me! The weather is pretty hot, you know. :sweat:

Her XLNC
24-08-04, 05:29 PM
well all what ill say is women are weak!! they fall so easily thats they problem...weak and dumb...and well in ur friends case its way worse then "stupid"..she should have leant her lesson by now...tsk tsk tsk...Dija sorry but u should really consider being careful with the ppl u hang around wit..and talk 2 her knock sum sense in her head gurl!!

Libellula
24-08-04, 06:58 PM
Some women are so stupid, yes. You can't just blame the guy for this.. You have to blame the girl for being so foolish. Also, their parents. Didn't they raise them properly?