In one of Alanis's new songs 'Doth i protest' there is a line that says: ' im not threatened by every pair of legs you watch go by, i dont cringe when you stare at women.. '
I know not all men slobber over gorgeous women but well, most will have a look. And their female partners wouldn't appreciate it and not always because they feel threatened but because they want to be the one beautiful woman their man looks at and dont want him to think of anyone else (one of my aunts doesn't even let her husband watch music videos LOL).

Before I give my personal opinion about this I wanted to ask :

Girls; would you feel threatened if your partner saw a gorgeous woman walk by? What would be going through your head at the time? Or would you even notice?

Guys; I think women make a huge mistake with you; they assume that y'all are shallow enough to want that hot girl over her just because well, she's hot! But I doubt thats whats going through your mind at the time... I hope I'm right :scratch:

Guys; I think women make a huge mistake with you; they assume that y'all are shallow enough to want that hot girl over her just because well, she's hot! But I doubt thats whats going through your mind at the time... I hope I'm right :scratch:

there is nothing wrong with a man noticing a beautiful woman. am sure that he thinks that his wife is the most beautiful woman on earth ( thats if he really loves her ) .. but surely she's not THE ONLY beautiful one. a beautiful woman is just like a beautiful painting.. or a beautiful view ,, u look at it.. admire its beauty.. and thats it. :)

What would be going through your head at the time?
That he is a man, in case i had a doubt...lol plus i fourth Nabs

well, if you have a girl who's like that, just ask her how SHE'd feel if YOU started *****ing every time she looked at some other guy.

I notice good looking guys walk by. I don't find it threating, it's very normal that he "looks", but not "stares" !

simple motto

"look, but don't touch"

:)

But how do you look? That's the prob ;)

Just a look if she's walking by is no big deal , But if he's gonna turn his head and stare , oh yeh he's gonna get it from me ! :shoot:

I wont say that I'll feel threatened, its more like Jealousy thing I guess!

there is nothing wrong with a man noticing a beautiful woman. am sure that he thinks that his wife is the most beautiful woman on earth ( thats if he really loves her ) .. but surely she's not THE ONLY beautiful one. a beautiful woman is just like a beautiful painting.. or a beautiful view ,, u look at it.. admire its beauty.. and thats it. :)

Hopefully thats the case. It isnt always, unfortunately :)

Its natural for the wife to feel uneasy about her husband looking around. Same as how he will be if she did...

Am not sure what type of character my wife would have but most likely i might just tease her if i do see a someone attractive :p We both should be at ease, as to us its too clear to have any assumptions or doubts. Inshallah.

Guys; I think women make a huge mistake with you; they assume that y'all are shallow enough to want that hot girl over her just because well, she's hot! But I doubt thats whats going through your mind at the time... I hope I'm right :scratch:

isnt more than enough living and studying for nearly 5 years to understand the above...i dunno know..but couldnt get clearly the above statement though I understand the idea of the topic.

anyway...
we walk..we see people, that's just so simple. it then depends on how we react after first sight.. if we keep looking and starning...something dirty is going on inside the mind...if walk and looking behind again and again..woman..forget about your partner.

I wouldn't mind him looking. Thats normal. You can't walk in the street and keep your head down all the time. I'll notice guys, he'll notice girls, thats fine, as long as it ends there. Now, if he saw a girl and started making dirty remarks about certain aspects of her physiqe, then I might start having issues with him :duh:

As a girl, if I knew my man very well, then I wouldn't make a big deal out of him telling me that a certain girl is pretty, so what?!! lol, I'm not really the very jealous type. I won't be threatened unless of course he makes it a habit, and keeps staring at every girl who passes by, then I'd break his neck, lol.

Girls; would you feel threatened if your partner saw a gorgeous woman walk by? What would be going through your head at the time? Or would you even notice?

Not at all.. cuz if i see this really good looking guy in the street when we are together, i'd probably say something like " OH MY GOD! HE'S SOO HOT!" so i wouldnt mind him doing it either.... plus it would be fun... we can check out people together!

I'm not the jealous type... so I probably wouldn't give two pins. He's 'just looking' right?

Girls; would you feel threatened if your partner saw a gorgeous woman walk by?
Nope, I'm confident about myself. And I'm sure my 'partner' would be someone I can trust, otherwise I wouldn't be with him.


What would be going through your head at the time?
Well it depends on how he's looking, as Amo said. If it's just a brief glance or two, then I'd let it go, but if he was really staring then I'd look as well and analyze the 'subject'. Just to see what sort of women catch his eye. Live and learn ;) lol

Or would you even notice?
Ha! Definitely. But I wouldn't get worked up about it because I know he'll be going home with me at the end of the day.

I sort of believe in the "look but don't touch" thing, as long as there's no drooling and intense stares..

Well if my man saw a lovely woman walk by i wouldnt really make a big fuss out of it, but if he stares or says anything about her beauty then hmmmm we'll see wha would happen.... lol. I'm the jealous type of girl wha to do?! :p

Girls; would you feel threatened if your partner saw a gorgeous woman walk by? What would be going through your head at the time? Or would you even notice?



I would get jealous, although I would make sure I wouldn't show him this insecurity. Insecurity can be a real turn off for most men. I wouldn't complain if he looked at some other woman, if he wants to he can. I don't really believe in suffocating him. After all he isn't flirting or touching her.

Bottom line: He is with me, not them, therefore there must be something unique in me that he prefers over the others. :duck:

Girls; would you feel threatened if your partner saw a gorgeous woman walk by? What would be going through your head at the time? Or would you even notice?

I might not notice! But in case I noticed, then I guess it's fine with me. I won't make it a big deal. So, as long as he's only looking then I'm okay with it.

Staring or admiring is, however, another issue.

Staring or admiring is, however, another issue.


But everyone admires beauty. It's only natural.
Staring like an idiot while drooling is the problem.

I don't mind him admiring beauty, but I'd mind if he admired beautiful women.

Guys; I think women make a huge mistake with you; they assume that y'all are shallow enough to want that hot girl over her just because well, she's hot! But I doubt thats whats going through your mind at the time... I hope I'm right :scratch:

that's a negative, over.

I would get jealous, although I would make sure I wouldn't show him this insecurity. Insecurity can be a real turn off for most men. I wouldn't complain if he looked at some other woman, if he wants to he can. I don't really believe in suffocating him. After all he isn't flirting or touching her.

Bottom line: He is with me, not them, therefore there must be something unique in me that he prefers over the others. :duck:

Just cause I am on a diet doesn't mean I can't have a look at the menu. :gap:

What if your wife is BUTT ugly?????

fatak

if she's my wife then i married her for who she is and nothing will change how preety she is IN MY EYES

Girls; would you feel threatened if your partner saw a gorgeous woman walk by?
*Not really.jelousy wil play it part.

What would be going through your head at the time?
*Whats has she got that i dont?

Or would you even notice?
*Ofcoz i would,i'm very jelousy person,so i'll follow his eyes where they are stuck.

i wouldnt look at any woman, and if i looked, i expect my wife to be okay with it, and if she is not, i wont :) im good at that :p

Girls; would you feel threatened if your partner saw a gorgeous woman walk by? loool, no not at all :cool:

What would be going through your head at the time? Or would you even notice?i will probably give a comment my self too, just for gags but i always know and have this in my mind she is nothing but a look, i have got it all and no one cane ever beat me on that:cute: