Xcuse me ppl what do u think of this?
Meeting a guy on the net n loving him is stronger then meeting a guy in a real life n getting attracted to him n sharing something u can touch with him???
well i my self tried both n the second one was stronger to me.
i dunno abt u ppl but it seems to me that something u can feel n share is much much stronger from the feeling side but having a realationship on the net is more darker i mean u can share stuff but u can never touch them all though sometimes its better to stay a way from things u can touch but believe me u need feelings n true one a fcourse.... net realationships is more clear then the one u share with a reall guy u see and touch. it makes u know the guy more and gives u what kind of guy he is... but when u live with the guy u dafinitly experience many stuff with him which is healthier then the net one.... thats ma openion i dunno abt u ppl>?? :lost:

As my Sabla m8 would say: love on net is a puppy love.

Alot of the "nick" remains unknown. The "nick" is only judged for the words he or she types. While "real" people are looked at as a whole. You fall in love with the way they smile, move...etc.

I would not want to fall in love with a "nick"

but when u live with the guy

Live where exactly?

I agree with Raed ..

one thing we always forget .. is that we tend to imagine how the person is through the net .. we dont see the real "them". Yes we might know how they think and thier opinions and all, but not thier life style and thier attituides.

in real life :bored: Icey

How can a girl lives with a guy and still not married :bored: amoty.

How can a girl lives with a guy and still not married :bored: amoty.
dija is bit difficult to get cause she uses this joke of no punctuation and chat language but i think is clear that the Q is do you prefer net love or real love :bang: :bang: :bang:

:twitch:

Ok I got the question now :scratch:.

I hope memebrs will stop using chat langauge while posting in sabla.

I agree. I cant understand chat language at all, be it sabla or chat.

Anyway, my view on this is clear, that you cant hold a 'relationship' with somebody online. Even online friendships are fickle. Ive made friends online that have held for 2 years or so, but then, after some disagreements, we agreed to end it. It was that easy, and I didnt give it further thought. In fact, it was so easy its scary. Whereas, for example, I want to end contact with a particular acquaintance in real life whom Ive only known for less than a year, yet I find it very difficult and troublesome. See what I mean?

Dija, click on 'edit', go back in there, seperate that huge jumble into paragraphs and put in some punctutation, then maybe most people will understand what you're trying to say!! It's so irritating when all I see in front of me is a huge bunch of words and one sentence that goes on and on... and on.

:os

Ummmmm I understood everything she wrote lol.. though it does irritate me to see everything within one paragraph and all..

aaaaanyway, regarding your question... I believe in both, because one day after "net love" they're going to meet and experience more about each other's life, so it's okay.. but it's always good to avoid, but it doesn't harm to have!

One day they will meet, and on that day, real love will be allowed to flower, if the situation is right. Only after they meet.

Of course, there are ALWAYS exceptions to the rule. But thats their fault, not ours!

I liked what you said Read and I totaly agree with you

I dont believe in such a thing called "net love". To love someone you have to see and talk with him in the real life since we dont know if the "net" is always showing the truth.

Sorry about the writting problem but it's easy for me to write this way. However i promise you all to write as you like guys.. :)

Live where exactly?
Living together like in the same place. What i am trying to say that ppl nowadays live together. Its not that i do this but i see ppl who live together and they'r still girlfriend boyfriend.

Ummmmm I understood everything she wrote lol.. though it does irritate me to see everything within one paragraph and all..

aaaaanyway, regarding your question... I believe in both, because one day after "net love" they're going to meet and experience more about each other's life, so it's okay.. but it's always good to avoid, but it doesn't harm to have!
How about that the girl is living far a way from the boy?? The net and the phone are the only conection between them. So thay met but they cant do it the whole time. Its kinda complecated to love someone on the net and see him/her when ever u get the chance but not when you want/need to.

Living together like in the same place. What i am trying to say that ppl nowadays live together. Its not that i do this but i see ppl who live together and they'r still girlfriend boyfriend.

This is the western style and it's not suitable for us muslims. Because it will only lead to problems instead of marraige.

Dija, click on 'edit', go back in there, seperate that huge jumble into paragraphs and put in some punctutation, then maybe most people will understand what you're trying to say!! It's so irritating when all I see in front of me is a huge bunch of words and one sentence that goes on and on... and on.

:os
Sorry honey i'll try my best next time not to write this way. Ok sorry again :)

This is the western style and it's not suitable for us muslims. Because it will only lead to problems instead of marraige.
I know and i agree with you. But thats whats happening nowadays ppl do this. I mean boys n girls r living together actully in our life. Its a way of knowing someone but its wrong in our religion.

I believe that the internet is a way of getting to know people. Online relationships could be possible if they are used as a door to get to know the person, and then meet up, which makes it complete. That is possible, and we've all heard of many stories that ended with the two getting married. Besides, talking of a country like ours, where everyone knows the other, or somehow know someone who knows the other, you can know more about this person in real life, maybe even see them without them knowing, or in some cases, discovering that you actually know the person very well!!

As for being online buddies, and never ever meeting up, well I wouldn't say that feelings can be left out, but it wouldn't be as powerful as real life relationships, there would always be something missing.