How can you gain someone u really love and live with a trust that might be ruined or affected ??? Im not talking about a love-partner here .. Im talking about a sibling like a brother or a mother ... till when are you gonna work hard until u show them that your trust worthy again ? is having to spend more time with them got to do anything with it ? What about if you tell this person all your secrets after this broken trust ? and you know u can telll whatever you want , but its just that doubts that goes on and on about when is she gonna trust me like she used to ?? till when ? what shall you do if u worked really hard on it for years ???

It ain't easy but at the same time its not impossible

Trust is a valuable thing that once its broken, it's very hard to get back.

I, for one, have been through this and I can tell u it's a difficult path. However, it really depends on the situation and how much it affected other person(s) involved.

Don't do anything just live normaly be yourself and let the days fix the broken trust. If you try pushing to restore the trust it will be worse.

Once a person has lost my trust, they can never win it back. I won't let them. Harsh, I know..

I'm guessing that once you lose your parents' trust, life will be hell.

Once a person has lost my trust, they can never win it back. I won't let them. Harsh, I know..

I'm guessing that once you lose your parents' trust, life will be hell.

Parents can't/don't really hold anything against their children for long! If they somehow see (in their own ways) that you're changing your ways, they'll once again start 'trusting' in you.

For a sibling, put yourself in the other person's shoes and imagine what you'd do.

Parents can't/don't really hold anything against their children for long! If they somehow see (in their own ways) that you're changing your ways, they'll once again start 'trusting' in you.

You might win some of their trust back, but not all of it. They will always think from what moment onwards, that you are irresponsible.

so basically when u loose (more like affect) trust from ur sibling u can neve gain it back ever ?????

so basically when u loose (more like affect) trust from ur sibling u can neve gain it back ever ?????


This is not true at all. Our sibblings are our family and family always stick together no matter how bad the situation is and how they treat you at the moment they will always love you. With time and with changes from your side the trust will will come back and all will be forgiven and forgotten. Just give them time and all will be back to how it used to be before. No matter what you may think just bear on thing in your mind, they are only upset with you coz they love you and want the best out of you. So give them time. :)

Im like Phoenix, once you lose my trust, you cant really get it back. Oh, I may act civil towards you, but thats it.

well it takes ages to build trust but a sec to lose it...and it is very hard to gain back the trust of the ones we hurt...... that's what i think

I agree with IcedTea. Trust is not something to push at; it will build on it's own. Live your life more honestly and you will never have anything to lie about much less regret. And don't worry about your parents, they do love you and will begin trusting u again. VERY SLOWLY, but they will begin..

so basically when u loose (more like affect) trust from ur sibling u can neve gain it back ever ?????

You can probably win it back, but it'll take time, and you'll probably have to do a lot.. work really hard to prove that you're sorry for whatever you did. I know that sometimes you can gain trust back, but I don't think that you can gain it back completely. They can still learn to trust you again, but I think they'll always be cautious, and they won't trust you blindly since you've already let them down once. At least, that's what a smart person would do.

thanx solmaaz and everyone for the advice.... i beleive in what u said solmaz , no matter how bad the situation can get i can always gain back my mom's trust .. although sometimes i feel she doesnt listen but i know she wants whats best for me :)