LOVE.... love is there now a days every where and ppl are searching for someone to share with many beautiful and sad stuff..A perfect realationship is going between a guy and a girl there's love honesty and respect and every thing is going well .... And then the moment come after 5 or 7 years of being together whats the end of this realationship???? A girl will alwyas be the one who thinks abt the future and she will always think that it will be a happy ending love story... when she realised that the end of this story is soon and it sould be happy she goes to her love and say "baby i think this is it, we shoud devlope our love story to something etternity" so the guy starte swetting "what does she means????" then she say the magic word would make her lose her love after 5 or 7 years from sharing and being together the word wich will lost her the hope, the happiness and the love :
>>>>>marrige<<<<<
she will lose her man everafter coz he just was her boyfriend and he will always be that not ferther then this and he will never think of marrieng a girl he spended his life with. he wants something new something he ddnt use something he doesnt know something his mom pick it up for him and i am saying something not someone coz thats the fact girls and women are treated in our society...... i was forced to marrey my cosin aweeeeeeeeeeen like he doesnt have any personality to tell his parents he wants that girl his love his every thing...... What do u think girls isnt this whats happening nowadays... :no:

Why would a muslim girl be involved in a relationship with a guy unless he's made his intentions of marrying her clear in the first place? :duh:

Its her fault if she's with a guy 3al fadhee!

If you pronounce the magic word after 7 years for sure he gets a shock cause it was not in his mind, same if you say it too early: the best is after 3 or 4 i guess and using your best magic arts ;)

Why would you waste 7 years in stress and burn your nerves for nothing, is it not better to get married with the right man in the first year and be happy.

Times depend on the people. Its impossible to set a time.

Why would a muslim girl be involved in a relationship with a guy unless he's made his intentions of marrying her clear in the first place? :duh:

Its her fault if she's with a guy 3al fadhee!
I agree... it should be known from the begining .

You call that love? :rolleyes:

First off, if a guy truly loved and/or respected a girl (He just has to respect her, really. Forget love) he wouldn't want her to do anything that was against her religion, or that was risky, and would not sit well with her parents or society.
If he truly loved her, he would only want what was best for her in the long run. He would make it clear that it is his intention to marry her, right from the beginning.

well the thing is . is that ppl nowadays put islam and religion at the end .i though ppl in a muslim society never do stupied stuff like love realationships and stuff or even sex realtionships but whats going on now that most of men/women go after thier needs and wants n they never think abt what s going to happend after their attitudes i mean its all a diffrent world out there its not whats on the surface its more deeper then that many many ugly things happenes out there ppl dnt know but u only need to open ur eyes and never believe whats showen unless u see it.....

:D..........Duh.....how comes you loose a guy in one day!.....Better to get that shit over wit in just 1 minute than takin it for one day!...I took science in advance this summer and just finished my course yesterday (72 average ) so I can take another art course next year so that's that!... :)

Its impossible to meet a girl and immediately say 'Im gonna marry her'. Things may become apparent in time, but I think its wrong to go out and meet people with the clear intention of marrying. Well, no, not wrong, it may be very noble, etc. but maybe unrealistic.

R.i.d.i.c.u.l.o.u.s

It obviously means that he doesnt love u, simple as that. Why wait 7 years for sum1 who isnt worth an atomic fragment of ur heart when hes probably sleeping around. Can u honestly see him as the father of ur children? If u married him, rest assured my dear, it will not last.

Why would she put up with him for 7 years and wait that long in the first place? Besides, loving someone and respecting them and putting religion ahead is totally different from what happened in this case. Well of course the guy would be shocked to be aske for marriage after such a long time, if she really wanted him and he wanted her, they should've gotten married sooner. I mean, yeah, when you meet someone you don't just decide to get married straight away, but the two persons respect each other, and once they know one another, they decide, if they think it's suitable to get married, then good. If not, just break up and end this. It's not love!

Sometimes guys get scared from the word marrige. Thats why the girl never mentioned THE WORD so she stays with him coz she loves him. She expected him to do the first move by proposing but he keeps on delay it up. And coz she loves him she will wait.. :exp:

Wait 4 7 years? Earth to Dija, no self respecting girl would wait that long 4 1 lousy excuse of a man 2 propose 2 her.