Some people demand to know everything there is to know about their partner, while others are content to know only what they are told and what they find out for themselves.

How much do you like to know about the person you're with? Why?

How far would you go to find out things about them?

If your partner demanded to know every single thing about you, and would not allow you to keep anything to yourself, would you put up with it?

How much do you like to know about the person you're with? Why?

I always like to know everything about the person i'm dealing with. Specially if they are a close family member, an intimate person, whomever is close to me.

How far would you go to find out things about them?
I wont really go around asking about them or try to find things about them, i will simply ask to fulfill my desires, and they will be the one i would always ask. Cause sometimes people's knowledge about someone is a waste.

If your partner demanded to know every single thing about you, and would not allow you to keep anything to yourself, would you put up with it?
If its in a reasonable way then why not, i would like my partner to know every and each single thing about me to avoid mis-understanding. Because i think the better we know each other the easy life would be.

How much do you like to know about the person you're with? Why?

Enough to not doubt her.

How far would you go to find out things about them?

I wouldn't ask people or her friends about her and all. If she tells me stuff, then fair enough ... otherwise, the maximum that might happen is me bugging her with questions all along. :os

If your partner demanded to know every single thing about you, and would not allow you to keep anything to yourself, would you put up with it?

I'm 100% transparent to my close friends. Considering that, I highly doubt if I'll hide anything from my wife/partner.

1) As Shinoda said. Basically everything is not necessary, but the more the better.
2) I'd ask. Its stupid to go to others and inquire, unless you are suspicious of something (never healthy)
3) All she need do is ask. As long as I can expect the same treatment.

How much do you like to know about the person you're with? Why?

Most of the things if not everything , am sure my partner would know the important issues that he should sharre with me inorder to avoid conflicts in the future , If he doesnt wanna sharre some family related issues I think I'll be okay with it and respect his personal choice which am sure eventually i'll know so whats the hurry .

How far would you go to find out things about them?

I'de rather him telling me than ppl , I migh harass him with my questions But i'll never ask around about him

If your partner demanded to know every single thing about you, and would not allow you to keep anything to yourself, would you put up with it?

I dont mind at all, I love to sharre everything be it silly or very important , I think its very healthy to be that way in a relationship .

How much do you like to know about the person you're with? Why?
Everything!! I hate to be surprised in a bad way!! I mean I dont want one day a person comes to me and say: oh I know your husband he was the boyfriend of my friend!! :angre: I'd rathar hear it from him than from another person.

How far would you go to find out things about them?
I wouldnt go ask around .. but if I was suspicious I might try in my own ways to get information .. but when it comes to my husband, I would rathar ask him directly.

If your partner demanded to know every single thing about you, and would not allow you to keep anything to yourself, would you put up with it?
definatly, actually I would be the one telling him before he asks .. I cant keep things from him it makes me tired.

The days will tell you all what you need to know don't be in a hurry to demand.

I would like to know everything about my partner, but I won't force him to tell me. The reason behind this is because by knowing what my partner; the person he is, what he likes, what he enjoys.. I can do my best for him to be happy.
As for me, I would tell my partner everything about me, because I think it's important that you know your partner well. It makes communication between you easier, and makes your relationship easier to handle.

I think couples should tell eachother about them and not asked. Sometimes, some people feel awkard asking questions.. so to make it easier for your partner, speak out!

I believe that both before and after marriage, people should consider carefully before revealing uncomplimentary personal info. (unless absolutely necessary), because it causes one's spouse to lose respect, and is thus detrimental to the relationship.

It causes them to lose their feeling that "my spouse is the most wonderful person"; why erode that feeling, if you can prevent it?!

What does digging it up help? It's better to let go of the past, move on from it, and focus on the positive.

First off, I think the past is the past, unless something can be brought up in the present relationship and cause a problem. I think people in a committed relationship - especially one that is moving towards or has become a marriage- would like to think that they know everything about their partner. Considering that marriage is SUPPOSED to be binding I don't think that is unreasonable.

If there is a bunch of stuff you are withholding from your partner then there is a problem, I think, or at least there will be one in the future. Most secrets come out eventually, one way or another.

On the other hand, you can never know everything there is to know about somebody, and if you were in a marriage let's say, and you did learn everything about that person, it would get boring real quick.

There is a difference between just not knowing every single thing about a person and that person deliberately keeping secrets. That old saying "what you don't know won't hurt you" is not always an accurate one.

How much do you like to know about the person you're with? Why?

Everything. I'm like Arby... I don't like finding it out elsewhere.

How far would you go to find out things about them?

I would ask about him from family & friends, definitely. I mean, even Prophet Mohammed advised us to do so.

If your partner demanded to know every single thing about you, and would not allow you to keep anything to yourself, would you put up with it?

He wouldn't have to demand, I'm an open book. I'd blurt out everything anyway LOL.

I would ask about him from family & friends, definitely. I mean, even Prophet Mohammed advised us to do so.


Some guys really hate the idea of thier girlfriends asking other people about them. I mean, wouldn't you feel insulted if your partner went and asked someone else things about you, when they could've just asked you?

If someone didn't trust me enough to ask ME what they wanted to know (especially if it's about myself.. who would know better than moi anyway?), then I don't think they'd be worth staying with.

I understand the need to ask people things about someone if you were just interested in them, but once you've become involved with them, then can't you ask them personally?

Unless the guy was acting suspiciously and you're not sure he's being honest with you, I don't see any reason to ask other people about him.

I was talking about before you got involved with them; you want to know who you are getting into a relationship with don't you? And even if it was a bit later on, (but before marriage since there's no point of it after) I don't see what's wrong with that. You just ask like how they are, what they were like before you came along... but of course not personal stuff that you should be asking your partner himself.

And no, I wouldn't be insulted at all if he asked someone else. I've got nothing to hide so he's more than welcome to ask what he wants. And since I'm not the easy trusting type; I don't blame others who are like that. :)

The Jewish practice is that you do all the research before you meet, and only if both sides are satisfied with what they hear do they meet. But from then on, and especially after the engagement, it is improper to inquire further, because that might damage the relationship that the couple is in the process of building.

Some people demand to know everything there is to know about their partner, while others are content to know only what they are told and what they find out for themselves. The must be crazy!

How much do you like to know about the person you're with? Why? .......Ma self I don't like to know anything about her past even if she is ma wife why should I follow her every way...what for....If you're a.k.a really man you don't need to worry about her....just stay kuuuuul!....... :)

How far would you go to find out things about them?Why should I!.... :)

If your partner demanded to know every single thing about you, and would not allow you to keep anything to yourself, would you put up with it?[/COLOR....]If she want to know every thing about me,I will tell her everything and I would add more salt!....If she is happy than fine... otherwise I don't wanna be with type of such kid at home!... :D

How much do you like to know about the person you're with?
All i wanna know is if she had a shady past.
Why?
Cuz club slu*ts dont make good mothers.

How far would you go to find out things about them?
I'll just believe watever she tells me. Trusting the person u love keeps the pillars of ur relationship from collapsing, I wouldnt love her if I went all CIA on her.

If your partner demanded to know every single thing about you, and would not allow you to keep anything to yourself, would you put up with it?
If i loved her, without a doubt i wood. But I'll b a bigger, more agonizing pain in the ***** than she is if she interrogates me all the time.

If there is a bunch of stuff you are withholding from your partner then there is a problem, I think, or at least there will be one in the future. Most secrets come out eventually, one way or another...There is a difference between just not knowing every single thing about a person and that person deliberately keeping secrets. That old saying "what you don't know won't hurt you" is not always an accurate one.

what about what I wrote about revelation of past wrongdoing causing the spouse to lose respect?