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ToomuchaT 07-07-04, 12:33 AM .. here we go again...
if the income of ur family that is provided by one of the family members (or more than one) is not from a good source (not halal) .. will u dare to say to ur ie. father, that u dont accept what he is doing to get that money!
not halal sources like:
- extra money from the bank (or simillar stuff like that)
- selling stuff that against the law (stuff not like drags)
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...etc...
if u can't ..then what is the solution?
cheeers:)
"Al saket 3an al 7aq shay6an a'7ras"
It's not an easy thing to do, but I think the best way is not to say it directly amd it should be step by step. And bringing evidences from Quran and Hadith will also help.
Homeless 07-07-04, 11:18 AM actually to be completely honest which most of u will attack me for .. I wouldnt care less!!!!
Homey I think you will be shocked to know that I won RO 20K and I didn't take it for myself. You might call me crazy but I won't allow myself to eat haram money.
Shinoda LP 07-07-04, 12:27 PM Originally posted by IceTea
Homey I think you will be shocked to know that I won RO 20K and I didn't take it for myself. You might call me crazy but I won't allow myself to eat haram money.
Dude, you want me to pm you my bank details? Just talk to the guy who's giving you the money and ask them to wire to me instead! :p
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My dad's manager used to do it all the time. Get bribes for approving loans and stuff like that ... my dad never liked the thought of it and thats probably why my dad's not the present manager.
There's an easy way to be well known and rise up the ladders of fame ... whether you want to lose dignity and climb quickly is a question to be answered by your moral and ethical belief!
Originally posted by IceTea
Homey I think you will be shocked to know that I won RO 20K and I didn't take it for myself. You might call me crazy but I won't allow myself to eat haram money.
oh so basically u keep all ur money stashed in the house somewhere? :scratch:
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depends HOW bad the sourse of income is. if from the bank then i dont care to be honest. if its by dealing with something illegal then i'll have something to say about it for sure.
Originally posted by Shinoda LP
Dude, you want me to pm you my bank details? Just talk to the guy who's giving you the money and ask them to wire to me instead! :p
Such money should go to poor muslims. :)
Originally posted by Nabhan
oh so basically u keep all ur money stashed in the house somewhere?
How would I won something if I keep it in da house :scratch:
Originally posted by IceTea
How would I won something if I keep it in da house :scratch:
EXACTLY! so how can u refuse the money they give u if u're already dealing with the bank..which is supposed to be haram. you're just contradicting yourself. :rolleyes:
Originally posted by NaBHaN
EXACTLY! so how can u refuse the money they give u if u're already dealing with the bank..which is supposed to be haram. you're just contradicting yourself. :rolleyes:
Don't think so, the money in your account is related to the person but we are talking here about extra money which is a gift (or riba).
Homeless 07-07-04, 07:05 PM Originally posted by IceTea
Don't think so, the money in your account is related to the person but we are talking here about extra money which is a gift (or riba).
its not riba and since when is a gift haraam? I dont c the harm .. I would take it with a blink of the eye ... I guess ppl look into things in different angle's and when it comes to mine , I think u wrre stupid to just not accept it .. I dont mean to be rude to u but its what I am thinking right now and Iam being honest... as I said ppl c things in different prespectives!!!
ToomuchaT 07-07-04, 09:54 PM Originally posted by Homeless
its not riba ...!!
goodness me... no comment on that..:scary:
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.. do u know that if a not halal (haram) penny was used to feed ur family means that the sourse of ur income wont stay for long as u expect it to be and problems will start and then will end up with debts... i didnt say that.. but that what been said by ppl who experienced such things..
i know it's difficult to give in a direct way coz that will f^ck up all ur family ... but im here to ask whats the right way to use especially if the income provider in ur family just comes from one member in the family!!
cheeers:)
Her XLNC 08-07-04, 01:05 AM i'd speak up straight away if i knew wht my father was doing wrong:angre: ...but in a good way that is....:angel:
now as 4 winning the money...its like lottery..easy money..but i dnt think its right..as long as the person WILLgive some of his/her money 2 the POOR..then its fine..!!
Knowing my parents, they would never let money come into the house that would have any questions marks on them, and we all grew up like this. It matters to me where the money comes from, I'm not talking about the bank, because we all keep our money there, but I'm talking about doing something that's against morals, and I wouldn't accept taking such money, seriously!
Her XLNC 09-07-04, 01:09 AM Originally posted by Dr N
It matters to me where the money comes from, I'm not talking about the bank, because we all keep our money there, but I'm talking about doing something that's against morals, and I wouldn't accept taking such money, seriously!
wise answer Doc.:kewl:
Scarlet 09-07-04, 01:38 AM Originally posted by IceTea
Homey I think you will be shocked to know that I won RO 20K and I didn't take it for myself. You might call me crazy but I won't allow myself to eat haram money.
I know uuuu!:eek: :eyes: I think I do!!:eyes:
Originally posted by Scarlet
I know uuuu!:eek: :eyes: I think I do!!:eyes:
Oh really, then it's good for me :D
Pineapple Thief 09-07-04, 02:55 PM I know you too! You're my newspaper man!
What is newspaper man :rolleyes:
Ice Tea delivers NEWSPAPERS?! :eyes: :duh:
4 me money is money! doesnt matter where it comes from, as far as im not eating the money of others!
IceTea, either u r really too religious, or u r too rich that u didnt accept the approx. $52 thousand!!
which r u?
None of them, but I relized it was a test from Allah.
Originally posted by IceTea
None of them, but I relized it was a test from Allah.
then i guess u failed the test! ;)
anyway man, next time donate it to me, ill invest it in a clinic by buying medical equipments, so its a good deed by helping sick ppl yet making money myself too!!
waiting for ur PM! as soon as u win again!
Pineapple Thief 09-07-04, 11:12 PM Originally posted by IceTea
What is newspaper man :rolleyes:
LOL well my newspaper man won like 100k from a bank, or something like that. Hes bengali.
i will dare to .... cuz it's wrong whether i do it or my father....
Originally posted by The HITMAN
then i guess u failed the test! ;)
anyway man, next time donate it to me, ill invest it in a clinic by buying medical equipments, so its a good deed by helping sick ppl yet making money myself too!!
waiting for ur PM! as soon as u win again!
Even if I failed I failed safely ;), lol
When you decide to start your clinic inform me I would like to be your partner, 50/50. And forget about the bank money :p
Homeless 10-07-04, 11:57 AM im not saying I would live off oney that came from a haraam source but why is winning the money from the bank a haraam source now???
Originally posted by Homeless
im not saying I would live off oney that came from a haraam source but why is winning the money from the bank a haraam source now???
Because it's riba. And as per the Quran the riba is haram.
Libellula 10-07-04, 06:55 PM Originally posted by NaBHaN
depends HOW bad the sourse of income is. if from the bank then i dont care to be honest. if its by dealing with something illegal then i'll have something to say about it for sure.
So you prefer to stick to rules made by us humans (what's illegal and what isn't), and not to what God says is wrong?
hmm.. interesting philosophy.
:os
ToomuchaT 10-07-04, 11:27 PM .. i guess the majority got some consious (spelling again) that fpllow them and that help the to know whats good and whats not for them in thier life...
.. anyways.. i posted this thread co some thing happend to me in my real life a bout 2 weeks ago..
..my father asked me how is ur training is going?..
i said: it's ok, some days im on and sometimes im off as i feel or wanted coz there is no attendance sheet..
my father: u get paid for that training , dont u?..
me: yes, they do pay me for it..
my father: ..and u spend some of that money on us..
me: yes:confused: ..
my father: do u think u will be happy to pay someone for not doing his/her tasks properly? ..
me: no..
my father: so, it's the same thing with the company, if they know that u r on and off as u wish they wont be happy for paying u that money so they will decide to cut off the wages of the days u didnt attend.. right?
me: yes..u right..
my father: then the extra money u get from them isnt pure money for u.. if u want to feed us from that money then u have to do ur job properly.. otherwise u keep the money.
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... i thought abt what went between my father and me.. and i really find it so bad to do such a thing in our life.. we have to purefy our money from what make them haraam.
cheeers:)
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