sallam,

If u have a close friend, who was intresting in u.
but it happens that u were involved with some one else. but u couldnt tell ur close friend that u r involvedv with some one else because u did not want to heart the feelings..........

What if u tried to hook him with another person, so he would forget u and get intrested with her....


would that be called betrayal of the friendship, that u did not tell the truth and used another way of covering up the facts.???






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No, you should have told him. If you want your friendship to endure, honesty and frankness is the best way to go about it. It may hurt him for a time, but he'll come to appreciate it. If its an end to your friendship, thats tragic, but its better than a false friendship you could never be comfortable with, and its better than dragging someone else into the mess.

Originally posted by Pineapple Thief
No, you should have told him. If you want your friendship to endure, honesty and frankness is the best way to go about it. It may hurt him for a time, but he'll come to appreciate it. If its an end to your friendship, thats tragic, but its better than a false friendship you could never be comfortable with, and its better than dragging someone else into the mess. hi#


but what if u tried to give hints ,but he does not want to take them and thinks that it is all fals!!!!

.. if u r well prepared for the consequences..then u can do that.. but till when you will be hiding the truth??.. wont be a break hurt at the end of the day.. i think u should say it from the first time but in a doplimatic manner.. whats the doplimatic manner.. honestly..i dont know it!!


cheeers:)

Originally posted by toomuchat
.. if u r well prepared for the consequences..then u can do that.. but till when you will be hiding the truth??.. wont be a break hurt at the end of the day.. i think u should say it from the first time but in a doplimatic manner.. whats the doplimatic manner.. honestly..i dont know it!!


cheeers:)


sallam,


probably because what u were referring to be a deplomatic manner is not there yet to be used.[:)

thats true !i think u should tell him in the first place ... i like u and everything but i can only see us as friends and nothing more.. if u really dont want to hurt his feelings u should tell him straight ahead b4 he loves u more and more and then by then he wiould be really hurt ... if u tell his straight ahead u wont hurt hes feelings ,true he might be hurt at first but then hell undeerstand and apreaciate the friendship more (he should )) ...put it this way , u wouldnt like someone u like doing this to u would u ?

I think u should always be honest with your friend , otherwise things will get messed up and it might effect your friendship. hiding or ignoring the truth is never a good idea.

hmm...

Givin out Hints wont work.. Cause he likes you... ok plus he thinks now things are fine to be more than Friends...

Hookin him up with a girl.. thats worst.. he might understand that.. and he would go crazy with it.. you might lose his Friendship...

And tellin him must be a Proper way.. for Example.. and this is for Real..
a Male always hate this word when it comes from a girl..(works with me and some Guys.)
" i like you, BUT LIKE A BROTHER"
Or
when you r sayin the WORD BROTHER.. alot..
"How Are you bro?!"

anyhow what i mean is you should tell him Exactly where he stands .. Never lie.. tell him that you have a relationship... and then Hock em up with a girl...:)

And ya when you use the word truth.. try to make in a polite way.. dont be so harsh..:)

thats the best i can say..

Peace..:angel:

I think you just have ti tell him the truth and let himself decide what he is goin to do. Its better to tell him then let him have some ideas that you are still intrested in him. Friendship value.
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am i missing something ere??:rolleyes::D

hi

i know to say the truth is better than not to,,,,,,,

but in such situation it is a bit hard i would assume so.....

any way thanks for ur advices , and i will pass ur advice to the person concerns:)

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dear Intel. i dont think u r missing any thing;)