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Her XLNC 27-05-04, 04:23 AM 'ello Y'all..i havent posted in here 4 like AGES now..but "Anyway"..i'm gona make it Short & Clear :
Will you go out with ur friends Ex..??!!!
:irk:
coz as 4 me its a HELL NO!!:shoot: .. she should neva even think
of doing such thing...n if sumthing is goin on then i suggest she
comes n tell me..u know 2 ask if it was okay or not...but bottom
line..i would most Deffinatly say NO WAY..:fire: ..it
aint "jelousy"..its the matter of pricipal n respect...n if she does
that < going out with mt ex for e.g> then its like she back
stabbed me n threw away along term friendship espically if she
were ma bestfriend..:angre: .. i mean loosing a friendship 4 a guy
is just unexceptable anyway...(VICE VERESA)... n the thing abt
couples "moved on" even though..it jst aint right...coz basically
shabab n banat 3oman ma '7al9o ya'7ai..!! :duh:
so y'all i said wht i had 2 say...wht do u guyz tink..!!
Homeless 27-05-04, 11:49 AM No I wouldnt no matter what and I dont think its right and I dont think its excusable either
if ma friend did it without tellin me.. then its no and its a very big problem... cause i wont leave it alone...
but if he came and asked me 1st.. i would say yess go ahead.. and do what you like.. i wont stop him.. cause it wasnt his fault when he fell for her...
:)
Peace..:angel:
I was gonna start a similar topic about marrying a friend's ex-husband/wife. I really don't think I'd mind if my friend married my ex. If I can't make any use of him then she's more than welcome to try her luck! Maybe I'll feel differently if I was in that position but I don't see what's wrong with it.
DeSerTDesTroYeR 27-05-04, 04:04 PM No, I wouldnt even consider it.
Cause, my friends past will be mine too.
Intellective 27-05-04, 06:34 PM I dont know, but think of it, if i was really in love with the guy i don think i can handle the pain seeing them together. BUt if i was just messing around with him..oh the green light is on. I wouldnt care.
MoonChild 27-05-04, 07:15 PM If it was a long time ago, shouldn't be a problem - if he broke up with her just last week, it would just be rude. If she broke up with HIM, I'd find out why before getting involved - if he acted like a jerk I wouldn't want to go out with him!
My high-school best friend married one of my high-school boyfriends and was worried that it would bother me - I really couldn't see why since we'd only dated for about 9 months, YEARS before, and I was married to someone else already!
Capricorna 27-05-04, 07:57 PM What if she was totally fine with it , Maybe they dated along time ago or she doesn’t really care about him anymore , It really depends how will your friend react to it , but mostly it’s a NO!
Cute_One 27-05-04, 08:10 PM not ever ~~~!!! its a rule not date any of ur cousin's exs or friends exs its just baaaaad !!! baad baad!! i mean one of them would be hurt from the other( the friend might be hurt or the guy) it would be hard to deal with it like nothing happening ... ppersonally i think its sick too ... i mean imagine he kissed her one day , and then he comes and kisses me:yuck: (Im just saying imagine pple relax ! )
No because all my friends have incredibly horrible taste in men :D
Add to that ~ Cause, my friends past will be mine too.
Besides, I wouldnt' want to live with my friends past. I want my own guy; someone I didn't share! :duh:
There are plenty more fish in the sea.
Homeless 27-05-04, 08:59 PM but I think, even if ur friend claims its ok and its no biggie, deep dpwn inside she'd feel weird and even go like ARGH WHY HIM? there are other guys .. couldnt she pick anyone but my ex
Even if she didnt care and they were dating long back and there werent any feelings involved it would still be awkward ... you might c urselfs having fights for the silliest reasons and she doesnt think the fights r because what she really feels deep down inside.. so why complicate matters?!
Her XLNC 28-05-04, 12:39 AM Originally posted by Cute_BooQ
not ever ~~~!!! its a rule not date any of ur cousin's exs or friends exs its just baaaaad !!! baad baad!! i mean one of them would be hurt from the other( the friend might be hurt or the guy) it would be hard to deal with it like nothing happening ... ppersonally i think its sick too ... i mean imagine he kissed her one day , and then he comes and kisses me:yuck:
EXACLTY..!!
I DNT SEE WHY SHOULD THEY GO OUT WITH THEIR EX's IN DA 1ST
PLACE..:duh:
and as "Enigma" said: "There are plenty more fish in the sea." n i
mean P-L-E-N-T-Y of 'em..so i dnt think it would be a prob. 2 look
4 da right one...
am i right here y'all!!!
Never! Dating your friend's ex is taboo , a big No , an unwritten rule in the book of friendship which everyone already knows. Whomever even considers it isnt really worthy of being a friend in my opinion.
FluidNutria 28-05-04, 02:18 AM NO! NO! NO!
*agreeing with whats above :yes: *
Her XLNC 28-05-04, 02:28 AM Originally posted by NaBHaN
Never! Dating your friend's ex is taboo , a big No , an unwritten rule in the book of friendship which everyone already knows. Whomever even considers it isnt really worthy of being a friend in my opinion.
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Scarlet 29-05-04, 08:44 PM nope..
never can..never will..:yes:
i got 1 word 2 say:
:no: NO :no:
Originally posted by Diva
I was gonna start a similar topic about marrying a friend's ex-husband/wife. I really don't think I'd mind if my friend married my ex. If I can't make any use of him then she's more than welcome to try her luck! Maybe I'll feel differently if I was in that position but I don't see what's wrong with it.
totaly agree with you Diva...
so what if my friend goes out with my ex..... i mean my relationship with him is over... but here i have to know if this was during our relation or after if it was after then i guess no prob she should feel free .....
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