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Solafa
19-05-04, 05:53 AM
sallam


IF a woman gets pregnant before marriage.......for what ever the reasons!


which one has more bad punishment in the eyes of Islam and accourding to the Quran?


-the one who carrying the preganancy and give birth to the baby to get adopt or send the baby away or throw the baby away?


or

-the one who goes through the procedures of miscarriage and kill the unborn baby?



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Enigma
20-05-04, 02:14 AM
IF a woman gets pregnant before marriage for what ever the reasons

Well the answer to your question depends heavily on the reason she got pregnant. Its either one of two:

1. Result of Rape.

I don't think that a muslim woman would be punished if she had an abortion after being raped. Because it would be a constant reminder for her to what happend; she would end up hating this fetus. She has already suffered enough from a horrible crime; its understandable she would not want the baby.

Either way she choses would be fine. But I suppose that bringing up the baby to be a muslim would carry the greater reward from Allah SWT.

2. Result of adultery.

In this case, her partner had her consent in impregnanting her. Therefore it is her own fault..... and she has no excuse to kill the fetus. Shame? She brought that upon herself when she agreed to have intercourse with the man.

Killing the baby would be murder; and I personally think that her punishment would be even worse. She would be committing two of the greatest sins: adultery PLUS murder.

Solafa
20-05-04, 02:27 AM
hello,


i do agree with what u mentioned there.


but personally i think what ever the reason that caused her to be pregnanat, she shouldnt go through miscarriage .............

cause i think it is killing a human been without even being born....... and this is where i agree with u that i think it might have higher level of punishment than giving birth to the baby.


i think it would be better if she give birth to the baby, then she will have 2 choices, either to keep the baby and try to love the baby and rise him/her to be a good muslim for her to get more credits from Allah[swt]

or

give away her child to the one who is in need of a child in other word to be adopted........................

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thats alll my personal view.....

i reallly wanted to know what Islam really says about t his kind of situation...................

how can it vary?!

Abs
20-05-04, 05:16 PM
as far as i know....no one has any rights to take a life away except for Allah.

malak84
20-05-04, 07:28 PM
Salam

The miscourge is allowed i think But it should be before the forth mounth of pregnency, As we all know that the soul comes to the baby on the forth mounth.

but before that i dont think its considred as killing cos how do you kill somone who hasnt got soul yet....

that's my opinion

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Homeless
20-05-04, 09:35 PM
the one who kills the unborn baby
u've already commited one big sin .. why commit another?