Sometimes if you want to be a friendly person dont you feel that there's something stopping you not to be?like having a thought that it s not the right person and so on...or u try ur best being social but you just cant do it?don't you wish being loved and accepted by evry one?well if yes then how can u do that?how can you be popular and stop the others talking about you in bad ways?how can you deal with that?

THANXX;)

sometimes when im being friendly or helpful to a person I just think that they might be taking advantage of my kindness .. sometimes I feel like: god, do they think im stupid just because im trying to be helpful? I get that feeling alot

I give it a try at least, but if they're unfriendly and don't deserve well, i leave them apart: save my heart for someone else ready to accept.

Originally posted by amo_l_oman
I give it a try at least, but if they're unfriendly and don't deserve well, i leave them apart: save my heart for someone else ready to accept.

Same here. If I can tell that this person isn’t worthy of my friendship, then I just ignore that person and make friends with other people. Although I love making new friends, it’s one of things I’m interested in :D

don't you wish being loved and accepted by evry one?well if yes then how can u do that?how can you be popular and stop the others talking about you in bad ways?how can you deal with that?

I would go with the If no as in I wouldnt seek to be loved or accepted, cause if thats meant to happen it will happen by itself for who I am with out me running for it or doing something out of who I am to gain it.

But to answer your question...

how can you be popular?

I guess there are many ways. Some of them would be is being someone that everyone finds interest in. For example, here in sabla who are popular? Those who are helpful, those who are funny and those who are different with the most common things. And of course other types.

stop the others talking about you in bad ways?how can you deal with that?

Stopping people is almost impossible, some people actually live on gossip! No matter how good you are people will always talk, cause thats one of the most nasty habits the human race has. And its more like abnormal to find people who dont talk about others. Its as if it runs in their blood.

To deal with it is to be confident and not worry about all this talk, as long as you know who you are what you do and did. Then what is there to worry? Let them talk, cause that will never end.

So I guess in the end....just being yourself, helpful with a contain of who you help. Being aware of what you do and not over looking people, with time you'd gain some social and friendly points.

Originally posted by DeSerTDesTroYeR
I would go with the If no as in I wouldnt seek to be loved or accepted, cause if thats meant to happen it will happen by itself for who I am with out me running for it or doing something out of who I am to gain it.

But to answer your question...

how can you be popular?

I guess there are many ways. Some of them would be is being someone that everyone finds interest in. For example, here in sabla who are popular? Those who are helpful, those who are funny and those who are different with the most common things. And of course other types.

stop the others talking about you in bad ways?how can you deal with that?

Stopping people is almost impossible, some people actually live on gossip! No matter how good you are people will always talk, cause thats one of the most nasty habits the human race has. And its more like abnormal to find people who dont talk about others. Its as if it runs in their blood.

To deal with it is to be confident and not worry about all this talk, as long as you know who you are what you do and did. Then what is there to worry? Let them talk, cause that will never end.

So I guess in the end....just being yourself, helpful with a contain of who you help. Being aware of what you do and not over looking people, with time you'd gain some social and friendly points. I guess what you said is just :app: ...thanxx alot for answering these ques!:angel:

Just be yourself and don't force yourself to do things not within your nature as a human being.

Originally posted by IceTea
Just be yourself and don't force yourself to do things not within your nature as a human being.


i agree with u.....

if u want to be friendly just be ur self and don't act . also, there is one important thing u have to know that u have to put ur self in the others place before u say or do any thing to him/her...i mean not to be rude ( defesh)..in ur opinion coz i want to act as u r....just when u talk think about people thoughts at the same time....
also there is one thing must always put it in ur mind....don't try to say jokes and laugh as a stupid all the time ....
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must always put it in ur mind....don't try to say jokes and laugh as a stupid all the time ....
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yea that's so true ..coz if u do that u will turn into a fool!..but u know sometimes u just say some jokes just for the sake of make those who r around u to feel that u r a cool person but actually u r not at all!they just get bored of u.:bored:

usually im a friendly person..but when i feel that the person im being friendly with is using me or taking advantage of my kindness then i might turn into a real :6:

Originally posted by CaNdy
Sometimes if you want to be a friendly person dont you feel that there's something stopping you not to be?like having a thought that it s not the right person and so on...or u try ur best being social but you just cant do it?don't you wish being loved and accepted by evry one?well if yes then how can u do that?how can you be popular and stop the others talking about you in bad ways?how can you deal with that?

THANXX;)

Its good to be social, but not too social. like you gotta know ur limits.. be nice to everyone, say hi to everyone, make small with everyone, but keep only a couple of close friend. you gotta watch what you say around some people.. you might not mean anything out of it, but people with bad intentions get it in another way.