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i think that its something like you wanna make a change for the sake of it.. its just a period of time and it will pass inshlla. yo shouldnt worry...
What kinda changes do you wanna make anyways.. and if you do make those changes i dont think you would be able to keep up with them.. see when you do make changes they happen automaticly like you dont force them on your self.. like when you get married you become more mattured and stuff its not that you change it its happens as time passes and you dont feel it or see it but others do..
i think your a kewl person as you are.. and if you make any changes what makes you sure that your going to be more happier then you are now?? stay the way you are.. im sure people around you love you the way you are .. be your self and enjoy your time..
You might disagree with me.. but i dont feel that any one shoudl change unless she/he has a bad side and wishs to change it to the better.. other wise stick to what you are..
ReVeLuTiOnAl^
05-06-01, 09:41 PM
salam all brothers and sisters...it is being such a long time since last post from me.. any way ..here are the news for those who care...
I've been sick for long time.. but i had no idea what it was all about...it is not a sychological or mental or anything although i finished all the exams and I got top marks put me on top of my course...but it just that ...i felt something strange in my life,, i felt that all the friends i have are boring and that i need to change everything in my life.. i feel like i should have to look for new friends although I know and i am very sure that all my friends like me and they want to be with me always.. but it is something i can't help it..and therfore i should do something about it... I feel like lots of things in my life should not be the way they are now.. maybe i should change the way i deal with others, or i should change the clothes i wear !!!! or could be the style of life i follow.. or i don't know....but .. i feel that since i was born and i am following the same routine..although i have moved from Oman to study in UK and that i learned alot of things, if i've been in oman , i wouldn't learned all these things, but at the end of the day .. i still can't see any changes i made !!!>. i made love with a great person...but then in ONE second everything demolished..i look as they say attractive and nice !! (this is not an advertisment:D), but it is still can't find the right way to live... what to do .. i need some recommendations///do u think it is a good idea to have some crucial changes..or..should i just make some light changes.. or what do u think if u were in my position...
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thanx,,,,,
ReVeLuTiOnAl^
08-06-01, 12:55 AM
well...hala Some1:
First thanking u for ur reply..seems no one is interested :P...any way .. i got ur advice...and i think you got the right answer for me.. i am getting better now...i am sure about it...i guess i need to change the atomosphere..and therefore i will go somewhere soon...France or Germany..to have a break and refresh my mind...
Thanking u again ...
with best wishes...
[i][b] well im glad to see that you changed your mind... and its not that no one is intrested in answering back.. its just that a few people come to this sabla anslan and now that the server was down it was a bit hard... but dont worry.. you will always find someone to stick to you at the end.. and we wont let go of you until we are dumn sure your giong to be Ok.. Ok not that your going out of the UK.. don't forget my gift... what ever you do enjoy your self.. But rememeber your limits!! :) ;) :D
have kewl day..
BomBola
09-06-01, 11:28 AM
first of all.. salamat & matshoof shar inshallah..
Second.. give sometime to others before judging on their interest or replying to your topic.. cause I couldn't get access to the Sabla since last week.. & for sure if I had read this about my friend Revol.. I wouldn't hasitate sharing your problem :) so KeEp SmiLing .. :)
I had such feeling before.. & I think that you are right in changing weather.. I mean travelling.. stay away for sometime..
sometimes when you get stressed .. or you make alot of affort in something & axpecting a feedback & you never get it.. you face such feelings.. & maybe losing your beloved partner is one of the causes..
you were busy for your exams.. & now you are free.. so you have the time to think of all bad things that you have faced earlier.. then you face such feelings..
KeEp in mind.. that OLD IS GOLD .. so your old friends should have more value than new ones .. never lose them.. cause they love you.. you just need to change weather.. your style of dreassing-up.. try to make relations with different people (but don't lose your old friends).. make your self busy in anything.. & I'm sure you'll feel better than me.. & then I'll come to you asking for help cause I'll feel the same as you .. ;)
ReVeLuTiOnAl^
10-06-01, 06:56 AM
hey fellow Loo*Tii~...
well...first sorry that i was in hurry in judging u people ..any way .. i am really glad to see u writing again !.. ohh o got what u said ..and i appreciate it..u and Some1 gave me good advice..and about changing the weather (atmosphere)..well as i mentioned ..i will be away from this UK for a while..the ticket is ready :p so i just need to tie my little bag and leave ..
about the new people..i started ..i found some good new people, who seem happy when talking with me .. !!
ohhh u gave me some breath...
thanx alot to u both...
seee u....
You simply asked for help and we are always happy to give you a hand.. by the way.. just for your information and to avoid bewilderment, Loo*Tiii~ happens to be a lady :);)
And im happy to see that you are leaving for the change.. but make sure to LIMITS!! And don’t forget my GIFT!! Im waiting for it!! You know you don’t get help from me for nothing you know!! LoOlz!! Just kidding… whats important to us is that you guys feel Ok and happy.. enjoy your time and have fun.. Take care.. Remember to keep up your prayers even if the whole world stood against you, Allah will always be there for you.. so don’t forget him.. coz he wont forget you..
BomBola
10-06-01, 08:39 AM
no problem .. we are always here for you and the rest.. but I wana ask you something.. will change us (Some1 & I) along with the atmosphere?!!! cause you need to meet new people for the meaning time?!!!!!! LoOlz.. JK :D
ummm.. my special advise to you is to read Quran whenever you feel stressed & need someone beside you.. trust me.. when you read it at this time.. you will feel like loving it soooo much.. & it is the best time to do so..
the only thing that will make you realxed is being closer to Allah .. :)
you will just feel like.. why should you be bothered & you have the gift of Islam !
P.S. I'm very happy that you are being Ok :)
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