well .. this might be long .. but it really made me wounder and I would like to see your advice in this ..
ok .. I value friendship very very much .. a point that I wanted to make before starting .. and I can do anything to keep a friend close to me ..
let me say I have a friend called shushu and riri all of these are part of a bigger group of friends .. I was so so close we shushu for some time .. let say one year .. she was one of my best friends and used to share with her everything i go through .. she started facing some problems .. tried to help her and that made us even closer .. after trying many ways to solve the problem .. she decided to be away from teh group and automaticly she chose to be away from me too .. tried to explain to her that running from the problem is not the answer .. but that was her decision and I respected it .. teh time she was away I found a very hard time gaining trsut with other friends .. and was quite depressed .. but time passed and learnt to move on and not look at the problem from one side .. started being close to another girl ( riri ) .. the girl was so nice to me ( by the way she was one of the reasons of the problems of shushu but she did not cause it intentionaly) .. Riri is a very good friend of me now ..
now both riri and shushu are graduatng .. so before shushu leaves . I gave her a letter telling her that she is still dear in my herat .. and I will always be her friend no matter what happened ..
she replyed back telling me that she feels the same too .. but she told me something that made me wounder .. she told me that one of the reasons taht still kept her away from the big group is taht riri is not treating her normally .. she treat her nice when others are around .. but when they are alone she show her a cold face and dont even say hi ..
I replyed to her telling her that I cannot say anything about it since I did not see anything bad from the girl ..
and I do not want to judge coz maybe she is right maybe she is wrong ..
she was quite amd about taht coz she said if I was her friend I would trust her .. frankly she did not ask me to judge .. but her e-mail as if she was trying to give me excuses why she was not close to me ..
I know that shushu is quite sensetive and she might take things deeper than they are .. and I know that riri never ever said anything bad about her .. but on the contrary she always say nice things and that she misses her around ..
and she even try to do whatever possible to go if there was an invetaition shushu did .. but shushu tries to run away from any invetation she is there now she tells me because she hates being with two faced people ..
Shushu did not ask me to comment .. but she callled riri unworthy person in her eys .. and taht hurts me coz I value my friends very much .. riri dont know anything about this ..
now sorry for the long problem .. but just wanted your help coz I am confused !!!

the way i see it is that shushu is angre with riri coz riri was part of her problem, i suggest that u try (if you want to get involved) to fix the problem between them then they might get friends again!

i am sure its just a misunderstanding that happened, and if shushu had a big heart should could forget about it and start a new friendship from start...

these stuff and normal with friends, its hard to find friends who would go along with other, in the same time some friends tend to get jelouse and wouldn't like to loose ur attention, wouldn't like to be alone...

try to find out what the problem is and see what problem shushu has with riri, if you could slove it, then its good, coz i know how it feels like to have friends fight over eachother...

good luck, just don't loose ur friendship with either one of them :)

maybe you shoudl try to get them both together infront of you and you 3 talk about it and clear things up thats the easest way so that everything would be clear and without misunderstanding!! wish you all the best!

arab, if u go with what Some1 said it might solve the problem and it might make it worse!

shushu might be angre that u even talk to riri!! (where did u get these names from?) shushu might hate u as a friends and the same goes with riri...

ofcourse this all depends on how the friendship is based!!!

let us know of the progress

Man you made my idea sound horrible while it not!! it always works with us girls!!! and my self always do that!! and it works wonderfully!! you dotn need to be so negative about the whole thing you know!! anyways arbprnce knows her friends better and she can only handle it!! and sould shushu and riri be angry .. she said that they are ok when they meet in the gruop but she said too that riri doesnt treat her well if its only riri and shushu!! maybe shushu is a bit to sensitve thats all and she would take every single step rire would do as something -ve!! got it!

First for kamakazys Idea .. I do not think I can do taht .. because in the first place I was out of the proble and riri even do not know that I know about the problem which might make it worse ..
The getting tother was done when teh problem was to be solved ..a nd riri who was a part of it apologized and promised she wil not reapeat teh mistake that she did . and shushu herself told me that she was serious in her apology
but shushu was quite sensetive after it .. and she did not forget the problem completly . and as I said she decided to be away ..
I cannot go to riri and tell her what shushu told me because definatly shushu will be angrey ..
well getting them togther might not be a soloution .. I want to explain to shushu that she is wrong .. but she will say that I do not see the way she is treated
.. and things like taht .. how can I explain his to her ?>
about the names.. am i creative or not .. :) .. I do nto know .. just wanted two short names :)

you know arbprcess,i understand shushu's feelling, and i think that you know excatly what she feels,but i didin't mention what are the feelings of riri,what is her point of you,you said that she is cold when she is alone with shushu,what i advice you to know,i have to say that it's not very honest,try to know what riri think about shushu,as you are her friend,she will tell you,but ask her in a way that she think that now you don't like shushu too much,so you will see her right feelings,may be she will protect shushu or she will express her(may be angry) feelings
if you see that she likes shushu then you can organize a meeting,if you see that shushu were right,avoid to make a meeting between them :)
i hope it would help you