To something that you had always wanted or dreamed for in your life??

Some people believe you say it without looking back. Some say you do it long and fondly.

Consider this one -

Our religion gives three stages of what one can do, to change something you find being done which is wrong –

(1) Level 1 - You change the thing itself if it is within your powers to do so.
(2) Level 2 - You speak about it or try to cause change to be made.
(3) Level 3 – If even you cannot do this, or by doing it, it may cause harm and danger to you, you speak against it in your heart.

Consider this one too –

All my life, even as a working person, for example I had always dreamed of running my own businesses successfully. With the latest events, one is drawing a conclusion of closing shop, and perhaps start a new life somewhere else.


You have lost or are now about to lose your business!. All your efforts. All your dreams. You took early retirement for this, and are now losing it!.

Do you feel the right thing to do now is –

(1) To give up and be a very angry, furious person vowing revenge one day (and full of rancour and recriminations)??
(2) To quit gracefully, saying Alhamdu Lillahi Rabik Allahmin, and leave the rest to Allah??
(3) To try on fighting to gain what you can save or salvage?
(4) Commit suicide - not allowed in religion, eternal damnation.
(5) Run into oblivion - but to where??
(5) Any others??

What should I do?? I need advice and help.

Think About It First!!

Regards,

MagicMan.


[Edited by MagicMan on 05-19-2001 at 10:59 PM]

as you bro mentioned .. bye bye is very huting .. just the imagination of being away fro something that was so close to you makes your hearts achs .. makes it feel like you are going to be lonly after it ..
But bro, life is al about moving on .. and about challanging .. I do not know exactly what you business situation .. but I advice you to fight for it .. to strve and starv till you manage to make it a sucess .. think about it and see why i is not woking .. try to over come those problems and see what are te soloutions .. plan and plan and plan .. and after all it is Allah's belssings taht make it a success so pray to Allah .. and Istakheer ..
if this was not working in more .. see it as a move in your life .. alot of people have lost things taht are so important to them .. thigs that they thought they culdnt live without .. but at the end they moved on .. accept the situation and thank Allah for all what he ahs given you .. because allah says : ( wa in shakartum la a2zeendankum) meaing if u thanked .. allah gives more ..
and after all .. you do not know what faith is hiding .. maye something bigger is coming your way .. Allah knows !

magicman.



others:


Be z in ness


did u have an idea of that buzy u went in.?

(a) if u have capital, of starting another one, keep on trying, but this time ..ask yourself...Is it My line?

and u should be the first one to broom and take; that; garbage bag;]]] and throw it away.(got me!!)

as u didn mention what type of buzy doing, that all i could think it over.


Last. better to leave things safely, and at time to time think over calmly ...from where it started wrong?