hi everybody,
no one is protected from doing any sins, or mistakes
but it varies from person to another,
my point is why when a guy in our society does a mistake
no one says anything, (like dating a girl for example)
and when a girl does the same thing the whole society will
be against her, is it fair...then why is it so...??

Thanks for asking that question.. i myself always wonder!! although that infront of Allah we are all the same.. we both will have thonoob its not because hes a boy and im a girl he gets less thonob!1 can some of you explain this to us?

because guys are known to do more mistakes than girls.. & when I say mistakes..I mean breaking our cultur's rules.. but girls are not.. they should be always under respect following their families..
when guys make mistakes.. they can very easily rap the whole thing off starting a new life.. but when girls does it.. then she might lose things that wont be repaid..(got this point?)

& if we talk about our mistakes infront of Allah.. them both will be gaining thonoob according to their mistakes..

girls are known to be more matured than guys.. girls are the base of the family.. if they gets distroyed than it'll be hard to build them back..

it's easy to trust guys when they stop making mistakes.. but girls?!! how would you trust them?!!

we are never equal..

Loo*Tiii?

Men and women are equal in the eyes of Allah the Almighty when it comes to making these mistakes. As for me I would not trust a guy after he stopped making mistakes; same as I would not trust a girl making them. True the girl has to be more careful about herself because she is the one who can attract a guy's eye, but that doesn't mean that a guy has more right to have sex before marriage for example. I read in the Quraan that the pure men should chose pure women and the impure men should be with the impure women.

why is it easy to trust a guy, but it is not to trust a girl???

then in that case life gonna be difficult, people who think this way will find it hard for them to trust the closest people
to them, their moms, sisters and may be wives too...

if we don't trust who stopped making mistakes then they will never stop that, if ALLAH ya'3fir wa yosami7 then what about us, we should help these people to get rid oftheir mistakes and start new life..

if guys can hide their mistakes easily from us, can they do that from ALLAH..!!??
and if guys can hide and rap their mistakes thenit would bethe same for girls...

ALLAH yestir 3alaina

this is really a good topic .. it is something that always bothered me ..
guys have the right to go free in the society and hide thier mistakes from all humans .. and girls if they just happned to be adolceonts ( murahiqat) and make a small mistake like talking to guy in the phone she will be her whole life regerting for it ..
I do not encourage anyone to do mistakes .. but I do not accept that we are not treated fairly in our society ..
In the 7ukum for zina .. both women and men are equally panished .. so it should also be in all aspects of life ..
If a women get divorced .. they mainly blame teh woman .. and if the kids were bad .. alot of men will say : hathi tarbetik ..
ok I know women start a family .. but a family is a combination of a wife and a husband !!
I wish the society changes this opinion .. guys should be punished in order to have a healthy society .. otherwise .. guys will keep on doing mistakes without raqqeb !