They were supposed to tie the knot on Sept 14th but didnt...rumours has it that ben doesnt want to get married and is looking for an excuse!!

source msnbc news...

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i thought they already split a couple of months ago.

you men when he was caught cheating on her.well i guess they didnt break up...

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez went their separate ways on what was supposed to be their wedding weekend. Who pulled the plug on the relationship? Where did the couple really spend their weekend apart? Access Hollywood got all the details on the Bennifer breakup.

On what was to be the start of her wedding weekend, Jen boarded a plane Friday afternoon at Burbank airport without Ben and arrived in Miami later that evening.

Meanwhile Ben, who was rumored to be in Vegas, spent Friday night at Larry Flynt's Hustler Casino in Gardena, Calif.

"I said to Ben, 'You know, the guys here would rather play poker with her than you,'" Larry told Access.

Flynt said Ben stayed at his poker club gambling from around 11 p.m. to 6 a.m. "If she'll call me I'll let her know that he didn't get out of line. He was in really a truly great spirit, an upbeat spirit," said Larry.


On Saturday Jen, no longer wearing her engagement ring, spent the day at Miami Beach with some friends. Although she didn't look it, according to sources Jen was devastated at the news that Ben had broken off their wedding and was said to be in disbelief.


Later that afternoon, Jen reportedly left her heavily guarded Miami compound for pampering at the Mandarin Spa. That evening she enjoyed the nightlife at South Beach.

Ben was spotted Sunday having dinner with friends at the popular Mexican chain restaurant Baja Fresh. According to People Magazine, his decision to end his relationship came after a heart to heart with his mother. Ben seemed to be coping well though. He even stopped to sign autographs on his way out before climbing into his Rolls Royce and heading home.

According to sources, Ben called friends mid-week to let them know that he was going to call off their relationship -- something he would have known when he made the very public appearance with Jen at The Ivy the same day they announced their wedding postponement.
source : msn entertainment

lol.. this is just so funny. and i guess .. J.LO really is cursed when it comes to marriage. :p

none of them seem to work for her. :rolleyes:

Poor her...

But I think Puff Daddy or diddy (whatever his name is) was/is perfect for her..

I think even today he may be willing up to take her if she says YES... they are alike the difference is he has got many criminal records.. but others than that.. they match

Ben was not the type that could stick to jlo.. he is more in to having a private life unlike his ex- who is a big time show off... she always want the world to know what she has, what she is doing and other things.....

I like jeniffer a lot, her movies and songs.. but with ben.. He is toooo good for her.. he deserves better than her..

Originally posted by selma
I like jeniffer a lot, her movies and songs.. but with ben.. He is toooo good for her.. he deserves better than her..

Exactly......I think he deserves someone like me :p:D

P.Diddy was not right for her..they might have looked good together but he was Big trouble!!

And she left him..he was a way for her to become famous as he produced her songs so she got her fame through him and so did he through her i guess

j lo got married 2 times!!!

one time with a dancer, and ones with a um... singer or sumthin

Ben and J.Lo a No-Go!

by Joal Ryan
Sep 10, 2003, 2:45 PM PT


Matt Damon, Bruce Willis and Jennifer Lopez's "decoy brides" need new weekend plans.

Damon, Willis and potentially as many as three fake J.Lo's reportedly were among the estimated 400 people expected to participate in the nuptials of Jennifer Lynn Lopez to Benjamin Geza Affleck.

Make that the postponed nuptials.

The Lopez-Affleck wedding, widely speculated to have been set for Sunday in Santa Barbara, California, was called off Wednesday on account of, well, wide speculation.

"Due to the excessive media attention surrounding our wedding, we have decided to postpone the date," Affleck and Lopez said in a joint statement. "When we found ourselves seriously contemplating hiring three separate 'decoy brides' at three different locations, we realized that something was awry."

"We began to feel that the spirit of what should have been the happiest day of our lives could be compromised," the two said. "We felt what should have been a joyful and sacred day could be spoiled for us, our families and our friends."

That far-off stampede you hear is the nation's entertainment media decamping from their stakeouts at the Sotto II Monte, the Four Seasons Biltmore, Casa Oprah Winfrey and any other number of posh Santa Barbara area venues rumored to have been reserved for use in the tabloid wedding of the year.

The change in plans was pointedly referred to as a postponement, not a cancelation. By all accounts, Lopez and Affleck remain Bennifer, Hollywood's hottest hot couple not known as DemiAshton.

Buzz has it that the two stars intend to seal their deal at another time, at possibly another locale.

While this development likely is disconcerting to The Wedding Planner's real-life wedding planner, imagine how reporters feel. Infotainment types have descended on the usually tranquil Santa Barbara region en masse since a report last week said Affleck and Lopez intended to do their ring exchange there on Sept. 14.

Us Weekly seemed to have the soiree all sewn up: wedding and reception at the Sotto II Monte, an Italian-style villa in Montecito, California; wedding bands by Harry Winston; and the bride's hair by Oribe.

Early Wednesday, other reports had the ceremony going down at Our Lady of Mount Carmel, also in Montecito, with reception to follow--maybe--at Oprah Winfrey's 42-acre Montecito pad, according to E! Online gossip columnist Ted Casablanca. The Four Seasons Biltmore hotel in Santa Barbara reportedly was to provide catering services (in the form of elaborate, cell phone-equipped gift baskets) for the event.

According to Us Weekly, Damon, Willis, Jack Nicholson, Colin Farrell, Matthew Perry and Alec Baldwin were to be among the more famous members of the wedding party. Casey Affleck, the would-be groom's brother, had been cast as best man. Vera Wang was to provide behind-the-scenes support as Lopez's dress designer.

Prospective guests, reportedly under orders to congregate Saturday in Los Angeles and await further instructions, were notified Wednesday that the weekend wedding was off, sources told E! News Daily.

The wedding watch for Lopez, 33, and Affleck, 31, was on before they even confirmed their engagement last November. The two met on the set of their summer bomb Gigli and came out as a couple while filming Jersey Girl, due for release early next year. (Following the dismal box office of Gigli, the two reportedly have sworn off future onscreen pairings.)

Prior to the Santa Barbara debacle, the Hollywood couple had been rumored to be tying the knot in locations relatively near (Hawaii), far (Scotland) and inexplicable (Atlanta).

Affleck once even joked to the Associated Press that the ceremony was set for "Namibia on Nov. 15. So, you go ahead and fly on down, and we'll see you there," he said.

While the media scrutiny has been intense, Lopez, at least is a veteran of the wedding, if not, marriage business. She has had two prior walks down the aisle, resulting in fewer than two years' worth of wedded bliss (combined).

Affleck is a lifelong bachelor who spent his summer living down an innocent, he says, visit to a Canadian house of exotic dancing.

This week, a British tab claimed Bennifer had a prenup agreement that gave the Jennifer half the right to sue for the Ben half's earnings if the Ben half cheated.



from eonline.com
Sound complicated? Try hiring three decoy brides on short notice.

One thing's for sure about Jennifer Lopez: The gal's nutty for nuptials. Especially her own.

She first walked down the aisle with Ojani Noa, a model-waiter-whatever from Miami, who scored his biggest tip when the Selena star ended up on his arm. But soon after the premiere of 1997's U Turn, Lopez' love life was headed in a whole new direction.

After struttin' her salsa stuff in a Puff Daddy music video, the two became inseparable, and P. Diddy proclaimed them the Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton of the hip-hop world. As if.

By 2001, she hooked up with Cris Judd, and together (with a set of backup dancers), the married pair performed a choreographed routine at their own reception. Not her brightest day. Less than a year later, Jennifer found herself pouring her heart out to Ben Affleck, who couldn't stay away from her trailer on the Maid in Manhattan set.

i quote Hasoon from his post in another topic regarding Ben and Jen split up thy didnt split up
they just prisponed the wedding

well if you read my article above it clearly says that Jennifer is no longer wearing her engagement ring wich means the wedding is off...if it was postponed then she will still be wearing it.

mayb its true
but J Lo earlier lost 2 engagment rings

who cares any way let them split ,get together have babies they just want our attention i'm not gonna give'em that pleasure all my attention is towards my lovely youngy :wink:

well i just want her to make songs and movies and him to make movies as well

HAHAHAHAHAHA
Thats all what i can say !!