I am engaged to this adorable, amazing, gorgeous, sweet, loving guy:D whom I have known for a long time. We are going to get married in December. He told me many times that he loves me. I never told him the word"I Love You" but I hinted to him. Now I want to tell him the beautiful word in a romantic, surprising way that I love him....got any ideas?????????:blush:


I have something in mind but I don't want to say it here just incase he enters the sabla! then it wont' be a surprise anymore. I will see what are the suggesstions then compare with mine.

I don't think such a think needs to be planned RD - planning such a think would just loss its vlaue .. and instead of it being romantic ... i guess it would be something that has been planned rather than truely coming out very pure and beautiful.

All I know is that - if you truely love someone - and you know it in ur heart - you will never have problems to make them know how you feel, and sayign those words are the most beautiful thing but as long it is what you truely mean and feel.

Let it be as natural as possible .. don;t plane anything for its.. becuase it won;t be natural anymore!!

it'll come naturally soon so don't wory about it, and when it does you'll mean it too :)

I am not planning on saying it. I am planning on HOW to say it dear. Ofcours I will mean it when I say it for this I want to say it but I want to say it in a memorable way. It is like when a guy invites a girl for dinner and gives her an engagement ring.

Besides, I am very shy and it is very hard for me to say it. I never said it before and I find it difficult to say it now. He knows that I love him and he knows that I am shy to say it. For this I want to invite him out and make this invitation special as a unique dinner then tell him laaaaaa:)

invite him over, kick the people who live with you in the house out for few hours, cook him his favourite meal, give him a massage (men love massages) and tell him while he's relaxed on his stomach (that way u don't have to see his face).

or if you feel too shy just get him a Hallmark card saying all the stuff that you wanna say and tell him why you can't say it face to face.

Originally posted by Big MO
invite him over, kick the people who live with you in the house out for few hours, cook him his favourite meal, give him a massage (men love massages) and tell him while he's relaxed on his stomach (that way u don't have to see his face).

or if you feel too shy just get him a Hallmark card saying all the stuff that you wanna say and tell him why you can't say it face to face.


LoOoOoOoL Big Mo...we are not married yet so I can't do all that:p You really made me laugh.

So it seems like the dinner idea is not a really good one!!!:duh:

Originally posted by RareDiamond
So it seems like the dinner idea is not a really good one!!!:duh:

or get him a little cake of his favourite flavor with i love you written on it.

and then you two can share the letters. let him eat the "I" and you eat the "love you" parts. that way u get to have more.

Originally posted by Big MO
or get him a little cake of his favourite flavor with i love you written on it.

and then you two can share the letters. let him eat the "I" and you eat the "love you" parts. that way u get to have more.


LoOoOoOoL///you have weird ideas but unique too:p . That is little too romantic for me. I mean the sharing part. The cake part is good too.

Originally posted by RareDiamond
LoOoOoOoL///you have weird ideas but unique too:p . That is little too romantic for me. I mean the sharing part. The cake part is good too.

you don't wanna share do you?? you wanna eat all the letters don't you? i would do the same too. i mean you gonna share your whole life with him what's few letters gonna do. girl why don't you buy him the cake and have it yourself?

If you don't wanna say how your planning it on the sabla because he might see it then he already knows right :tiered: i mean he will know when he sees this thread :rolleyes:

Just say it in the middle of a conversation.. :sweat:

I still don't understand one needs to plane saying that .... anyway doesn't make sense to me!

Originally posted by Neena
I still don't understand one needs to plane saying that .... anyway doesn't make sense to me!

I agree with Neena. Why would u need to plan a day or a dinner out just to inform him something he already knows?

Its just a word, why would it be so hard for u to say it? I believe this word just comes out naturally. While talking or looking at him, u would just feel so emotional that the word would come out genuinely. And thats when its more romantic than planning for it.

Think about it :)

just say it to him when he least expects it , thats what happened to me and i was like WHOA!!! we were having an argument and then she suddenly said it.

and i felt so good after it , and even wondered why we were arguing in the first place. :sweat:

hehe.. women are weird :p

It should come naturally. No planning needed.

I am engaged to this adorable, amazing, gorgeous, sweet, loving guyDidn't you silently say "I love you" when you accepted his proposal?

I'm sure he already knows you do love him, but it is always nice to hear the words. ;)

tell him a soon as possible ... you never know what happens another girl comes n steal him away tellin him how much she loves him woo ba3dain??? LOL :6: :D

Hey dont sweat over it. It will come naturaly, just hold his hand and gaze into his loving eyes and whisper those three lovely words that we already know but love to hear over and over again :blush:

BenzNBabe lol - No dear He will only be stolen if he wishes to be stolen. And when that happends it means he was not yours in the first place. ;)

Alrighto if you all agree on that. Then no dinner. I will try my best to say it. Hopefully sooner. Thanks all :-)

Originally posted by RareDiamond
Alrighto if you all agree on that. Then no dinner. I will try my best to say it. Hopefully sooner. Thanks all :-)

you'll say it just like that now!! what about the cake? and the letters?? ok can you get me a cake since i spent alot time thinking of ideas for you?

LoL......min 3yoni:p Today when you go to bed, sleep and dream that i am getting you the cake and the letters ok. But don't eat all the letters ok:-)

Say it .. Do not hesitate at all ..

Say it... and beleive me .. We are like to hear alot from the beloved one...

What is wrong in that..Fully agreed ..{ SAYING I LAOVE YOU AND MAIN IT IS SO HARD,}

But say it. especailly if you are the only with him..