Many ppl claim that they are muslims & they don't forget a prayer & the read the Holy Quran, but do they really concentrate on what they are reading?? Did they gained the Islamic behaviour from its main sources or they only took it from the ppl around them??
If you just focus on Prophit Mohammed (PBUH) hadeeths & his way of life & behaviours u will find many behaviours that we are not giving them attention & we think they are not important while they are so important & mentioned in the Holy Quran, but we easily don't go back to our book in order to find the solutions.

The strange thing that some ppl tend special schools to behave properly & be ahigh prestige person ppl, & we have better than that in our Holy book but we don't know the value of it.

For example Our religion from different sources taught us how to behave when visiting ppl. First before going to any body we should know if thy are ready to meet us or not & if it is the right time to make this visit( There is ayah talk about this part but cauz I can't remember it all so I would better not post it now), & now we have phones to call the ppl we want to visit which make it easier for us. Next when visiting some body our prophit taught us the right way to knock the door by knocking 3 times only & keep a time between one knock & another & don't knock hardly as u gonna break the door:rolleyes:.Then when the person u r visiting come to the door it is from the politness to say your name when he asks & don't say it is me!!! " One day a man visited our prophit & when he came to open the door our prophit asked who is this?? The man answered It is me, then prophit Mohammed was angry & he said it is me? It is me?? & the man noticed his mistack & from that day every one visit any one tells his name first". When u enter to the man house you should follow him & sit where he asks u to sit, then you are not allowed to use his stuff with out permission like using his phone to answer your callers
:duh: , or embaresse him by asking him to make an international call from his phone, cauz this sound very unpolite & u are sure that the man will feel shy to say no!! But as prophit Mohammed sayed" Any thing was taken by embaressing the second part it is 7aram for you". Finaly staying at the ppl house for along time is not a polite behaviour, cauz u gonna be very heavy guest to the ppl & they gonna feel bored from u, stay as less as u can so ppl will feel happy to invite u again.

That was a small example for our dially behaviour which is mentioned step by step, by our Religion " One jewish man from Al madinah said: Prophit Mohammed taught the muslims every thing in their way of life even what they eat & the way they eat", which we gonna talk about it later.

"Do you know what is better than charity and fasting and prayer? It is keeping peace and good relations between people, as quarrels and bad feelings destroy mankind. (Muslims & Bukhari)..... This is the words of our prophit Mohammed(PBUH) who you are claiming is incouraging the terrorism:rolleyes:.
Just read these Words of Wisdom from Prophet Mohammad (pbuh) before give your judgment at him with out knowing his reality, who gives such advices & ask for these behaviours is a man who want to bulid & protect not to destroy & kill.

1.. Acquire knowledge, it enables its professor to distinguish right from wrong; it lights the way to heaven. It is our friend in the desert, our company in solitude and companion when friendless. It guides us to happiness, it sustains us in misery, it is an ornament amongst friends and an armour against enemies. (widely attributed to the Prophet Mohammed (pbuh))

2.. A Muslim who plants a tree or sows a field, from which man, birds and animals can eat, is committing an act of charity. (Muslim)

3.. There is a polish for everything that takes away rust; and the polish for the heart is the remembrance of Allah. (Bukhari)

4.. What actions are most excellent? To gladden the heart of human beings, to feed the hungry, to help the afflicted, to lighten the sorrow of the sorrowful, and to remove the sufferings of the injured. (Bukhari)

5.. The most excellent Jihad is that for the conquest of self. (Bukhari)

6.. If you put your whole trust in Allah, as you ought, He most certainly will satisfy your needs, as He satisfies those of the birds. They come out hungry in the morning, but return full to their nests. (Tirmidhi)

7.. When Allah created his creatures He wrote above His throne: 'Verily, my Compassion overcomes my wrath. (Bukhari & Muslim)

8.. Allah will not give mercy to anyone, except those who give mercy to other creatures. (Abdullah b. Amr: Abu Daud & Tirmidhi)

9.. 'Son, if you are able, keep your heart from morning till night and from night till morning free from malice towards anyone.' Then the Prophet said: 'O my son! This is one of my laws, and he, who loves my laws verily loves me.' (Bukhari)

10.. Say what is true, although it may be better and displeasing to people. (Baihaqi)

11.. Kindness is a mark of faith, and whoever is not kind has no faith. (Muslim)

12.. When you see a person who has been given more than you in money and beauty, look to those, who have been given less. (Muslim)

13.. If you do not feel ashamed of anything, then you can do whatever you like. (Abu-Masud: Bukhari)

14.. O Lord, grant me your love, grant me that I love those who love you; grant me, that I might do the deeds that win your love. Make your love dearer to me than the love of myself, my family and wealth. (Tirmidhi)

15.. It is better to sit alone than in company with the bad; and it is better still to sit with the good than alone. It is better to speak to a seeker of knowledge than to remain silent; but silence is better than idle words. (Bukhari)

16.. Verily, a man teaching his child manners is better than giving one bushel of grain in alms. (Muslim)

17.. Whoever is kind, Allah will be kind to him; therefore be kind to man on the earth. He Who is in heaven will show mercy on you.(Abu Daud: Tirmidhi)

18.. It is difficult for a man laden with riches to climb the steep path, that leads to bliss. (Muslim)

19.. Once a man, who was passing through a road, found a branch of a tree with torns obstructing it. The man removed the thorns from the way. Allah thanked him and forgave his sins. (Bukhari)

20.. Who are the learned? Those who practice what they know. (Bukhari)

21.. Allah has revealed to me, that you must be humble. No one should boast over one another, and no one should oppress another. (Iyad b. Hinar al-Mujashi: Muslim)

22.. Who is the most favoured of Allah? He, from whom the greatest good comes to His creatures. (Bukhari)

23.. A true Muslim is thankful to Allah in prosperity, and resigned to His will in adversity. (Muslim)

24.. A Muslim who meets with others and shares their burdens is better than one who lives a life of seclusion and contemplation. (Muslim)

25.. Serve Allah, as you would if you could see Him; although you cannot see Him, He can see you. (Umar: Muslim)

26.. Allah does not look at your appearance or your possessions; but He looks at your heart and your deeds. (Abu Huraira: Muslim)

27.. The best richness is the richness of the soul. (at the field ofTabuk, Syria, Rajab 9 A.H.: Bukhari)

28.. Keep yourselves far from envy; because it eats up and takes away good actions, like a fire eats up and burns wood. (Abu Daud)

29.. Much silence and a good disposition, there are no two things better than these. (Bukhari)

30.. Verily, Allah is mild and is fond of mildness, and He gives to the mild what He does not give to the harsh. (Muslim)

31.. Whoever loves to meet Allah, Allah loves to meet him. (Bukhari)

32.. Once the Prophet was asked:'Tell us, which action is dearest to Allah?' He answered:'To say your prayer at its proper time.' Again he was asked: 'What comes next?' Mohammed said: 'To show kindness to parents.' 'Then what?' he was asked, 'To strive for the cause of Allah!' (Ibn Masad: Bukhari)

33.. When two persons are together, two of them must no whisper to each other, without letting the third hear; because it would hurt him. (Bukhari & Muslim)

34.. Verily, it is one of the respects to Allah to honor an old man. (Bukhari)

35.. All Muslims are like a foundation, each strengthening the other; in such a way they do support each other. (Abu Musa: Bukhari & Muslim)

36.. Strive always to excel in virtue and truth. (Bukhari)

37.. You will not enter paradise until you have faith; and you will not complete your faith till you love one another. (Muslim)

38.. He, who wishes to enter paradise at the best gate, must please his father and mother. (Bukhari & Muslim)

39.. I am leaving two things among you, and if you cling to them firmly you will never go astray; one is the Book of Allah and the other is my way of life. (Farewell Pilgrimage: Muatta)

40.. Allah is One and likes Unity. (Muslim)41.. The best of alms is that, which the right hand gives and the left hand knows not of. (Bukhari)

42.. The perfect Muslim is not a perfect Muslim, who eats till he is full and leaves his neighbors hungry. (Ibn Abbas: Baihaqi)

43.. He is not of us who is not affectionate to the little ones, and does not respect the old; and he is not of us, who does not order which is lawful, and prohibits that which is unlawful. (Ibn Abbas: Tirmidhi)

44.. No man is a true believer unless he desires for his brother that, what he desires for himself. (Abu Hamza Anas: Bukhari & Muslim)

45.. To strive for the cause of Allah from daybreak to noon and sunset is better than the goods and enjoyment of the whole worldly life. (Bukhari)

46.. Be not like the hypocrite who, when he talks, tells lies; when he gives a promise, he breaks it; and when he is trusted, he proves dishonest. (Bukhari & Muslim)

47.. The proof of a Muslim's sincerity is, that he pays no heed to that, which is not his business. (Abu Hureira: Tirmidhi)

48.. Do you know what is better than charity and fasting and prayer? It is keeping peace and good relations between people, as quarrels and bad feelings destroy mankind. (Muslims & Bukhari)

49.. Conduct yourself in this world, as if you are here to stay forever; prepare for eternity as if you have to die tomorrow. (Bukhari)

50.. The worldly comforts are not for me. I am like a traveller, who takes a rest under a tree in the shade and then goes on his way. (Tirmidhi)

So is there better teacher for proper behaviour than our prophit Mohammed(PBUH)?... I don't think so.

The underlined Hadeeths just to show u that the propthet who ask all the ppl to love other ppl & have mercy on them wont push them to kill widly or ask them to be terrorists:rolleyes: .

Bismillah Al-rahman Al-raheem...


You have raised a very very important topic El7ilwa...


The prophet, may peace be upon him said:



"I have been sent only for the purpose of perfecting good morals."


Islam is not only about praying and fasting and giving zaka/etc... Islam established a very strong base of a moral system which widens the scope of our worship... this moral system covers issues that start at home and widens to include issues related to our society as a whole... every angle of our lives is included in this Moral system.. 3ibada (worship) is not only our relation with Allah.. but also our relation with the people we live with and teh country we belong to... we, as part of the Umma, should work together to enforce goodness in our society and forbid evil...


From the Quran ad sunnah we get to know our role in the society.. what we're expected to do, and what we're expected not to do....


Apart from the ones El7ilwa has mentioned, I am going to give some of the examples found in Quran...



"It is not righteousness that you turn your faces towards East or West; but it is righteousness to believe in God and the Last Day and the Angels, and the Book, and the Messengers; to spend of your substance, out of love for Him, for your kin, for orphans for the needy, for the wayfarer, for those who ask; and for the freeing of captives; to be steadfast in prayers, and practice regular charity; to fulfill the contracts which you made; and to be firm and patient in pain (or suffering) and adversity and throughout all periods of panic. Such are the people of truth, the God-conscious." [2:177]


"Establish regular prayer, enjoin what is just, and forbid what is wrong; and bear patiently whatever may befall you; for this is true constancy. And do not swell your cheek (with pride) at men, nor walk in insolence on the earth, for God does not love any man proud and boastful. And be moderate in your pace and lower your voice..."[31:18-19]



In the end, we can say that Morality is complementary to other parts of our worship... lack of morality can be a sign of a weak iman (faith)... our prayers are supposed to lead us away from evil... as the aya says:"Prayer prohibits obscenity and evil." .. so, whats teh point in praying and yet contradicting the Moral virtues as taught by our prophet?



May Allah enlighten our paths....

just to add something... once one of the true muslim leaders( of course in the past not now dayz leaders).. went to some places to encourage them and inform them about islam..when he came back to his home town...he said" i found islam without muslims and in my home town i have muslims without islam "....we r the second part:fire: ...anyway thanx god we still confiss that we r muslims better than ignorin islam totally...as they say somethin better than notting:(

No body is Perfect

well done el7ilwa...
i wanted to open a similar thread and thanx alot for ur effort to wake up us .. we really need someone to tell us :( unfortunately..

thanx again sister..

You are more than welcome dear Naughty :), actually all of us need some body to remind us of such things in our life.....