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1) In Oman, is 'kissing' a regular habit to greet or to show our love for our partner?

Not publicly. But in the privacy of their home then yes.

2) To greet each other daily, do most married Omani couples kiss each other several time per day (in the privacy of their home) as most westerners do or do they greet each other differently?

Most? Nope. But the newly married ones (young couples; from this generation) they probably do.

3) If two partners are engaged, are they allowed to kiss each other or do they have to wait until they married to do this?

Islamicaly speaking No. You have to wait 'till after the malka for that....

3) Being more intimate, do most married Omani couples 'french kiss' their partner or it this habit practiced only in the West and rather unknown by many here?

The younger couples do.... but the older ones? I doubt it. But I think they should....it brings more intamicy in the relationship thus strengthens the bond between them.

Little gestures can have big impacts. ;)

) In Oman, is 'kissing' a regular habit to greet or to show our love for our partner?

Well..i think yup..it is a regular habit to kiss someone for greeting , and of cours it is differnt from person to another..


2) To greet each other daily, do most married Omani couples kiss each other several time per day (in the privacy of their home) as most westerners do or do they greet each other differently?

Well..i think runny said it...it is just adults and the new couples who just married..some old ppl too who is very open minded.

3) If two partners are engaged, are they allowed to kiss each other or do they have to wait until they married to do this?

Well..they are not allowed but i think most ppl do it now adays..and it is allowed only once the married.

4) Being more intimate, do most married Omani couples 'french kiss' their partner or it this habit practiced only in the West and rather unknown by many here?

Well..for sure every couple will do that..since they are married and it is allowed i think(allah a3lam) but mostly they do kiss(french kiss) their partner...
and as runny said most of them will be new couples or new generation.
and i know many old ppl still doing it and they are over 35.

1) In Oman, is 'kissing' a regular habit to greet or to show our love for our partner?

I dont know about Oman, but Im assuming that it is like the rest of the world, whereby kissing is common-place.:duh. Some places might not be as comfortable performing such acts publicly, but in private, they are kissing just as intimately and passionately. At least I hope so!!!!

2) To greet each other daily, do most married Omani couples kiss each other several time per day (in the privacy of their home) as most westerners do or do they greet each other differently?

Again, I am not going to answer for Omanis, but couples here do. Not just the anglo-australians, but ethnic australians do too.

3) If two partners are engaged, are they allowed to kiss each other or do they have to wait until they married to do this?

Islamicaly speaking No. But most do anyways.

3) Being more intimate, do most married Omani couples 'french kiss' their partner or it this habit practiced only in the West and rather unknown by many here?

Of course they 'french' kiss. The older generation of women used to joke about oral sex. And I am talking about arab women here. So I am sure if they are comfortable with oral sex, they are comfortable with french kissing. We just dont like thinking about those older people doing it. Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww.:scary:

1) In Oman, is 'kissing' a regular habit to greet or to show our love for our partner?

hmm..i have never seen an omani couple kissing..as in like the movies or the western people..so dunno really if its a "regular habbit" , and am not married..but i know that it would be a habbit of mine..when i do get married. ;) :p

2) To greet each other daily, do most married Omani couples kiss each other several time per day (in the privacy of their home) as most westerners do or do they greet each other differently?

again..dunno..but i guess perhaps in the privacy of their homes..hmm..wait..make that privacy of their "rooms".

3) If two partners are engaged, are they allowed to kiss each other or do they have to wait until they married to do this?

As R'a said..islamicaly its not allowed..but i very much doubt that its actually followed..and so usually engaged couples do kiss from time to time ..b4 marriage.

3) Being more intimate, do most married Omani couples 'french kiss' their partner or it this habit practiced only in the West and rather unknown by many here?

hmm..who knows..maybe they do , though i havent really seen it so far..nor from my parents ( YUK! ) ..or anyone else..i know or even dont know.

1) In Oman, is 'kissing' a regular habit to greet or to show our love for our partner?

only with the younger generation.


2) To greet each other daily, do most married Omani couples kiss each other several times per day (in the privacy of their home) as most westerners do... or do they greet each other differently?

the greeting in oman usually goes something like this:
man: ooh mozooh i'm back home
woman: khalfan do u think i'm blind like ur mum, i can see u're home and don't shout.
man: zain zain mozooh what's for lunch
woman: yallah this man only thinks abt his fat stomach. go see the kids (10 of them), i'm on the phone to khdeejah

3) If two partners are engaged, are they allowed to kiss each other or do they have to wait until they married to do this?

most couples starts kissing even before being engaged. times are changing. they see too many Mexican series on TV.


4) Being more intimate, do most married Omani couples 'french kiss' their partner, or it this habit practiced only in the West and rather unknown by many here?

ladyX if you don't kiss her inner mounth then you ain't kissing!!

1) In Oman, is 'kissing' a regular habit to greet or to show our love for our partner?

It depends from couple to couples

2) To greet each other daily, do most married Omani couples kiss each other several times per day (in the privacy of their home) as most westerners do... or do they greet each other differently?

I donno I got to ask them

3) If two partners are engaged, are they allowed to kiss each other or do they have to wait until they married to do this?

Islamically are not allowed.

4) Being more intimate, do most married Omani couples 'french kiss' their partner, or it this habit practiced only in the West and rather unknown by many here?

We got to conduct survey for this :D

1) In Oman, is 'kissing' a regular habit to greet or to show our love for our partner?

Well in general I don't really think so x-press but in some communities yes like my family.

2) To greet each other daily, do most married Omani couples kiss each other several times per day (in the privacy of their home) as most westerners do... or do they greet each other differently?

Well just like what runny has said .... the older ones i don;t think so but for the new generatation yes. You see the old ppl many never got married out of ;love but you can say it was like an arranged marriage thingy so those sort fo passtion you never see in them.

3) If two partners are engaged, are they allowed to kiss each other or do they have to wait until they married to do this?

Well some do some don't but going as runny said islamically it is not allowed

4) Being more intimate, do most married Omani couples 'french kiss' their partner, or it this habit practiced only in the West and rather unknown by many here?

Well I do believe that they do talking abotu the new generation and some communities like those who have the african background in their blood yes, but the really omanies who have been always around oman since it all started hmmm its a bit hard to say.... .!!! :)

1) In Oman, is 'kissing' a regular habit to greet or to show our love for our partner?

Maybe, but not in public as I know.

2) To greet each other daily, do most married Omani couples kiss each other several times per day (in the privacy of their home) as most westerners do... or do they greet each other differently?
Maybe, but it depends on the situation they r living in, cauz if they are living with his family it is some how difficult to have their own privacy.

3) If two partners are engaged, are they allowed to kiss each other or do they have to wait until they married to do this?
Engaged only, it is not allowed either by their parents or the Islamic laws, so they have to get married first.

4) Being more intimate, do most married Omani couples 'french kiss' their partner, or it this habit practiced only in the West and rather unknown by many here?
Maybe, but beside the Falaj & under the date trees:p Loooool
:sweat: J/K.

the greeting in oman usually goes something like this: LOL :D :gap: BIG Mo ur so funny:haha:

okey my answer will be same like Big MO's :sweat:

I think it is good to ask old couples since we are not so sure

thanks Jamiloh

Originally posted by Big MO
the greeting in oman usually goes something like this:
man: ooh mozooh i'm back home
woman: khalfan do u think i'm blind like ur mum, i can see u're home and don't shout.
man: zain zain mozooh what's for lunch
woman: yallah this man only thinks abt his fat stomach. go see the kids (10 of them), i'm on the phone to khdeejah


LoOl :D Momo that was funny and I will not be surprised that the greetings between husband and wife are somehow 'rough' here compared to the west.

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Originally posted by amo0or
...and i know many old ppl still doing it and they are over 35.


If you only knew.

Originally posted by X-press

I know that usually most Omani couples will not kiss in public, even if it is in the shade of a date tree :

many men in Oman don't even get to see their wives face in public. we have too many ninjas. kissing in public is considered to be a crime. many ppl feel it's inproper to even hold hands in public never mind kissing.

Is 'Kissing' a western habit?

Well I care less if it is western or eastern habit one thing I know is life begins with a kiss. [procreation]

It is a great thing to kiss your woman be she your wife, mistress or concubine.

Originally posted by X-press
1) In Oman, is 'kissing' a regular habit to greet or to show our love for our partner?
Yes, of course ... (I am 29 by the way...don't know if that is an old or young generation?!!).. I have seen my parents kissing ...not exactly French Kissing but my mum is very affectionate ... she wouldn't avoid kissing just because we are around... so there you go that is my mum's generation.....

2) To greet each other daily, do most married Omani couples kiss each other several times per day (in the privacy of their home) as most westerners do... or do they greet each other differently?
My husband would never leave the house without giving me a quick kiss on the lips! And the same applies to me if I am leaving the house!
As for in the public.... in Oman.... it can be a bit difficult because people start staring.. but usually we do give each other a quick kiss in the car every now and then!

3) If two partners are engaged, are they allowed to kiss each other or do they have to wait until they married to do this?
X-press.... let us face it .... according to culture they are not allowed even after marriage ... or in other words even after marriage people wouldn't like to see them kissing in public! However, to be honest... I don't believe that engaged couples resist kissing while being left alone... it is a bit too irrisistable!

4) Being more intimate, do most married Omani couples 'french kiss' their partner, or it this habit practiced only in the West and rather unknown by many here?
French kissing is very common among Omani couples.... I know many... I think it is natural ... just because it is not discussed in public it doesn't mean it is not a common habit!

I don't know about Omanies if they kiss or not,, never seen any but is kissing a western tradition? I don't know cos it is very popular in Arabic litrature including the poems even before Islam.????

Interesting topic. Though I don’t like the method used by Lady X, the sort of question and answer session peculiar to interrogation chambers, wouldn’t mind saying a few words about kissing in general. Or would that be kiss and tell?

Kissing between a man and a woman is paradise rediscovered. It is an electrifying and passionate experience when it takes place prior to the conjugal extravaganza.

Take it from me who had three decades of experience in this field since I had my first kiss in the school corridors at the age of 15. The horrible experience I had was with a Korean woman with exceptionally bad breath that made me puke afterwards.

Have a happy kissing day.

I have a Q for Lady X : Do men french kissing their mums, siss or daughters?? In the weste??

Originally posted by el7ilwa
I have a Q for Lady X : Do men french kissing their mums, siss or daughters?? In the weste??

EWWWWWWW!!!! :eyes: :yikes: :yuck:

el7ilwa french kissing is with TOUNGE!

You don't kiss your mom, sister or daughter like that! :barf:

Originally posted by el7ilwa
I have a Q for Lady X : Do men french kissing their mums, siss or daughters?? In the weste??

daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn girl. that's just gross.
we're not talking about just kisses on the lips. it' kissing the inner mouth.

Guys I know that, but I wanted to listen to exy's answer who knows what she gonna say:rolleyes: .

Originally posted by el7ilwa
Guys I know that, but I wanted to listen to exy's answer who knows what she gonna say:rolleyes: .

:eyes: :confused: :duh: :bang:

Originally posted by Big MO
:eyes: :confused: :duh: :bang:

Call me crazy but I have this weird feeling Xpress is normal and would be disgusted. :tiered:

:duh: :duh: did I said IN EXY world?? I said in the west.. & what restrections they have for this case?? Hah would u tell me??:duh:

Originally posted by el7ilwa
I have a Q for Lady X : Do men french kissing their mums, siss or daughters?? In the weste??

WTF???:eyes: :barf: :scary: :os :twitch: :yuck:
el7ilwa..what is this??? i am disguested here

how can u think about it a9lan...:yuck:
how can we imagin doing this to our mom's and sis??
its just SICK i'm telling u

Originally posted by amo0or
WTF???:eyes: :barf: :scary: :os :twitch: :yuck:
el7ilwa..what is this??? i am disguested here

how can u think about it a9lan...:yuck:
how can we imagin doing this to our mom's and sis??
its just SICK i'm telling u

I know it is sick:duh: , but it was a Q came to my mind as long as I don't know their way of thinking Duuuuuuuh so 7aram to ask ya3nee??:bang:

Originally posted by el7ilwa
7aram to ask ya3nee??:bang:

No no no .. not 7aram at all..ask darling ask:eyes:

el7ilwa to answer your question..
I know that they sometimes do give each other a little peck on the lips.. but french kiss?!

YUCK. :tiered:

About the quick kiss I know about it, but the frenchkiss who knows about it??:rolleyes:

Originally posted by el7ilwa
I have a Q for Lady X : Do men french kissing their mums, siss or daughters?? In the weste??

No. :rolleyes:

Geez.

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Well I have never had any complaints. Nor did my partner have bad breath in the morning. Maybe I'm just lucky.:blush:

Originally posted by X-press

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yah but kissing is not a bad habbit as long as it's done within the rules on islam i.e. not in public etc.

it's nice to show love an appreciation to our partners and recieve love back in whatever form.

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Lady X

The Korean fiasco was the only single bad experience I had throughout my entire kissing life. It was a one night stand thing many many years back, I was drunk, had I been sober I will have detected it earlier, It was too late when I discovered it in the morning and I had to puke like hell and couldnt eat for days.

It was an Isolated case, and doesnt mean all korean women have bad breath. I dont want to face a lawsuit by the 'korean women congress' for this distressful disclosure. later, as I was maturing, I devloped this talent to detect the slightest whif of bad breath early in the conversation with women. So it would be a no no thing if things arent in order.

Tell you what, European women are great kissers followed by Africans but Arab women!....... sort of shy...........They hold back......or could it be lack of kissing skills?...........In short they are reserved in their kissings and dont go all the way through and through like other races do with NO restriction. perhaps deep down their psyche, they feel its a taboo thing to do, so they do it lightly.

Kissing doesnt end with a french kiss. A man, a macho man for sure does kiss an entire anatomy of his woman. Its natural. As I said earlier life itself begins with kiss therefore those who miss out on it miss out on living and life altogether.

Take an example of a member here, el7ilwa, never understands what french kiss is all about, it emanates from sheer ingnorance, otherwise shouldnt have asked her ugly question, NO MAN french kisses his mum or daughter, NO, it is unatural act and besides it is punishable by law as a crime of INCEST.

Judge for yourself how very little our women know about kissing. Once a bedou fisherman told me kissing is totaly prohabited in the bedouland culture.

In fact somone should open an institute to teach the 'art of kissing' in Muscat. You will be amazed to see divorce rates declining fast.

Have I said enough?

Originally posted by Mti
Tell you what, European women are great kissers followed by Africans but Arab women!....... sort of shy...........They hold back......or could it be lack of kissing skills
Why do I have the feeling that your experience with Arab women is abscent!

Take an example of a member here, el7ilwa, never understands what french kiss is all about
That is an un-fair comment. Aren't you Arab men who bring up your daughters, sisters to be ignorant! Aren't you Arab men who go for the virgin??? So how on Earth is she supose to know?? Aren't you Arab men who experiment on all races but when you want to settle down you go for the 'naive' & 'ignorant'?? Give the girl a break she is a young angel!!!

Once a bedou fisherman told me kissing is totaly prohabited in the bedouland culture.
I know that Arab men would die for Beduoin women! I wonder why??

Originally posted by Mti

I was drunk,


who's breath did you say was stinking????

Exy I didn't mean any insult to the west, & I know what is frenchkiss....Mmmm I guess:p ..but behind my Q was some thing not what u thought & I think Muti answered it when he thought I'm silly & dump arabic girl:p ..it is punishable by law as a crime of INCEST this is what I wanted to know WHAT ARE THE RISTRICTIONS THERE OTHER THAN THE RELIGION. I hope I could make my self clear now & don't look like the silly girl..
Thanx Seham for the support.. do u think I'm an angel:) maybe....

Note: Exy I know what kind of respectable lady u r & all your prbs threads are very important so don't blam your self becauz of my silly Q & I promiss not to ask again in your thread..deal dear:wink: .

Big Mo

ofcourse the korean woman's breath! Mine had the smell of alchohol, for your information alchohol doesnt stink, it just smells like alchohol, it certainly doesnt smell like a dead fish.


Mrs seham,

What you said is true. I think we are selfish lot. We sleep around with hundreds of women of other races and ultimately settle for a VIRGIN arab girl. I certianly wouldnt have settled for a second hand one as my other half.

Speaking of the bedou women the same bedou fisherman told me he and his wife sleep in seperate rooms. When time comes for the marital thing he and his wife consumate it fully dressed in the dead of the night [a quicky one] then dash back to their respective beds. It feels like a chapter out of a victorian era tale.

well I wont go for it. NO kissing. No real body contact. No holding and sleeping together! Nahhhhh, Not for me.

By the way talking about kissing … how many of you agree that those siblings that kiss each other on the lips is a fine thing?!! I am not talking about young one but let say teenage and above?!!

In my opinion – I don’t really think it is a good thing I don’t agree with that attitude at all. I can’t even imagine it happening in front of me as its kinda sickish.


Anyway - i like what seham has said ... and I do agree with her. Its the something that goes with me and my hubby, whenever any of us goes out a kiss is a must.

We do live with his family - yet we do have all the privacy we need. Just because his brother or mother is around doesn’t mean he won’t touch me or even kiss me naa i guess its because his family are very open which makes things easy.

And when it comes to public i believe we kiss as well as long we feel like doing it nothing stops us. but of course limits is always there !!!

Common ppl kiss kiss kiss... there is nothing wrong with that :)!!!

Originally posted by Mti
Big Mo

ofcourse the korean woman's breath! Mine had the smell of alchohol, for your information alchohol doesnt stink, it just smells like alchohol, it certainly doesnt smell like a dead fish.


Houston we have a problem!!!!

mti the person who hs a bad breath usually doesn't smell his/her own bad stinky breath. so when one hs few drinks he/she would have no idea about their stinky breath. However ppl who they talk to will be turning their heads the other side.
too much alcohol stinks.

Originally posted by Neena
Common ppl kiss kiss kiss... there is nothing wrong with that!!!
lol.. Neena good advice! It is nice to see you around again:love:

Listen Big Mo

If you have problem with alchohol it is your business, I dont give a hoot about it. I know how clean my breath smells, if at all there is any change in how it smells, my woman, is at hand to tell it to me fast.

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Thanks for the info Mrs seham!

Mti
it's a well know fact acohol stinks. maybe ur woman is too polite to tell u!!!

Seham
good tips but frankly kissing techniques just come naturally to most.

Originally posted by Big MO
Mti
it's a well know fact acohol stinks. maybe ur woman is too polite to tell u!!!


No, it doesn't stink !;)

Come the topic kiss, and I got a bagful of stories of a bygone era. One time I was having dinner with a Christian woman in a restaurant. She orders pork chops and mushrooms for herself. I said NOPE I am a muslim, I don’t take pork, so, waiter! Get me a steak and a French wine to go with it.

The woman glares at me with surprise and asks, Hey Mti! You don’t eat pork fine, Tonight, will you not kiss deeply, this very same mouth that will feast on pork now?? I replied, kissing you, like hell I will, eating pork, I will not. But later on as an afterthought the womans point struck me with a lead ball. I was dumfounded.

It is a paradox. In this light age, you cant really know as where dogmatic belief ends and logical thinking begin. Or vice versa.

So erm.......Mti, you won't eat pork but you drink french wine? :duh:

Originally posted by Mti
Get me a steak and a French wine to go with it.



i ain't trying to judge you or inteefere in your business but why no to pork and yes to wine :confused: :confused:

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runny



Yes, I drink everything drinkable, but pork doesn’t appeal to me. I follow my common sense.



Lady X

Europeans, as in like the English and Germans. I haven’t had the good fortune to try the famed French [woman] lips. A friend who tried Italians tells me they moan a lot while kissing but do have robust stamina for what is to follow.


I am an Omani lady X; I discourage the word you used above [zanzibari]

There is someone I know [a titled Aristocrat] who has kissed everything in skirts across the globe. I wonder if he one day decides to tell it all. It will make a magnificent tale compared to mine, which will seem a Childs play.

It tales you above [closing your eyes is optional] that is the norm in kissing, Lady X, I don’t think you will want to kiss with your eyes wide open. Hey, this is not a boxing match. As for reading the body language, a man does his homework well before embarking on the escapade. His senses will lead him to the eventual conquest. That is what we do anyway, conquer the female anatomy and leave it drained, weakened, exhausted and above all satisfied.

Quote Lady X, [institute giving some good noncheating therapy too] Unquote, nahhhhhhhh, that is impossible. It is embedded in the male genes to go polygamous. Man is polygamous by nature. A man can’t avoid cheating given the chance. It dates back to the Stone Age when men used to cheat inside the caves. Let me tale you the male agenda. Taste all females and compare notes. Period.

Why do you think our grand dads had harems filled with women?? Variety is the essence of life, my dear! Yes A woman wishes to be limited to her man till death does them apart. But no sane man imagines that way, never, All men hate to be confined to a single woman for life! If that is the sentence, Give me the bullet any day.


Have a happy, kiss, kiss, day!

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very interesting......

thanx for the site.....

i really enjoyed reading the thread.....
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Originally posted by X-press
el7ilwa, sorry dear but I really still didn't get your point of bringing such question, but I think it is better to leave it like that for now. :)





Well I think I have to be sorry cauz of my un grasped Q & I couldn't idntify what I really wanted to know. So just to make things clear:
1. I know what is the ( disguting) french kiss is:duh: .
2. I asked what If ..............IN THE west BLABLABLA or not & if u recognized that I didn't ask if the man ........... In generaldo blablabla(Cauz I knwo it is some thing sick:yuck: ) so I was just asking that as we have Islam here restrict such actions what do the west have as restrictions cauz as I know not all of them are following a religion some of them pagans & etc......
So Mti answered the Q as a part of his swearing post to our Arabic society:rolleyes: .

Cheers & sorry for disgusting u guys:p

yes agree with MO kissing technique come natural unless if u wanna confuse urself:p

By the way Why is it called French kiss? though the Italian can do it better:gap:

Quote [ So Mti answered the Q as a part of his swearing post to our Arabic society .] Unquote. el7ilwa

Hey, What swearing are you talking about???

I am a civilized Arab, out to educate the backward once on the ABC of good living. DO NOT associate my name with unsuitable words. Understood me?

Originally posted by jamila

By the way Why is it called French kiss? though the Italian can do it better:gap:

and how exactly do you know that Jamila????


why is called a french kiss??? it's just one of them things that just happened and nobody knew why. it's like french fries or hamburger.

MO my imagination :sweat:

Originally posted by jamila
MO my imagination :sweat:

aha

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Originally posted by X-press
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:lost: ...el7ilwa, my dear, why do you think that a 'french kiss' is discusting or something sick to do??

If "french kissing" is indeed not a western habit in Oman, then the probability for your future husband to do it to you is extremely high!...so better get used to the idea now, even if I know you are not interested to get married at all...we never know and I wouldn't want our el7ilwa to choke over such supposed-to-be delicious issue ;)

It seems you are wandering if kissing on the lips or french kissing is anti-islamic? I let the other members answer that...

LooooooooooL now u got me wrong again dear I don't know Y:lost: , I didn't say it is discusting to do cauz I have no experiance on that but It is disgusting to see two couples frenchkissing each other infront of u & this happens many times with me & in public places in Muscat:duh: & the irritated thing when your young bros & siss with u:rolleyes: .
About my marriage just keep it away, actually it is too early to talk about this.
About your Q I don't think kissing in lips or frenchkissing is untiIslamic at all if it is between the husband & wife & I think our religion discussed such issues with clearfications.....

Kissing is anti-islamic?? :eek:

I am sure that it isn't. As far as I know, as long as you're married then you can kiss your partner/spouse..

if kissing is anti-islamic then the whole muslim world is living in one big sin.

Kissing when not married might be a sin.

Besides, if you don't kiss, then what is a couple in love supposed to do? Stare at each other?

I have a book in which is written that the prophet PBUH used to kiss Aisha with his tounge WHILE HE WAS FASTING. ;)

Originally posted by runnin' around
I have a book in which is written that the prophet PBUH used to kiss Aisha with his tounge WHILE HE WAS FASTING. ;)

:eyes: :eyes: :eyes: :eyes: :eyes: while fasting??????:eyes: :eyes: something doesn't add up here.

Ouestion: Is kissing a western habbit?

Answer. No it is a global one.

Case closed. Let's move on! :bang:

I care less if it is sin or not, all I know is, kissing is good for body and soul.


Lady X

No, the Titled Aristocrat is not a member here. I will persuade him to join in and tell the public a fraction of his adventures. The much I heard from him is so juicy.

BTW have you completed the kissing quiz I provided? what were your results?

I read somewhere , your comparison of women and wine. It is true both mature with age and become attractive and more palatable, and you know what! It is the two W, the modern day cavemen live for.


A mature woman. Its a complement. [ I am sure my wife will agree with me on that ]

You cant be serious Mti. I dont believe you can rant the way you do whilst being married.


I need to have a word with your wife.:twitch:

raffee


Yes I am very much married, been so for ages, My wife happens to be an educated woman, so she understands it all.

BTW its a compliment to her too, when I wrote in praise of mature women!

Mti

I was referring to your below post...and I quote:

" It is embedded in the male genes to go polygamous. Man is polygamous by nature. A man can’t avoid cheating given the chance. It dates back to the Stone Age when men used to cheat inside the caves. Let me tale you the male agenda. Taste all females and compare notes. Period.

Why do you think our grand dads had harems filled with women?? Variety is the essence of life, my dear! Yes A woman wishes to be limited to her man till death does them apart. But no sane man imagines that way, never, All men hate to be confined to a single woman for life! If that is the sentence, Give me the bullet any day."


Catch my drift? :duh:

raffee

Take it from me, she has no problem with whatever I write, She perefctly understands I am entitled to my views. She can write hers too when she has the time.

Thanks God I am not married to raffee!

Originally posted by Mti



Thanks God I am not married to raffee!

That's funny coz i was thinking the same thing about you when I read your post:sweat: .

you know what Mti, ppl who brag about their past are usually those who have done nothing and like to dream and imagine what that they couldn't have done.
so spare us the details and let's get back to the topic.

Kissing , taking into context the arabic culture. Well I think the arabs are a kissing society, we kiss at hellos and we kiss at goodbyes. Its all kissy wissy. Ofcourse its all cheek to cheek kisses. However , we are not an open society when it comes to being affectionate with our other halves especially in the eyes of the public. Simply because it is not accepted religiously nor culturally. Secondly how affectionate one gets in the privacy of their own homes or bedrooms are not to be discussed other than within themselves. posing such a question would be invading a persons privacy in other words if it was done on a personal level :)

Listen Mo

You have gone overboard, what I did or didnot is non of your buisness, to begin with you DONT know me, there is no way you would know of my past experiences.

You started with your limited knowledge on alchohol and I replied you on that, and now you are provoking me with a diffrent issue? what is it you want? what is wrong with you? If my writings doesnt suit you, fine, dont read it, go read your filthy Transexual thread.

This is my final warning to you, keep away!

Mti

I think you should cool it with the inflammatory comments and stick to the topic.

Moey has never insulted anyone intentionally and is one of the best-liked members here. So chill.

:tiered:

Originally posted by runnin' around
I have a book in which is written that the prophet PBUH used to kiss Aisha with his tounge WHILE HE WAS FASTING. ;)

Okay:eyes:
but RA..can u just tell me the name of that book...coz i really want to read it...
Sounds strange:duh:

Originally posted by amo0or
Okay:eyes:
but RA..can u just tell me the name of that book...coz i really want to read it...
Sounds strange:duh:

Not strange at all…I was reading about the same issue last

weekend..u can find it in any Islamic marriage related books …

like to7fat el 3aroos…don know where I have lost that book..!!

Anyway…u can find a lot of stuff Prophet Mohammed was doing

with his wives…and we think they are a western habits!!

Kissing is a western habitand shocking but true some married couples(mostly arabs) dont "french Kiss" and to them it is perfectly Ok as i guess they have never french kissed before so "you dont miss what you dont know"!

I dont think "french kissing" is actually a western habbit. I once read that prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) did kiss his wives!!

Originally posted by Arabian Princess
I dont think "french kissing" is actually a western habbit. I once read that prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) did kiss his wives!!

Sorry AP but I find it strange and hard to believe. I do understand that Prophet Mohammed (PBUH) did kiss his wives but didn't know it was french kiss. Care to elaborate ?

Originally posted by Mti

This is my final warning to you, keep away!

:weep: you scared me sooo bad. i ain't the one here telling the whole world about my past experiences. go and see a shrink or something. they actually get paid to listen.

what I did or didnot is non of your buisness,

hello Mr this is a bulletin board!!!!!!! if you don't wanna people to talk about it don't post it. you wanna say something in private use the pm facility.

{Sorry - Post removed by Xp!}

Originally posted by X-press
Big MO, please don't cause unecessary fights especially that you do not know Mti personally.



ladyX, fighting!!!!!!! this is me still keeping my cool.

Listen, Big Big Mo,


Why do you keep on coming back to me? What is it THAT you really want?? I don’t need to see a shrink really; it is you who needs one, to sort out your transsexual tendencies.

If you were irritated by my statement that said I am here as a civilized Arab to educate the backward once with the ABC of good living, well, cant help it, learn from me who was born in an exclusive hospital and NOT under a date tree like you did.

I don’t need to PM anyone in private. I will say what I will, here in public. If you are MAN enough, and do have the guts, meet me in any pub in Muscat, to get to know who I really am.

Just PM me, or publish publicly, the pub's name, time and date. Adios.

This is what I got: 28
>>Overall you are the most exciting of all the kissing styles, and you keep your partner on the edge, waiting to see what's next.:love:

Mrs Seham

You are a lady with an above average IQ, no wonder you intrigue your partner in the kissing field too.

Well, I will say You will always be an achiever!

i think the case between u 2 has gone very far....:duh:

Qoloob,

I never started provoking anyway, the only way to settle it, is a dual between two men, physically, in public.

Mti

You obviously havent seen BIG MO in person have you?

You still have time to retract. In fact I would strongly advise it.:scary:

raffee,

Never retracted, backed off all my life, I would either win it or lose it, the dual offer STANDS.

Originally posted by Mti
learn from me who was born in an exclusive hospital and NOT under a date tree like you did.



your case is much worse than i expected. you'll probably need 2 shrinks. and how exactly does the exculsive hospital makes u a better man :confused: :duh:

I will say what I will, here in public. If you are MAN enough, and do have the guts, meet me in any pub in Muscat, to get to know who I really am.

that's cool but dont get all upset when someone disagree with your bull$hit. and i'll meet u in any pub you want, as long as they sell Mountain Dew cause i ain't down with that alcohol business.

Chill guys...
nothing is worth it...forget everything what each of u said and act normaly..
come on u dont have to reach it to that level of meeting in pup and fight...

Grow both of u... its just a discussion and u are just Vs each other in opinions..
come on...plzz:)

Originally posted by amo0or
Okay:eyes:
but RA..can u just tell me the name of that book...coz i really want to read it...
Sounds strange:duh:

Zawjat Alnabi PBUH

Why is it so hard to believe?! The prophet WAS human. :duh:

Originally posted by TeMaRa
Kissing , taking into context the arabic culture. Well I think the arabs are a kissing society, we kiss at hellos and we kiss at goodbyes. Its all kissy wissy. Ofcourse its all cheek to cheek kisses. However , we are not an open society when it comes to being affectionate with our other halves especially in the eyes of the public. Simply because it is not accepted religiously nor culturally. Secondly how affectionate one gets in the privacy of their own homes or bedrooms are not to be discussed other than within themselves. posing such a question would be invading a persons privacy in other words if it was done on a personal level :)

Exactly what I wanted to say.

And just to clarify about the prophet french kissing his wives,
if u mean using the tongue while kissing then yes the prophet
did french kiss his wives. But a man should avoid french kissing while fasting coz it might lead to sex and as u know that sex is prohibited while fasting.

Originally posted by X-press


[b]el7ilwa, sorry but I continue to disagree with your view that french kissing is disgusting when done in public. If you go to Paris and see couples in love kissing passionatly on the park benches, it can really make your mouth litterally dripped...:blush:

Yuck:yuck: my unti just TOLD me about that when she was there & I wanted to ........:yuck: , so what about seeing that live. In my opinion the kisser enjoy the kiss not the ppl who are watching:rolleyes: .

Originally posted by el7ilwa
Yuck:yuck: my unti just TOLD me about that when she was there & I wanted to ........:yuck: , so what about seeing that live. In my opinion the kisser enjoy the kiss not the ppl who are watching:rolleyes: .

What's so gross about watching people french kiss? :duh:

I mean, in almost every Hollywood made movie we see a couple french kissing. It's not meant to be gross but romantic. :kewl:

Originally posted by runnin' around
What's so gross about watching people french kiss? :duh:

I mean, in almost every Hollywood made movie we see a couple french kissing. It's not meant to be gross but romantic. :kewl:

Yeah I agree with RA, Whats so disgusting?... :confused:

Well maybe there is wrong with me then cauz I feel disgusting from that & when ever I watch a movie & some thing like this happenes I look in another direction or change the channel if it was in the TV..I remember when I was at the cenima once & there was a couple frenchkissing eachother so I was seeking for the Remote control to change the channel, but I didn't find it:p :D .
Or maybe God love & seeing such views can not be in my heart in the same time:rolleyes:

Originally posted by Mti
Qoloob,

I never started provoking anyway, the only way to settle it, is a dual between two men, physically, in public.

could u tell me when it will be...i've never seen 2 adults fighting ..

Wither u have started or him I think u both are mature enough to

overcome such silly dispute…

el7ilwa



In this life, it is hard to assess something without having a first hand experience of it, hence, there is no way you would know, prior to trying it, whether French kissing is disgusting or not, my advice to you is,if you are over 18, try it yourself and come to a conclusion whether it is a heavenly act or a disgusting one.

Originally posted by el7ilwa
when ever I watch a movie & some thing like this happenes I look in another direction or change the channel if it was in the TV..I remember when I was at the cenima once & there was a couple frenchkissing eachother so I was seeking for the Remote control to change the channel, but I didn't find it:p :D .
Or maybe God love & seeing such views can not be in my heart in the same time:rolleyes:

yalla teste7i....:D

what u will do when u get married?? ur husband won't accept for

less!

Originally posted by Mti

if you are over 18, try it yourself and come to a conclusion whether it is a heavenly act or a disgusting one.

but with whom?? :duh: that is the question..

No doubt there is some one she loves, she can try it with him.

Originally posted by Mti
el7ilwa



In this life, it is hard to assess something without having a first hand experience of it, hence, there is no way you would know, prior to trying it, whether French kissing is disgusting or not, my advice to you is,if you are over 18, try it yourself and come to a conclusion whether it is a heavenly act or a disgusting one.

LooooL:p & if I'm under 18??Your advice for me will be a crime under the low:gap: .But thanx I'm not that adventurer person espesially in this area.

Qoloob it is not about shyness as I said before it is some thing related to disgust:rolleyes: ..

Now guys just egnore me & complete your discussion cauz it seems I'm odd person:D .