hey ,,, its me again :blush: ,,,, i was little busy ,,but am back

hope you still remember me :blush: ,

this topic came to my mind ,,and i thought to share it ,,,

We start a relationship with high expectations. Yet, for many of us, the traits that grab our attention that make us think a relationship would be worth pursing, are not the same things that will meet our needs and make us happy over time. Think about what you truly need from relationship, and let that guide your goals and decisions


so what do you think ??!!

~Full acceptance of who I am

~Respect regardless of the situation

~Understanding or at least TRYING to

~Caring/Sensitvity toward my feelings

~The ability to communicate with him

~Trust; wherever, whenever (no I'm NOT doing a Shakira)

~My freedom/space

~Reassurance

~Attraction

Here are the "Basics" :D :

- Trust
- Affection, warmth
- Feeling secure
- My own space
- Understanding
- Caring
- Appreciation
- Respect
- Devotion
- Validation
- Reassurance

I think that runnin and cerulean said it all :)

Originally posted by sea_waves

Think about what you truly need from relationship, and let that guide your goals and decisions

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I believe that when someone just starts a relationship, the demand should not be too much and he or she should first go with the flow.

Putting too much demands can destroy a relationship and having too much expectations can turn out to be disappointing. So I believe in a middle ground for a start.

As the relationship grows, this is what I expect to find in it:

1) Mutual understanding
2) Mutual respect for each other
3) Good communication
4) Feelings and care
5) Joy and humour
6) Signs proving 1) to 5)