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amo0or
14-07-03, 01:56 AM
Do you think that men out there are fixated on womens bodies rather than there personality? For example for all you men out there, would you rather go out with a good looking boring girl or a really ugly girl who was really good fun to be with? Now answer honestly!

Enigma
14-07-03, 02:17 AM
I'd honestly rather go out with a hot looking chick.

I mean think about all those jealous stares I'd get from the guys that see her on my arm....... and just lookin' at her man! Dang I would'nt need her brains! I'd be too busy checkin out her rack!



:rolleyes:

Libellula
14-07-03, 02:23 AM
Originally posted by runnin' around
I'd honestly rather go out with a hot looking chick.

I mean think about all those jealous stares I'd get from the guys that see her on my arm....... and just lookin' at her man! Dang I would'nt need her brains! I'd be too busy checkin out her rack!



:rolleyes:


lol :sweat:


amoor, there's no such thing as UGLY. everyone's beautiful in their own way ;)

and why can't you have someone who's not just a pretty face but also has the brains?! :duh:

NaBHaN
14-07-03, 02:29 AM
i would go for the fun girl . looks fade in time anyways..so why get stuck with the beautiful but dull dud while u can have the fun girl whom u'd never feel bored with. on the long run its personality that will give u more satisfaction.

amo0or
14-07-03, 02:31 AM
Originally posted by Phoenix
lol :sweat:


amoor, there's no such thing as UGLY. everyone's beautiful in their own way ;)

and why can't you have someone who's not just a pretty face but also has the brains?! :duh:

I know that everyone is beautiful in their own way, but the question was what do u prefer?? i just wanted to check what will be the members answer..

Ok..about your second part..there are a lot of good looking ladies but without brain and many not good looking ladies with a good brain,, and there is also some ladies with both beauti and brain.

Homeless
14-07-03, 04:47 AM
in general most guys r so shallow and they only go for looks.

NaBHaN
14-07-03, 05:34 AM
Originally posted by Homeless
in general most guys r so shallow and they only go for looks.

Umm Excuse me!!! Read what i wrote in my post above! and even so..am sure its the same with girls .:rolleyes:

qais
14-07-03, 07:18 AM
same as nabhan power

H-Highness
14-07-03, 09:44 AM
If you can get both the better:kewl:

IceTea
14-07-03, 10:09 AM
The selection will be accoring to the famous profet Mohammed PBUH saying.

3aYaR_So_MucH
14-07-03, 12:37 PM
Well..
As I am zesty guy , ma Girl should be asymmeteric i.e pretty and smart at the same time , although brain easy to be developed .:p so we can solve that out .

el7ilwa
14-07-03, 01:27 PM
Just remember one thing guys, that beauty might be lost one day either by an accident ( la sama7 alah) or by the old age, so what is remaining?? sure the pretty & attractive personality;) .....usually the cute personality attracted me & make that person the beautiful one in the wrold in my eyes even if he/she isn't... this my own look to every body & how judge ppl. by there personalities not by their looks:color: .

Libellula
14-07-03, 03:10 PM
Ice Tea, and that solution or answer is...?

IceTea
14-07-03, 03:21 PM
Originally posted by Phoenix
Ice Tea, and that solution or answer is...?

Phoenix the hadeith is below,

Narrated Abu Huraira:

The Prophet said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a losers.

Libellula
14-07-03, 03:40 PM
Originally posted by IceTea
Phoenix the hadeith is below,

Narrated Abu Huraira:

The Prophet said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a losers.



How come intelligence (or personality) isn't mentioned there? :duh: or is that the same as wealth?

Muscati
14-07-03, 04:43 PM
Why one or the other? I went for both and got looks and brains to match.

DeSerTDesTroYeR
14-07-03, 05:15 PM
would you rather go out with a good looking boring girl or a really ugly girl who was really good fun to be with?

Originally posted by NaBHaN
i would go for the fun girl . looks fade in time anyways..so why get stuck with the beautiful but dull dud while u can have the fun girl whom u'd never feel bored with. on the long run its personality that will give u more satisfaction.

nabhan said it all...totally agree with him :)

Enigma
14-07-03, 05:42 PM
People.....


The guy is asking you, giving you a choice between

1. A gorgeous dumbo.

2. An ugly smartie.


Now pick! No need to tell us you want both, just say which one you'd rather take out on a date. There isn't a third choice.

Pffff...

~*FaiThFuL*~
14-07-03, 05:53 PM
I agree with Phoenix there is no such a thing as ugly, so this so-called smart ugly gurl, would surly look to some guy as a pretty smart gurl, therefore he would get both the looks and the brain..!
I mean he wont see her pretty juss cuz she is smart, he would really see her pretty, cuz different people have different tastes..

amo0or
14-07-03, 06:14 PM
Originally posted by runnin' around
People.....


The guy is asking you, giving you a choice between

1. A gorgeous dumbo.

2. An ugly smartie.


Now pick! No need to tell us you want both, just say which one you'd rather take out on a date. There isn't a third choice.

Pffff...

Mashalla 3alaish, u are the only one who understand me here:p

IceTea
14-07-03, 06:17 PM
Originally posted by Phoenix
How come intelligence (or personality) isn't mentioned there? :duh: or is that the same as wealth?

From the hadith the important factor is the religion and thats what our profet PBHU requested us to choose as a higher periority.

Dr N
14-07-03, 07:31 PM
lol guys come on, like RA said, just pick one of them!
Imagine you were left with only those two choices and you have to take one of them, and you can't take both, so which one will it be???

Libellula
14-07-03, 09:30 PM
I think they're scared
come on guys, you can pick one.. I think :rolleyes:

el7ilwa
14-07-03, 09:40 PM
I don't know Y u r waitting for their answers???:confused: I thought u know them in advance;) :p ...personaly I do:) .

Wanderer
14-07-03, 10:02 PM
I'd go for beautiful but dumb.

I have to be sexually attracted to any potential wife.

Fortunately I found both brains and beauty in the woman who is my wife.

MoonChild
14-07-03, 10:04 PM
my, he pulled that one off gracefully ,didn't he? ;)

Seham
14-07-03, 10:13 PM
Originally posted by MoonChild
my, he pulled that one off gracefully ,didn't he? ;)
lol... MoonChild!

IceTea
14-07-03, 10:23 PM
Originally posted by Dr N
lol guys come on, like RA said, just pick one of them!
Imagine you were left with only those two choices and you have to take one of them, and you can't take both, so which one will it be???

I will take both and I will add another two latter :gap:

Dr N
14-07-03, 10:31 PM
ice t, just pick one!!!!!!
ONE!!
Come on guys, just tell us!
Wanderer was the honest and brave one among you, so come on!:)

IceTea
14-07-03, 10:32 PM
Originally posted by Dr N
ice t, just pick one!!!!!!
ONE!!
Come on guys, just tell us!
Wanderer was the honest and brave one among you, so come on!:)

Why one and we are allowed up to 4?

Enigma
14-07-03, 10:34 PM
Originally posted by IceTea
Why one and we are allowed up to 4?

Fine.

Icey would you rather have FOUR gorgeous girls who are dumb or FOUR ugly girls who are smart?!

IceTea
14-07-03, 10:36 PM
Originally posted by runnin' around
Fine.

Icey would you rather have FOUR gorgeous girls who are dumb or FOUR ugly girls who are smart?!

I will take the first 4 then after 1 year divorce 2 of them and marry 2 from the smart group, so there will be a balance :gap:

Enigma
14-07-03, 10:44 PM
Originally posted by IceTea
I will take the first 4 then after 1 year divorce 2 of them and marry 2 from the smart group, so there will be a balance :gap:

After you've had your fill of them ya3ni? :rolleyes:


Icey.........dang it's nice to have an honest man around. :kewl:

Big MO
14-07-03, 10:48 PM
brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:

oh i'll just pick the one with the bigger breasts!!!!

IceTea
14-07-03, 10:51 PM
Originally posted by runnin' around
After you've had your fill of them ya3ni? :rolleyes:


Icey.........dang it's nice to have an honest man around. :kewl:

No it's not the case, but because the first 4 all dumb then for sure they will create problems for the husband although he will try to be wise with them and guide them to the right directions. But it's expected that 2 out of 4 will still remain dumb whereas the other 2 improved. Now since two of them remain dump they will create problems inthe house and try to fight with the other 2, so the husband don't have the choice except divorcing them and since he is a noble man he saw those ugly women without husband. Thats why he will decide to marry 2 of them and now back to total of 4 wives :D

Enigma
14-07-03, 10:54 PM
Originally posted by Big MO
brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:

oh i'll just pick the one with the bigger breasts!!!!

I'm going to pretend I didn't just read that. :kewl:




and since he is a noble man he saw those ugly women without husband. Thats why he will decide to marry 2 of them and now back to total of 4 wives


And by this 'noble' man you mean yourself? :duh: If he's NOBLE he wouldn't marry FOUR dumb women in the first place!

IceTea
14-07-03, 10:58 PM
Originally posted by Big MO
brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:

oh i'll just pick the one with the bigger breasts!!!!

Even if they are plastic?

Big MO
14-07-03, 11:28 PM
ice man, gotta be natural

X-press
15-07-03, 12:03 AM
Originally posted by amo0or
.....or a really ugly girl who was really good fun to be with?

http://thumb2.image.altavista.com/image/202415206

amoOor, I didn't yet read the answers above, but tell me "who wants to go out with a REALLY UGLY girl and have fun just watching her????"

Would you date the girl in my picture, if she is still fun to be with?

For all the male members who have choosen here this option, believe me they are big time L-I-A-R-S!!...sorry http://mazeguy.tripod.com/expressive/tapedshut.gif

amo0or
15-07-03, 01:23 AM
Originally posted by X-press
http://thumb2.image.altavista.com/image/202415206

amoOor, I didn't yet read the answers above, but tell me "who wants to go out with a REALLY UGLY girl and have fun just watching her????"

Would you date the girl in my picture, if she is still fun to be with?

http://mazeguy.tripod.com/expressive/tapedshut.gif

For me .. Of cours no..I DONT WANT TO DATE SUCH GIRL.:rolleyes:

Homeless
15-07-03, 01:27 AM
Originally posted by Big MO
brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty brains beauty :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:

oh i'll just pick the one with the bigger breasts!!!!



u might regret that!!!!!!!!!!! :lost:

Homeless
15-07-03, 01:28 AM
Originally posted by IceTea
Even if they are plastic?


it's actually Silicon Icey!!!!! :gap:

DeSerTDesTroYeR
15-07-03, 01:39 AM
XP - I would actually just do that..:rolleyes: i just cant stand stupidity... as long as am enjoying the company who cares what others think... :)

I'd rather go to the movies with someone who would laugh with me...then with someone who would laugh cause i laughed..:duh: now thats what i call ugly..:gap:

el7ilwa
15-07-03, 01:48 AM
Originally posted by DeSerTDesTroYeR


I'd rather go to the movies with someone who would laugh with me...then with someone who would laugh cause i laughed..:duh: now thats what i call ugly..:gap:

Bro u r not seeking for some one who laugh at u also:gap: .....LooooooooooL I think both of u gonna just end up in Ibin Sina Hospital:p hahahah J/K.

Cerulean
15-07-03, 04:11 AM
God.. this is really crackin me up:D

NaBHaN
15-07-03, 04:27 AM
Originally posted by X-press
http://thumb2.image.altavista.com/image/202415206

Would you date the girl in my picture, if she is still fun to be with?

For all the male members who have choosen here this option, believe me they are big time L-I-A-R-S!!...sorry http://mazeguy.tripod.com/expressive/tapedshut.gif

Xpress...You do know that thats an altered picture..and no such girl really exists :rolleyes: . ok..maybe they do exist but how rare is it to find a girl who is even half as ugly as that picture. ;) , so this example is not valid!

:kewl:

and anyways...true beauty lies within.

Libellula
15-07-03, 01:33 PM
I don't think that anyone would actually date someone like that, even though some of you say so now. You might give it a go, but it'd never last.



"Strange that the vanity which accompanies beauty --excusable, perhaps, when there is such great beauty, or at any rate understandable --should persist after the beauty was gone."

So even after the beautiful woman's good looks has faded, not only will you have to deal with her stupidity and dullness, but also her vanity. :D You guys up for that?


"Beauty can't amuse you, but brainwork -- reading, writing, thinking--can."
Aww :) Now ain't that true?



"Beauty is only skin deep, but it's a valuable asset if you're poor or haven't any sense." - Kin Hubbard.

"I'm tired of all this nonsense about beauty being only skin-deep. That's deep enough. What do you want --an adorable pancreas?" - Jean Kerr






:rolleyes:

hercules
21-07-03, 01:41 AM
I would go for the good looking boring girl.....thing is her boring attitude could be changed by tactful handling from my side....I can make her cheerful...and do away with her boring mentality so it could be a matter of time...before she develops into a great personality...and sheds her boring attitude its not said...here that she is dull...the boring girl could be changed...into a cheerful personality, whereas the ugly girl will be ugly..her beauty i cannot change myself, so y to go for the ugly girl...:D

amo0or
21-07-03, 02:10 AM
Originally posted by hercules
I would go for the good looking boring girl.....thing is her boring attitude could be changed by tactful handling from my side....I can make her cheerful...and do away with her boring mentality so it could be a matter of time...before she develops into a great personality...and sheds her boring attitude its not said...here that she is dull...the boring girl could be changed...into a cheerful personality, whereas the ugly girl will be ugly..her beauty i cannot change myself, so y to go for the ugly girl...:D

Good...:) now that was wise...how come we all didnt think about it:rolleyes: .. anyway what if she didnt change and this is something in her blood khalas...fixed?

pharmacy113
21-07-03, 03:22 AM
I'll go for the pretty girl and if it happened that she's dumb,
then I might take her to school to fix her brains.
Plastic surgery is so expensive.

hercules
21-07-03, 10:26 AM
Originally posted by amo0or
Good...:) now that was wise...how come we all didnt think about it:rolleyes: .. anyway what if she didnt change and this is something in her blood khalas...fixed?

Amoor....then no way........I will go for blood transfusion....:D

The brain.
22-07-03, 11:20 PM
not tough...

Where r they….!!


I would like to have Half of both…..?? don’t misunderstand me….I mean half characters..

If only one choise.. mmm I would like to have the beautiful one…

At least our children hopefully will get something good from one of us ( genitic)…:p