View Full Version : I am sinful, how can I atone?


SINFUL
06-04-01, 02:04 AM
Moderator: Could you please delete this topic! It is no longer valid.

[Edited by SINFUL on 04-22-2001 at 04:06 AM]

hedaya
06-04-01, 03:35 AM
Dear sinful:
First you are more than welcome to our Sabla, second shall we wait until all the gust face a hardship to start join us :) you are between your sisters and brothers and we really appreciate that you share your problem with us and trust us.

Sister,
I really believed what happened and I don’t think that you caused a very big sin to call your self this strange name, what happen is not by intention, you did it by mistake, and I can feel that from your regret.

I feel how smart, intelligent girl you are from the best mark that you got regarding other students, so I don’t think you are thinking to steal more marks by illegal way, what happened you ware misunderstood the situation and that’s all.

I would say if you mentioned the situation to the teacher at the same time that would be fine, he may understand and he can fix it at that time, but now after every thing is over I don’t recommend to mention it at all and just forget it, and that wasn’t by intention.

I will leave the situation to my brothers and sisters if they have any other ideas.

May Allah forgive you and ease your sorrow…Ammen

hedaya

salim
06-04-01, 05:20 PM
i think u shouldnot call yr self 'Sinful' butu merely

Wronged yr self.

that is similar to our father 'Adam'
when he found out that they have wrongedthemselves for eating that forbidden fruit,they admitted before the Creatory

and he himself taught them how to pray:-

Rabana dhalamna anfusanaa
faghfir lana
wa rhamnaa
fa in lam
taghfir lana wa turhamna...

sanakunana minalkahsiriin.

so i thhink first change your nick name,
and pray to Allah expressing your deep sorrows and what uy wish about this matter, to be seem as;
and leave the matter for him
to grant want he think the best.

donot forget:-

asa tuhibuna sheiyn wa huwa sharu lakum
....................wahuwa kheirunlakum.

dont go to any to digrade yr self just leave the matter
with Allah, but if it comes to Q/A then explaine in brief, very brief, cuase you have already admitted before our LORD.

thats me simple advice, and am leaving to me other brothers and sisters for their advice.

thank u.

warda
07-04-01, 12:35 AM
I also would suggest informing your professor, if you can gather up your courage. This is also going to be a test of your need to feel that you've corrected yourself.

SINFUL
07-04-01, 08:25 AM
Moderator: Could you please delete this topic! It is no longer valid.

[Edited by SINFUL on 04-22-2001 at 04:07 AM]