There is a difference between looking for something that is healthy and satisfying and something that is perfect. The difference is that healthy and satisfying exist; perfect does not. Your relationship should contribute to your life and to the life of your partner. It should no be expected to provide you with some one who agrees with you every thought and preference or who can fill your every moment with joy.

so do you think that perfect is exist ,,, or :confused:

Originally posted by sea_waves


so do you think that perfect is exist ,,, or :confused:




There is no perfection in anything including love! No matter how you try as human feelings of desire supersede any perfection. There is such thing by trying to prefect but as far as I know no one could ever and would never accomplish it.

of course nobody's perfect..but its the imperfection in people that makes them special and one of a kind. what is perfect anyways? hat might be perfect for u..could very well be a flaw to someone else.

well i believe that everyone is unique. we and the ones we love all have negatives and positives. but the different is that the ones we love have negatives and can bare to live with them. The perfection is for ALLAH ONLY. The thing is that we can live with some people 's negatives and cant with others'. therefore we tend to say they have no negatives.

Define perfect.

If you mean perfect in the whole world's eyes, then NO. It doesn't exsist.

But ( I always have a but don't I? lol) there are people who can appear perfect to YOU and you alone. And that's what you have to strive to find. :)

welll ,,,,,,,
perfect is something is not exsit ,,,,as i think ,,,case nothing in this world is perfect except Allah :) ,,, agree with you nana

but sometime as runnin' around said,,, you see some one is perfect on your eye ,,, but that doesnt mean he/she is perfect ,,,
it may mean that her is good in many thing ,, but still he/she has some thing missing :duh:

100% right NaBHaN :color: ,,, case what is perfect for somebody ,, may be very bad and unexpected for others ,,
so its depend on the human

That's Right No One is perfect Neither wll be any one in this world we do live in.. perfection only comes into your own eyes and your own feelings towards the person you adore that badly... but that too it is a very short living ill feelings which wil lfade within no One and back to square ONE... :weep: :weep:

True i also believe that total perfection is not possible, but when u love some one u see them as the perfect human ( for u at least) thats why they say love is blind....

Honestly i think without the small imperfections it would be very boring ,,, i mean think of it ,,, everything so perfect ,,, nothing to correct each other about and nothing to fix\!!!!!

I don't believe in perfection, this is something doesn't exist at all. In all relation you can't have couples sharing and have exactly same preference (tough find it boring). Atleast having some common interests and respects the differences would be ideal for healthy and satisfying relation.