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silver_ring
23-06-03, 03:21 PM
i always feel to give a try again and again when i fail in some thing .. it does not make me weaker .. never

but the problem when you failed .. some faces appear to you trying to break your enthusiasm.....

what advice would you give to ppl who failed ? and ppl who laughs at them and trying to frustrate them ?

H-Highness
23-06-03, 03:36 PM
Failing is not end of the world and not shame........... actually it makes us even stronger.

So why bother with whatever people says, as long as you have learn thru your failure and willing to become a better person, I don't see a big fuss about it.

Dr N
23-06-03, 04:02 PM
It's soooo hard when you fail at doing something, esp. when you really try your best, but that should never ever stop you from trying again and again and again. The good side of it is that by this you now have an experience and you get to learn from your mistakes and it helps making a better person out of you!!
And if someone laughs at you because you failed, then this is just plain sick!! Remember, he who laughs at the end shall laugh longer!! Never listen to those who make fun of people, on the contrary, I feel sorry for those, because they don't understand the meaning of challange, which gives life a better taste!

DeSerTDesTroYeR
23-06-03, 04:28 PM
Failure... does accure in our lives and we get to deal with it. But thats no the difficult part, rather then that its getting up again and continuing what we started or we are trying to achieve with the same driven motivation.

Now about those who might try to discourage us and laugh for our failure. Its more likely they arent capable themselves to try something twice. Which makes them failures too. In such case its more like they are ironically laughing at themselves through someone else. So its kind of a pitty and we shouldnt be distracted by them. But if in different case and they are in usual success, then they might be merely aware of the courage needed to stand again and continue trying something. As they havent failed yet.

I believe that a person wouldnt learn the value of success until he/she fails.

mimosa
23-06-03, 05:02 PM
Keep smiling. Then when you've actually succeeded, tell the people who doubted you to go f*** themselves with a broken bannister :)

NaBHaN
23-06-03, 05:59 PM
one shouldnt care of what people say. so what if u fail ? pick urself up and try again , and prove to them that u can do it.

nothing comes easily in this life , and so u gotta work for what u want. u're bound to fail once or twice but if u try hard enough ..surely u'll succeed.

EviliO
24-06-03, 01:08 PM
One of our RESPECTED teachers was always saying...
"Practice makes perfect"

How can you learn things if you don't fail them??

Failing something just gives you the courage to overcome whatever you couldn't manage.... and surely at the end you gonna do it as long as you truely believe that you can do it.

People will laugh, people will talk ...etc
At the end... you'll be the one talking and laughing.... and those people will be looking at you with pride.

At the end it's U who is learning.... it's not them.
It's U who is building him self... not them.

Dr N
24-06-03, 01:18 PM
Originally posted by EviliO
One of our RESPECTED teachers was always saying...
"Practice makes perfect"


So true!!:rolleyes:

Believe in this and you will do well and even your greatest obstacle can be solved, all you need is to believe in yourself!

Navigator
24-06-03, 04:51 PM
One of our RESPECTED teachers was always saying...

So true!!

So wrong !!

Nobody's perfect ,, so why bother practicing !:rolleyes:

~*FaiThFuL*~
24-06-03, 10:22 PM
Dont care about what people say
there is nothing wrong with failing,
its somethin normal no1 is perfect and every1 faills every now and then, I think we learn from failing
and it makes us stronger and makes us work harder the next time
and as they say, what doesnt kill you makes you stronger

sea_waves
24-06-03, 10:24 PM
fail ,,,, is part of our life we like it or not,,,,
everybodymay fail in something ,,,,and this is the way that he/she will learn and be successful next time,,, otherwise ,,,, you will never learn ,,,,

and those who laugh at the failers ,,,, 100% one day in thier life the were falied ,,,,

so why they do such thing ,,,, inseted ,,,, they must help them to standup ,,, and try again and again tll they reach the taget

X-press
24-06-03, 10:28 PM
Not reaching yet our goal or dream doesn't necessarily means failing. Failing is when there is no more hope and I believe there is always hope.

So it is just the way we want to see it...some will see a glass half empty, while others will look at the same glass half full!

nana
25-06-03, 08:42 AM
well silver_ring, first of all you have to think of failling in doing something is gaining expereince, meaning that look for other ways to do it. this will allow or make you think of other ways and most time point out the mistakes. Come on if No one has failed then we wouldnt be able to see at night as Adison (i guess) failed many times before he came up with this invention of light.

Charmed
26-06-03, 12:28 AM
Having such a feeling can create a success out of it, as you can attempt to correct your mistakes and try to not to fail again.

silver_ring
26-06-03, 09:47 AM
first thanks a lot friends
secondly just to inform you guys .. i did not mean my self in this thread ...:)

lets hear more from you

Thug4Life
26-06-03, 09:20 PM
well I think its more like common sense here
If u fail once try again next time...if u fail again..try again...and if u keep on failing....hhehe keep On Trying! and never give up! Till u get it right! and always learn from ur mistakes...and try and correct them

Those who laugh at others failour are themselves failours in this Life...Aint even worth considering them or put them into ur account! U shall be better than them when u dont give up and the magic words again...Keep On trying!:gap:

q8moonlight
27-06-03, 12:59 AM
theres nothing wrong with failure & as everyone here said without failing we will never learn ..now im living my biggest failure moments in my life :rolleyes: :D well i know it's not the end of the word, all i have to do is to keep trying & never give up ..theres always another road for success, all you (or we) have to do is believe in our selves, never give up & do whats makes us comfortable with or whats best for us NOT for other people ..hey since when people don't talk :duh: ..the best way to deal with those people is listen what you like from them other wise hear from side then let it out from the other side :wink: :D

theres an arabic saying that i like it very much ..it say:
إن قيمة الشيء لا تعرف إلا من خلال نقيضه
so we'll never taste the pleasure of success unless failed someday ..cheer up :)