Whether we mean to or not, we tend to give ourselves credit for things that go well :color: , and we tend to blame others when things go awry :fire:

A disagreement was the other persons fault:angre: A wonderful night out as the product of our own efforts :color:

Understand that you are likely to see things this way and your partner is as well :duh:

If we can learn instead to graciously accept some of the blame and generously share the credit, we will be contributing to a happier relationship :color:


so what do you think ??!?!?!

you have quite a good point there. It is part of human nature to have such an attitude, but its not an absolute case. What your pointing for does exist and people do share credit.. and take responsibility of their actions.

It all falls back to the type of responsibility each one holds or carry. Some would take it seriously other would take it lightly. people vary, so such variation in such issue is expected.

It would be perfect if its that simple. Well, actually it is. Its just us who would make it complicated to implement. therefore, all which can be expected that each one would do their best to reach such a level with less selfishness and more aware of our surroundings.

Originally posted by sea_waves


If we can learn instead to graciously accept some of the blame and generously share the credit, we will be contributing to a happier relationship :color:



indeed. but why should one accept a blame if he or she isnt really guilty of what he/she's being accused?

i dont see why i should admit to a mistake i havent done..but if i know that i was mistaken in something..then i'll be the first one to apologise for it all.

Whether we mean to or not, we tend to give ourselves credit for things that go well , and we tend to blame others when things go awry

sadly that is very true . its just the way people are and nothing is really gonna change. not anytime soon at least.

oh well. :)

well ,,,,,,,, NaBHaN

belive me ,,, in a way or other ,,,,,,,,, we are guilty ,,, direct or indirect ,,,,

its just that we always try not to blame ourself ,,, even if we are 1%guilty ,,,,

and as DeSerTDesTroYeR said ,,,, its human nature ,,,,

but at least we can try

:confused: :confused:

ya DeSerTDesTroYeR ,,, at least we can do our best to perfect level ,,,,

well anyone who blames others for his/her mistakes is a failure. we should accept our mistakes as lessons we learn from. although , there are mistakes, we tend to get good lessons from them and the important lessons from our mistakes is not to repeat the same actions.