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Kamakazy
19-03-01, 10:15 AM
Why do we close our eyes when we sleep? When we cry?
When we imagine? When we kiss? This is because the most beautiful thing in the world is unseen.

We are all a little weird and life's a little weird and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.

There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind, but keep in mind that letting go isn't the end of the world, it's the beginning of a new life.

Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched and those who have tried.
For only they can appreciate the importance of the people who have touched their lives.

A great love? It's when you shed tears and still you care for him, it's when he ignores you and still long for him. It's when he begins to love another and yet you still smile and say I'm happy for you.

If love fails, set yourself free, let your heart spread its wings and fly again. Remember you may find love and lose it, but when love dies, you never have to die with it.

The strongest people are not those who always win but those who! ! stand back up when they fall.
Somehow along the course of life, you learn about yourself and realize there should never be regrets, only a lifelong appreciation of the choices you've made.

A true friend understands when you say, I forgot, waits forever when you say, just a minute, stays when you say leave me alone, opens the door even before you knock and says can I come in?

Loving is not how you forget but how you forgive, not how you listen but how you understand, not what you see but how you feel, and not how you let go but how you hold on.

It's more dangerous to weep inwardly rather than outwardly. Outward tears can be wiped away while secret tears scar forever.

In love, very rarely do we win but when love is true, even if you lose, you still win just for having the tingle of loving someone more than you love yourself.

There comes a time when we have to stop loving someone not because that person has stopped loving us but because we have found out that they'd be happier if we let go.

It's best to wait for the one you want than settle for one that's available.
Best to wait for the one you love than one who is around.
Best to wait for the right one because life is too short to waste on just someone.

Sometimes the one you love turns out to be the one who hurts you the most, and sometimes the friend who takes you into his arms and cries when you cry turns out to be the love you never knew you wanted.

samar
19-03-01, 05:45 PM
I've nothing to add.....kafeet wo wafeet bro....
Thanks for this "love philosophy" :)

samar

nzwani
20-03-01, 04:09 AM
Originally posted by Kamakazy


Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched and those who have tried.


salami to Kamakazy

Can I use your words ?? I want to send the same message
to a special friend of mine...especially the quoted part.

I am asking for you permission.


thanks.

Kamakazy
20-03-01, 08:30 AM
as you would say salami nizwani :)

FYI i got that pieace from my e-mail, which one of my friends forward to me... so it is not my words, its just words that has been foward on the e-mail. i wish to know who wrote it and if i did i would have included it in my post!

i guess that the person who wrote it wanted it to be read by all, u know, like those friendship write ups. so i guess there is no harm in qouting it, but just don't mention my name coz its not my work.

there will be more to come,

nzwani
21-03-01, 05:09 PM
salami to Kamakazy,,,

fair enough....thanks

SoMe1
24-03-01, 05:44 PM
I got this via email.. check it out and tell me what do you think.. i really think its KEWL


---------------------------------------To love is to risk rejection, to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk
failure.
But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risk nothin!
To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to
expose true self, to love is to risk not to be loved in return.
How to define love:fall but do not stumble,be constant but not too persistent,
share and never be unfair,understand and try not to demand,
hurt but never keep the pain.Love is like a knife.
It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that
always last for a lifetime.Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling.
It should inspire you and give you joy and strength.
But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.
Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be andwhere
they choose to be.For all the heartaches and the tears,
for gloomy days and fruitless years,you should give thanks,for you know,
that there were the things that helped you grow.
Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find his way,
whether it leads towards you or away from you.
Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter
how scary or painful, for only then you'll experience the fullness of
humanity and that is love.
Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart.
Only love can make you cry and only love knows why.If you're not ready to cry,
if you're not ready to take the risk,if you're not ready to feel the pain,
then you're not ready to fall in love.
There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love coz
everytime we do, we get hurt, then i figured that's why it's called
falling in love.Whatever happened, don't give up!It is just a trial.
After all God will not give you trial that you can't tackle.
Have faith in yourself and cheer up.
No matter what will happen, I'm always a friend at your back to supportyou..
with the right decision.
But then if it's the wrong track as to where you want to go..
i'm one of your greatest enemy.When you decide to love, allow it to grow.
When you promise to love, refuse to let it die!
"Words and hearts should be handled with care for words when spoken and
hearts when broken are the hardest things to repair...."

Miss Smiler
24-03-01, 08:49 PM
Hii all
kamakazy & some1...what a wonderful words that you have showed us its very nice....i don't know what to say more.just keep it up and whenevr you find nice things share it with us :)