al slaam alykom ..

the boring guys making a big problem in this days ..
any where u go they must follow u .. :lost:
.. and when u meet them .they never leave u . :rolleyes:

..talking to to much :angre:
and laughing with out reason ....and acting to be so smart .:gap:

i can't be with them ..but in same time i can't hit from them ..:weep:

what i can do....kill my self or screaming ....or setting in my home ...really i 'll become crazy if they still follow me


waiting ur comments:rolleyes:

Do something crazy. Maybe somersault down the main street in your city, or sing 'All that Jazz' dressed as a jazz queen in the town square.... oh wait! I have a better idea!!!! Kiss them! French kiss them!!!!

They wont want to know you, trust me.

(It always works for me...well sometimes):rolleyes:

raffee
i am not joking ...i am in problem ,,,what u think the best thing can i do?:rolleyes:

I think, you should sleep a day time, and wake up at night :P. But if they were "night owls", then sleep at 10 pm :P and wake up in the early morning! Do this until they think u r boring (in return) and leave u alone :P
I honestly understand how annoying this could get :P, but unfortunatly, you just have to avoid them till they get bored with u.
If they are following you, may be they think u r cool or something, may be u should act "un cool" from now on :P.
The truth is, the best solusion is to speak to them, if it didnt work, then you know what u have got to do :P.

Silver ring

are you male or female ?

Navigator are you male or female ?
:confused: i thought that u know me ....aany ways i am a male

just be honest with them ,,, nothing better than being honest ,, dont compliment them too much .. coz it will reflect badly on u ,,

you dont like the??? its very simple......tell them to bugger off or just ignore them and they will get the message.

I have friends like thats so i know what u mean....I tell them that i dont like them and to get lost but they think iam kidding and laugh....which sucks so I just didnt answer their calls and tried not to go to places they go too

Silver_ring, I agree with qais, just be honest and tell them to leave you alone as they are not your cup of tea.

We know it is not pleasant to hurt someone else's feeling, but sometimes we don't have any other choice for the message to go through. As qais said too, ignore them and don't answer their calls or accept their invitations. One day or another they will finally realize that you don't want their company.

well u cant really call them friends if you dont really like them. so i guess being honest with them and telling them what u really feel would be best. or if u dont want to do that..then u could have a shot by talk to them and point out some of the things u dont like about them and say that it annoys u . to change or not..it's then up to them .

hmm.....yup..i would agree with others honesty is the best..but some dont even understand that!

you can do something...:rolleyes: .....stick around them...as they stick around you...:cool: ..they r glued to u....you be more glued to them...ya3ni...basically annoy them....they r boring be more boring then them....

they will reach to a point.they will ask you whats wrong..and thats where the honest point comes up.....

good luck....:D :D :gap: :rolleyes: :D

yeah..but they are respect me too much and they love to be with me ...and when i gnore them or refuse their invitation...then maybe they 'll get hurt....the only problem is they are boring and they do not know what we can talk about ..u know some times they dent talk for more than half an hour ..imagin that...

and when some time when i be with my friends whihc i like ..thay come to me and telling me to leave my friends and come with me ....of cours i 'll not..but they made me mad and i can't controll my self ...but still i have to rspec them cuz they do....

now i have one week i did not meet them .. but i feel like i am hitten from some thing ..

Well I think u should be greatful that you have friends who really like u and care about you and enjoy your company because not everyone has the pleasure of having such caring friends. So you should respect them and view them as "True friends" - ones that will stand by your side through thick and thin.

Everyone needs time to themselves and dont always wanna go out with their friends, so maybe your problem is that your going out tooo much. Maybe if u only went out once a week or something then u would realize how much you really enjoy your friends too :) because i know that if u spend too much time with the same person it can get boring!

Soooo do what i said and see if it can help the situation :) ok?

Agree with you Morbid_Angel69 some time we don’t get true friend and we just searching for some one who talk and get fun with them

Well I think u should be greatful that you have friends who really like u and care about you and enjoy your company because not everyone has the pleasure of having such caring friends dearMorbid_Angel69

bcuz of that i posted this thread my dear ...

i dont know what to do ..ignore them ..or to stay with them and force my self to do that .....

bcuz i care i am confused ...its so easy to leave them from the biginning and get relax...but sabla's friends ..they use to give give nice soluations ....
any way thanks alot

You should stand by your friends side...by the way you have told the situation, it appears that they would do anything for u if you were in a problem - so stay by them and learn to appreciate their friendship.
Im sure we would all feel lucky to have that many friends who like spending their weekends and free time with us :) thats the beauty of life!

:o they are boring

silver_ring, you never know what you have until it is gone. Just because your friends do not talk all the time and can sit their quietly, does not mean that they do not know what to say... for some, it is a way to show a person how comfortable they are around you. They don't have to say anything, they are relaxed, they trust you. But you are not? It makes you uncomfortable when there is silence, why?

It looks like you are having one of those problems where you think that your other new friends are better than your "boring" old friends.
Their your friends mate, i think that you will notice that you are treating them differently and that they are really just being the way they always have been, and that possibly it is you that's changed not them.

now i have one week i did not meet them .. but i feel like i am hitten from some thing ..

You feel like you are being hidden from something - you know that you care for them - don't lose them, they are your friends. But they are not going to take you treating them badly for much longer i don't think.... they'll start to drift away :sorry:

This is wha I think:

You may be bored with your friends whom they respect and wants to spend time with you, just sit with them and talk about it... Tell them how you feel and what is bothering you rather than ignoring them..

Under any circumstance do not leave them you will never know how much your friends can change your life..

I will have to agree with Jumanjima.. we will never never, appreciate or value what we have until it is gone...

so you be very careful.. but never think of leaving them...

Originally posted by silver_ring
:o they are boring

Maybe becasue they find you boring, so they will get bored :D

IceTea
Maybe becasue they find you boring, so they will get bored

so smart

I have a different opinion and stayed at the beginning of this thread.

I do not agree that you should stay friend with someone, or a group of people, who you don't enjoy the company, but simply because they are all the time by your side.

In short, you are not honest with them and this is not right!

In life, we can not please everyone and at the end, unless you have a lots of time to loose, you should select who is right for you and vise-versa.