So sabla guys.......

Would you want to be with your wife when she went into delivery? In the room with her while your child is being born?

And sabla women.......

Would you want your husband to be present at the time?


I'll post my answer after you. ;)

Originally posted by runnin' around
So sabla guys.......

Would you want to be with your wife when she went into delivery? In the room with her while your child is being born?



it would depend...on the situation....i wouldnt mind being there with her....but i heard...usuall..the wife..feels like killing the husband in such situations..:rolleyes: :D

beside...if it had to go to caesarean then..i dont think anyone will be allowed in the room... :)

and again....if she wants me there..sometimes..they get this weird...thoughts..and say dont be there! :eek: ...but i will only know when it really comes...inshallah :D

gotta be there, should be there, must be there, shall be there, after all it takes two to tango.
the only problem is that hospitals outside Muscat don't allow husbands to be there (still living in the dark ages). but my daughter came out to the sounds of Blackstreet's "never gonna let u get away".

i have always said that i would like for my husband to be there when our child is born into this world..

of course i'll be there. i cant think of anything else that would bring me more joy than to actually be there for my child/childrens birth. and if they dont allow it in oman..then i will make sure that the baby is born somewhere where it is allowed. lol :D

My husband better be there......I'll drag him in by his hair if I have to. :gap: :p

Actually I like to think that he'd WANT to be there and would fight to get in..... that's what my dad did for my mom when my little brother was born. :)

Besides it's such a special, irreplaceable moment a couple share......

Never thought about it!:confused:
I don't know really! I guess when the time comes, then I'll be able to know exactly what I want! So I'll let you know then.:D

Yes I would love my husband to be present when I deliver my baby .... i know a lot of man don;t have the GUTS ... but for me he better have it!!!

I was there. C-section and all. I thought it was pretty interesting and a great experience, though coffee wasn't allowed in the surgery room.

If she wants me there then y not but I wouldnt let her hold my hands.

Y isnt the husband allowed in some hospitals?

He must have seen his wife naked a million times...or atleast once

aaaawwwwwwwwww...!
i really dint expect all of you guys to want to go into the delivery room!!!!

i heard that some men cant handle it!:wink:

i know a few who say that they wont go in.......even if their wife wants them to...?!?!

really guys...for all of you to agree...im shocked!:D

Originally posted by qais
Y isnt the husband allowed in some hospitals?
He must have seen his wife naked a million times...or atleast once

I'm SURE that's not the reason men r not allowed,
I think coz sometimes there r more than 1 lady
inside the delivery room ready 2 deliver..

About me, I'll be in that situation soon inshallah, but
I still didn't decide about being with my wife or not.

Originally posted by pharmacy113
About me, I'll be in that situation soon inshallah, but
I still didn't decide about being with my wife or not.

Something good might be on TV ?

Originally posted by Wanderer
Something good might be on TV ?

I didn't get ur point.

I agreed with my husband that when we have our baby he has to be there .. I cant think of me taking all that pain and him not beside me .. plus, he has to see how much I suffered and take good care of me later on :)

I shall attend it!!!

By the way
if u mean the husband should be around his wife in the whole process of delivary
well some MEN cant stand the sceen and they might faint!!!
some instead of helping cause more problems to the midwife and the doctor when they irritate and ask for pain reliefe for his wife ..asking many questions during the critical moment!!!

But as i said...personaly/....specialy first kid...I shall be there ;)

Sorry..that what simply I'll say to my wife inshallah. Because I dont wanna see her in pain but I'll be right outside that door waiting to hear baby crying where I'll sure go in to give my baby the 1st kiss inshallah.

Eventhough its one of precious moment in married couple's life but I dont wanna risk as ppl said earlier she can even kill you:D

Originally posted by Big MO
the only problem is that hospitals outside Muscat don't allow husbands to be there (still living in the dark ages).

who told u that Big Mo .. i have entered the delivery room but hay not to deliver but to attend as u know im a nusre and i studied abstartics and u know what .. some men were intering with their wives and they look soo cute do u knwo why?? coz he sees his wife suffer and he look confused what to do for her and try his best to calm her and she shouts at him... sometimes i cant stand for it and i smile ... but u knwo what?? i'll let u all wish to enter the delivery room u know why ?? coz the wonderful thing to see ur child and u listen to his first crying and everything is soo nice..
i remember a man couldnt hold it and he hugged his wife and cry ...

i wont finish telling all my stories .. hehehe
about me of course i wish my husband to be beside me in that difficult time if he wasnt there ..when well he be ???

well i have to be there for her,, and if i wasnt allowed to go in,, she wont give birth :D :D :D ,, i also want to take a pic of the baby before cutting that wire(i dont know what its called),, and i have to be with her through her hard time,,, and does anyone know if the doctor whom takes out the baby is a male or female??,, tara if its a male i wont have a baby :)

Hmmm its so very much indeed surprising to see that the men that we have here in the sabla are actually agreeing or willing to attend while their wives are delivering.. very very interesting.....!!!!

Well,, you know in Europe they even allow the husband to actually take his video camera in... where he can shoot the Childs birth from the very very scratch.

its very true,, here in Oman majority of the times they won’t allow the husband to be with his wife while she is delivering. and that’s of course for the following reasons:

1. As one of the members said belong more than one woman in the same room while delivering.

2. Many times the husbands tend to FAINT.. so instead of making it easy for the wife they just make it even worse!! :D

3. Sometimes its because the doctor would prefer being with her nurses and the husband being there is just occupaing space.

4. Maybe the WIFE does not want that !!

My cousin fainted BIG time when his wife was delivering ... we could not stop laughing out head of!!

Originally posted by Miss Naughty
who told u that Big Mo ..

miss naughty, i think you missed the word outside muscat. i know so many guys who wanted to be there but couldn't because of hospital regulations.

Cherry,
you're shocked!!!!!!!!
i think alot of the ladies in here didn't expect the positive response from the guys. hey we Omani men are romantic, supportive and understanding you know.

Would you want to be with your wife when she went into delivery? In the room with her while your child is being born?

And sabla women.......

Would you want your husband to be present at the time?



*** Definitely***

Originally posted by Big MO

Cherry,
you're shocked!!!!!!!!
i think alot of the ladies in here didn't expect the positive response from the guys. hey we Omani men are romantic, supportive and understanding you know.

right mo!....very!
listen to this...one guy went into the delivery room...his wife was giving birth.
the next day he divorced her!!! awena... he said i dont want my wife to go through it again!!!!!!!!!!l
loOl!

Originally posted by Cherry
right mo!....very!
listen to this...one guy went into the delivery room...his wife was giving birth.
the next day he divorced her!!! awena... he said i dont want my wife to go through it again!!!!!!!!!!l
loOl!

I heard something similer as well before cherry but the man did not divorce his wife but he actually refused having kids anymore after he saw his wife going through the first delivery!! :)

*WANDERER i did defintly get your point:D
and miss naughty i do agree with u in the last sentence if he aint with me than when will he be..
FOr me I guess it will be a difficult thing...but i wont allow any visists or i wont allow my family too see me in the days i am in the hospital...only my husband..and he better be there..or he will be slayed like the chicken..at least i can look at his face and smile and forget my pain till i can bring my baby to life:wink:

Originally posted by silent_captured
*WANDERER i did defintly get your point:D

Then why don't you tell me, coz I'm not that smart u c.

i guess i really want my husband to be there.it feels nice if he was around.u know that my cousin 's husband went in with her and he got very touched and when he came out he hugged his mom,it makes men feel for us but thats not the reason i want him around,i just want him next to me when iam in pain

dear pharmacy no offence..and i do truly belive that you are amart..but i can feel that u are angry at me..he was just jocking.hope u are not offenced..:wink:

Was it funny what I said??!!

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Nowadays it is normal to see a husband beside his wife when she is bearing their baby in the birth room.....So what do u think about that?? Is it a good idea or not?? & why??

Babies (http://www.englishsabla.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=11144)

:o Ooooops I didn't know that there was a thread discussing the same topic, so I'm so sorry dear sis...I think Mods know what they have to do;) .