once i remember there was a topic about how do u deal with ur anger...it would be nice if u gave me an overview about this again... However My aim here is not this!

I wonder...what r the things that realy makes u angry...
I mean the ultimate things...??

and when u realy cant forget at all and never Forgive in some specific situations???

When u r angry u loos ur own self...and then U might go through actions that U might later regret....Careful guysss!!

:fire: anger ha
well, let me start with the things that make me angry! its not that easy to make me angry and loose my tember but when i do get angry i keep it inside and stay silent as i dont want to explode on anyone. one reason for that is that i dont like that to happen to me!

things that get me angry is lying and if anyone betrays me! i get really angry then. i also get angry if someone tries to humilate me in front of ppl i respect and they respect me!

:gap:

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I get angry when people start gossiping about other people behind their backs, especially if it is someone thats very close to me! I hate the way people pretend to be nice to people when they are around but behind their backs they are like "did u see her hair" or "did u see the way he was dressed!" etc...I cant stand it!

:6: When im angry, i usually keep it to myself too and i go really quiete especially if im not comfortable around the person im angry at. But if i know the person well or its someone from my family, i'll probably start shouting at them for a while and then end up crying coz being angry is something difficult for me to handle....:mad:

crying :weep: is a good thing to do when u r angry as it releaves stress. however, its sooo hard for me to cry. last time i cried was 6 or 7 years ago....:lost:

what r the things that realy makes u angry...

When people I care about get hurt.
When men attack women! :angre:
When someone is unjust.
When people judge me.
When people insult Islam.
.......... there are tons of things. :duh: (And yeah they're all ultamite, lol)

and when u realy cant forget at all and never Forgive in some specific situations???
Hmm..... I try to be a forgiving person. It's easier to forgive than to forget........ I'd say I couldn't forgive someone that betrayed my trust...... or someone that I forgave for something and they did it again...


When u r angry u loos ur own self...and then U might go through actions that U might later regret

The only thing I can't control is my mouth when I'm angry. :rolleyes: But for the most part I like being big mouthed when I'm angry because they usually deserve it.

Well I can get really angry sometimes!
If someone acts with me in an arrogant manner, gosh now this really drives me crazy! I can't stand someone who thinks that he/she is better than others, we're all people and we all have our good and bad points!
If someone I trust betrays me!
If someone hurts those who are close to my, and if unjust!
Runny, I guess we're pretty much the same!
And most of the times, I just prefer to keep it to myself, but if it really goes over the limit then I can start fighting and I would say everything that I want to, and it really feels good! But then I start to feel bad about it, and start blaming myself!!

I Really get mad when some one i love hurts or betrays me ( my trust), or hurts someone special to me. My sister amd brother always sey that its nice the way i am protective about them.

I used to have a very bad temper b4, i tries fixing it by keeping it inside me,,,, which was very unhealthy, which lead me to stay alone and cry alot. But these days i just play it calm, and answer ppl in a very cold maner if i am really angrythen walk away. (but i still cry!!!).. ....

Life is too short to waste time tollerating ppl that make u mad! ,,, they simply dont deserve all the tenssion and stress we put our selves in! do they???

I noticed that the measure focus here is betrayal and Trust
secrets and Friendship...

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I noticed that the measure focus here is betrayal and Trust
secrets and Friendship...

Thugy, that ofcourse is the most general reason for getting angry, unless you're being publically disgraced by someone (sarcastic, I know!)

But, something that really turns me off is when someone you know goes about back-stabing everyone including you. I wouldn't really care if he's only doing it to me (I'll stop telling him stuff then!), but when he does stuff like that to people I know and am friends with, it really puts me off! It's human but that's highly immature. There are loads of people who go about doing, without even knowing that they are.

Think of any solutions other than back-stabbing him!?! :gap:

Originally posted by Night_rideR


Think of any solutions other than back-stabbing him!?! :gap:

that made me Think
in status of anger That might last for sometime eigther resolves FAST or Stays with u for some time and in some cases might last with u forever!!!!!

Now if some one stabs U!! will U stab him/her back!!!!>???