How to find out if a woman is crying for a real reason or only using her tears to get something out of the man ? What are the methods and procedures to discover the secrets behind women tears ?

nice topic ,,I can't resisit not replying ,,

How to find out if a woman is crying for a real reason or only using her tears to get something out of the man ??
*u will find out the reason just after she gets what she wants ,,
her mood will change very quickly afetr gaining the her purpose.


What are the methods and procedures to discover the secrets behind women tears ?
**to speak about it in general ,,, I think there more than one type of tears,, (( I know all comes form the eye but for different cases))

it might be for being happy ,,,
& u will feel it is a real tears ,not pretending one ,, every man can feel it ..

***it might be as u said to get something out .,,,
for examplae ,, in case of not married ,, if u tell her I will leave u for strong reasons u got ,, she will start crying to make u change yr mind or plan ,,,(( getting yr sympathetic ))
she will cry ((sometimes without tears)) til u become soft & give her what she wants ,, then in few seconds u will feel her as a different person ,,, quite strange but this happenes ,, !!!!!

women tears !!!

they use it ,,when the traditional methods are not working with men ,,coz women tears alwayas work with men ,,man can don nothing when see those tears !!

Men been given strength in their arms ,,chest ,,,,etc ,,in contrast women's strength is in their tears !!

You can find out if they are real tears ,,if you know her very well ,,
so i think in most the times men know that she's just pretending but they can not help it !!

...just ask the lady what are the raisons for her to cry. If you feel that these raisons are valid enough to make her so sad, then her crying might be genuine. If you feel that her behaviour is exaggerated and looks a bit fake, then maybe she is just trying to catch your attention.

These are all maybe(s) as some women are more emotional than others. I personally dislike to see anyone crying just for the sake of it!

As for trying to catch a man's attention there are other more clever way than shed tears.

;) Firstly, i'd like to point out that women who fake their tears gives women like ME a very very bad name :6:
I mean I respect myself and I wouldnt lower myself to the point of :weep: crying! Thats pathetic!

I mean I only cry for a reason, and i dont force myself to. So please dont generalize and say that all women do so to get what they want - coz simply, we do not!

Anyway, how to know if she is faking????
Ummm, i dont know really - never tried it and never will!! So cant say!

women tears..... :weep: tell me about them!!
believe me it is really hard to know if she is faking it or not (like other things in life they do:duh: ) .. one thing i do is never respond to thier demands when they are crying.. try to calm them down and make em stop crying first which gives u time to think about what is asking for!!:gap:

i believe that when a woman cries it only comes out of true and strong emotions. so every tear is real.

well..i agree with you Boy...if there is something serious they cry but if there is nothing how can they..its not that easy to bring tears out..you should be hurted to do that :P

Originally posted by IceTea
How to find out if a woman is crying for a real reason or only using her tears to get something out of the man ? What are the methods and procedures to discover the secrets behind women tears ?

What a stupid question man! A human is not a puzzle with one right one answer. Every human has different ways of crying or so. We tend to have different behaviors too.

PS/ Small kids normally ask those questions. Did anyone ask that though ? :D

Hmmmm
I tend not to agree with B.I and AmoOor !

Coz yeah sometimes it is fake :eyes: , crocodile tears :rolleyes:
Oh well how can u know? U don't untill it's finished :D

Well middle east everyone has his idea, so i don't think at all it's stupidity that matters here! but the opinioun!!

u have one btw?

i dont agree with u boy and amoor..
of course some of them fake it. well, i dont mean they force themselves to produce tears but act and make themselves look sooo poor heart-tearing innocent creature!! tears then will be just thier make-up!!

:gap: :gap:

Originally posted by Navy_boy
she will cry ((sometimes without tears)) til u become soft & give her what she wants ,, then in few seconds u will feel her as a different person ,,, quite strange but this happenes ,, !!!!!

This is quite true Navy_boy :)

Originally posted by Navigator
Men been given strength in their arms ,,chest ,,,,etc ,,in contrast women's strength is in their tears !!
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I tend to agree with this too.


I don't agree with B-I and amoor, if you believe that every tear comes out of women eyes is real then this what women wants you to believe to make their teras always real but it's not the case always. So I will say you don't have experience in women tears and you need a course in that :p.

Middle East, if you think the question is stupid then simply don't reply and spare me wasting my time replying to you.


Any more comments on the crocodile tears ?

Originally posted by BoY-iNterrupted
i believe that when a woman cries it only comes out of true and strong emotions. so every tear is real.

I like that statement:)

I like that statement

no wonder why !!:rolleyes:

Originally posted by Navy_boy
no wonder why !!:rolleyes:


WHY??????

coz it in girlz side selma ,,

Originally posted by selma
I like that statement:)

Do you like it because it's true or because it hides the secrets of women tears ?

Originally posted by IceTea
Do you like it because it's true or because it hides the secrets of women tears ?

which one do you think

Originally posted by selma
which one do you think

The one which you don't like.

Originally posted by IceTea
The one which you don't like.

which is ?!:gap:

well there differnt type of women ......... some of them r so sesitive that they cant hold on and burst crying .........:weep: ........and others r toom strong and they hide thier sadness in thier hearts .......... it really depends on the person and the reason ..........coz not always wonmen cry there must be a reason of that ......... and that may be coz of leaving , death , or sth really bad ..........:rolleyes:

I find it so difficult to believe that any person, woman or man, would cry just to get attention. A child perhaps might, but an adult that resorted to such tactic is simply childish and silly.

I also hate it when others question the sincerity of someone elses tears. There is nothing so insulting as to doubt the genuine tears of someone else!:angre:

Put yourself in such a position! You are crying out of pain/sadness/ anger/grief or whatever, and someone questions the genuineness of your tears!!! How slighting!!!!!!

Originally posted by IceTea
Do you like it because it's true or because it hides the secrets of women tears ?

Icy & Mody,

i like it because it is true

and yes, we can tell when a person is faking a cry:weep:

Originally posted by selma
Icy & Mody,

i like it because it is true

As expected.

Originally posted by selma
and yes, we can tell when a person is faking a cry:weep:

How can you tell ?

And it might be easy for a woman to find out, but could be difficult for a man as women are great actors sometimes.

Originally posted by IceTea
As expected.

typical answer

Originally posted by IceTea
How can you tell ?

And it might be easy for a woman to find out, but could be difficult for a man as women are great actors sometimes.

I would say those man are fools

we men got hard when it comes to women. it's no win situation. if we show compasion and understanding we'll be taking for a ride. and if we don't then we are uncaring horrible beasts. women are like children just agree with what they say.

Interesting.

Originally posted by selma
I would say those man are fools

why do we blame men if they are fooled in the first place by women. Or is it becasue men trust their women and care about their sensitivity so they deserve bad treatment from them.

Originally posted by IceTea
why do we blame men if they are fooled in the first place by women. Or is it becasue men trust their women and care about their sensitivity so they deserve bad treatment from them.

Crying is a bad treatment?

Originally posted by IceTea
why do we blame men if they are fooled in the first place by women. Or is it becasue men trust their women and care about their sensitivity so they deserve bad treatment from them.

i agree with u icy....
women dont cry unless they know that thier tears will have an effect on men and can get what they want. the tears might be sincere but what is her intention .............. God knows?!

yes selma they are bad treatment?! man does his best to treat his women well and make the best there is but they dont tend to have enough and starts crying !!:weep: lots of faces they have :color:

:gap:

Originally posted by Modi

yes selma they are bad treatment?! man does his best to treat his women well and make the best there is but they dont tend to have enough and starts crying !!:weep: lots of faces they have :color: :gap:

Hey..

A woman does a lot to be appreciated... it is just man are blind..
wyh don't you read this:

Originally posted by Big MO
we men got hard when it comes to women. it's no win situation. if we show compasion and understanding we'll be taking for a ride. and if we don't then we are uncaring horrible beasts. women are like children just agree with what they say.

Originally posted by selma
Crying is a bad treatment?

right but women still following this path ...

Originally posted by IceTea
right but women still following this path ...

Yes, that what differentiates them from men

This is why women are called gods most sensitive creatuers,,, because they cry. and the reasons u guys stated are not true the real reasons are that women cry when they feel:

1. unapriciated: Oh god the things we do for u guys and we get what? ,,, ignorence!!! ,,,,, not the kind of thing that we were looking for!! :duh:

2. Hurt: Alot of men dont think b4 the say or do something,, and then its " sorry, babe i didnt mean to hurt u" .......a second later ,,,, " ok i said i was sorry" .......

3. extreeeeeaaaaaaaaamly happy: i dont have any explenation for this its just total joy. ,,, i guess

Would u give me a reason why we shouldnt cry in such situations???

Well I don't know, but I feel that men have it tough. Society sort of expect men to be more tough in emoti0nal situations and they are not allowed to grieve. They are expected to be the pillar that the rest of the family can lean on. Therefore they tend to express their sadness in other ways, one of which is anger!
Women these days say they want a guy that is not afraid to cry.............. but they really don't.
As for women using their tears to manipulate men, aren't we a bit old for these games! I believe if communication exists between the couple neither will need to resort to these tactics and will just say what's on their mind

Originally posted by Trauma
Well I don't know, but I feel that men have it tough. Society sort of expect men to be more tough in emoti0nal situations and they are not allowed to grieve. They are expected to be the pillar that the rest of the family can lean on. Therefore they tend to express their sadness in other ways, one of which is anger!
Women these days say they want a guy that is not afraid to cry.............. but they really don't.


I totaly agree with what you've said about men. It is true, when growing up boys are told to be MEN and not to cry like girls. That's at home. Then they go out and other boys pick on them and bully them if they act even a little sensitive. Well you know what I think that type of teaching/thinking sucks!
Boys are just as human as girls, should be allowed to release they're emotions just as girls do. So WHAT if they were created with a male body? Does that take automaticaly take away their emotions too? :duh:
Boys/guys go through a tough time. Sometimes I think they have it worse than girls do because of all the pressure to be a MAN. What is a man anyway? An emotionless creature?
About that part about women wanting a guy that cries..... I wouldn't want a guy that bawled at movies all the time but I wouldn't want one that felt he couldn't cry when something bad has happened to him either.
I take that back, if he wants to cry at sappy movies so be it. We'll share tissues. :p

I like this sabla :D:p

u're talking abt women crying as if it were sth bad to do.. some said that men's strength lies in their masculars while women's in their tears.. soooooo, it's fair enough! that is: since we don't have a better way other than crying to show our helplessness then what's in that?!

and anyway, a man is not prohibited from crying.. it's sth natural.. the only unnatural thing "I believe" is a man pressing his nerves & torturing himself as not to show how tired he is..

we all feel tired throughout different stages of our lives.. little drops of tears will heal alot of our burdens.. we need some moments of relieving.. and each has his/her own way of doing so..

All in All >>> it's a bless "ni3ma" to be able to shed some tears.. some ppl wish they could cry.. al7amdulillah :)

!_!